The education of parents is really important for children and can even affect a child's life.
After watching this father's education, I was really shocked, how can such a sensible father not educate his children well?
The son does not teach the father, this father has done too well
On April 8, a father in Hangzhou posted a video with the first sentence "The son is not the fault of the father."
Next, the father explains why he said this.
It turned out that his son was playing games on his mobile phone, and he charged more than 6,000 yuan in ten minutes, which is a month's salary for ordinary people.
Judging from the video, Mr. Zhang's son is not very old, probably in elementary school, and he doesn't know what 6,000 yuan means.
Mr. Zhang's son charged far more than the 6,000 yuan in the game.
According to Mr. Zhang's description, in just two days, his son charged more than 13,000 in the game.
And after recharging once, the game becomes an automatic password-free payment, as long as the child clicks on it, it will be successfully recharged.
In a day or two, two months' salary was charged, and Mr. Zhang, as a father, was naturally very angry.
However, Mr. Zhang did not blame his son at the first time, but first found the problem from himself.
In order to punish himself for his mistakes, Mr. Zhang directly slapped himself ten times, each of which was very hard. Through the screen, I could feel that Mr. Zhang was in pain.
Mr. Zhang's son respects his father very much, and has been trying to hold Mr. Zhang with his hand when Mr. Zhang slapped himself.
Even though his son and friends kept blocking him, Mr. Zhang still slapped himself ten times.
Mr. Zhang's son was very anxious watching from the sidelines, but he couldn't stop his father, so he should be very sad in his heart.
Next, Mr. Zhang's statement was even more moving.
Mr. Zhang said that even if he went bankrupt in business, he would be fine, but he couldn't control his son and was sorry for everyone.
Mr. Zhang's words were very moving, and in his opinion, his son's education is far more important than business.
Mr. Zhang didn't say a word about his son during the whole process. Mr. Zhang's son stood aside the whole time and did not say a word.
But I think Mr. Zhang's education method is far more useful than pulling a child over and beating him.
He used his practical actions to tell his son what it means to "the son does not teach the father's fault". Although Mr. Zhang's son didn't say a word later, I believe that he must have realized his mistake.
Mr. Zhang's move must have left a deep impression on his son's heart, and he believes that the same mistake will never be made again.
Mr. Zhang's education method is something that ordinary people can't learn
Mr. Zhang is in business, and the more than 10,000 yuan recharged by his son is not much for him.
However, for ordinary families, more than 10,000 yuan is two months' salary, and there is no way to communicate calmly like Mr. Zhang, and it is definitely a beating.
Although ordinary people can't learn Mr. Zhang's education method, his educational philosophy is indeed worth learning from everyone.
Parents are their children's first teachers, and it is important to teach by example. What he says is the same as what he does in his hands, and the child will be convinced.
You can't say that you want your child to do your homework, but you are playing a game with your mobile phone, in this case, the child is naturally not convinced.
The game company replied that it would take 10 days to process it
For the recharge of minors, the state has always been very strict.
In the past, there were many anchors who would instigate minors to recharge and tip, and they were all severely punished.
The same goes for game companies, although they want to make money, minors can't make money.
After Mr. Zhang called the police, the game company also responded urgently, saying that it would take 10 days to deal with it.
I think that there are so many precedents of successful refunds, and the money recharged by Mr. Zhang's son will definitely be returned.
Netizens' opinions
For minors to recharge the game, it can be said that it is deeply disgusting.
In the face of the temptation of the game, adults can't help but recharge into it, not to mention minors whose values are not yet mature.
Not only Mr. Zhang's son, but many netizens said that their children had similar experiences.
Some netizens suggested that the game could be canceled.
This suggestion is obviously unrealistic, the game is a product of the development of the times, and it cannot be banned at all.
In addition, game companies will also provide a large number of jobs, and at the same time bring a lot of tax revenue to the state, which can only regulate operations, not completely prohibit them. There are also many people who need to use games to decompress and relieve the fatigue caused by work.
To put it bluntly, the problem is not with the game, but with the education of the parents.
When the post-90s generation was young, although there were no computer games, there were many game halls all over the street, and there were many students who skipped class to go to the game hall, and their parents hated it.
But even so, the post-90s generation has grown up and has begun to contribute to society.
Therefore, instead of restricting children from playing games, it is better to think about how you can give your children a rich life in the spiritual world and prevent them from becoming addicted to games.
Write at the end
I agree with Mr. Zhang's educational philosophy, and what I feel sorry for is not the money, but the poor education of my own children.
If every parent can have such a high level of awareness, how can there be so many troubled teenagers?