It's good to meet bad colleagues at work, but it's a bad thing to meet a bad leader.
After all, colleagues are at the same level, and there is no way to instruct you to do this and that, but the leader can use his power to make you feel bad openly and secretly.
As an ordinary worker in us, there are no resources, just do your job well, as for the leader to give you problems, you have to learn to follow the process, so that he has nothing to say. But don't be tough, because if you do this, you're going to be hitting a stone and you're looking for trouble.
When the leader finds something to do for you, and it just wastes a little time of your time, and there is no other impact, don't be emotional, and go and do it according to the process.
If it has a great impact on you, it is time to be more serious, and if it does not meet the requirements, you can bring it up and keep evidence for yourself. Resist when you should resist, so that the other party has nothing to say, because what you say is justified, and he will be afraid.
It's normal to encounter bad people and bad things, but don't be furious because you don't have the slightest impartiality. You need to know that your energy is spent on things that are valuable and meaningful to you, not wasted on worthless people and things.
Meaningless people and things, don't talk about them, just laugh and walk away, there is no need to put your energy on these things.
Don't just stare at the losses in front of you and be indignant, let the small losses go with him, because you have more important and valuable things to do, and there is no need to block your path of pursuing your goals because of stumbling blocks.
When you encounter something unfair, ask yourself what your goal is in doing so, whether you want to dwell on the bad people and bad things to the end, or take a little time to solve it quickly, and then use the time saved to do things related to your long-term goals.
When you have a question, ask why, what is your goal in doing this, and does it have anything to do with your real inner goal? It doesn't matter, just turn around and leave.
People think differently from person to person, someone is a villain, that is, a person who can't see the good of others, so what are your principles of being a man? If you don't have the same path, turn around and walk away, just stay away, and find your own true like-minded people.
A person with a bad heart will always have someone who is better than him, so there will always be someone who looks down on him and cleans him up.
Always tell yourself: "Use your energy on things that are valuable, things that can make you grow, people and things that are not valuable, and prevent you from growing, shut up, smile and walk away".
Only when you grow up and become stronger will you get farther and farther away from the villain. When you are not strong enough, don't bother to hit the hard, but should solve the problem calmly and smoothly on the surface, but always know in your heart that you have to be strong and powerful before you have the ability to fight back.
If you follow the trend, you can solve the bad people and bad things, which is the most clever way.