[Night Reading] is the best way to change your thinking
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[Night Reading] is the best way to change your thinking
[Night Reading] is the best way to change your thinking
[Night Reading] is the best way to change your thinking
When it's hard to understand others, you might as well put yourself in their shoes Issue 505
[Night Reading] is the best way to change your thinking
I have read such a passage: It is not talent or diligence that determines the difference between people, but the mode of thinking.
The level of a person's thinking determines the state of his life.
[Night Reading] is the best way to change your thinking
Tear down your own walls
There is no one in this world who has a smooth road to success.
When a road doesn't work, you might as well adjust your thinking in time and find another way.
In fact, there is a wall in everyone's heart that blocks our footsteps.
It could be an old mindset that shackles your judgment of things, or it can be an inherent experience that binds the way you do things.
In the midst of a high wall, you are like a self-bound person, closed in a small world.
When you are helpless about a problem, instead of staying in the same place, you should simply tear down the wall of thinking.
If you can't figure it out, you can think about it from a different angle, and if you can't take the road that doesn't work, then try to turn a corner.
Learn to break the stereotype, and every time you tear down a wall, there is an extra path in life.
[Night Reading] is the best way to change your thinking
[Night Reading] is the best way to change your thinking
Throw away the ruler in your hand
Everyone grew up in a different environment, received an education, and was in a different situation.
Blindly instilling one's own ideas will only annoy others and annoy oneself at the same time.
In life, everyone has their own tastes and ways of living.
What you think is a good road may be the thorny road in other people's hearts, and what you think is a wonderful life, maybe the other party only thinks it is noisy and boring.
In this world, there is no such thing as a completely identical life, and everyone's definition of success is different.
No matter what others choose, don't ask them for what you think.
Throwing away the ruler in your hand and allowing others to be others is a sober way of thinking.
[Night Reading] is the best way to change your thinking
[Night Reading] is the best way to change your thinking
Put yourself in the shoes of others
In reality, there are many different experiences, and less are the same joys and sorrows.
When you're having trouble understanding others, think about it.
From the perspective of others, it is often easier to perceive the feelings of the other person and understand the other person's mind.
In fact, in life, everyone will meet people or things that are difficult for them to accept.
Rejection and complaining will only make you more troubled.
When you can empathize, you will be more understanding and more tolerant.
In the sea of life, not everyone you meet will have the same experience as you.
When you stand in the other person's position, you can naturally feel the joys and sorrows of the other party and gain sincerity.
Whether it is being a person or doing things, it is often necessary to empathize and consider from multiple angles.
Learn to look at the problem from a different standpoint, and those people and things that can't figure it out will eventually give you a satisfactory answer.
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[Night Reading] is the best way to change your thinking
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Xu Jiawei, anchor of "Jiangle News", is a member of the Poetry Recitation Branch of the Sanming Writers Association
[Night Reading] is the best way to change your thinking
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