The road of life is destined to be lonely, even painful and tormenting.
Only by allowing yourself to learn to cross by yourself can you survive and survive.
In the end, by yourself, you can also find an exit from life, a way out of life.
As the old saying goes: "Although the rain is wide, it does not moisten the grass without roots, and although the Dharma is wide, it does not save the people who have no fate." ”
It can be said that the antidote to life is always in your own hands, not in the hands of others.
A smart person knows how to keep himself sober and rational enough, and he will slowly open up a blue sky on his own.
The more difficult the times, the more you have to rely on yourself, do your own crossing, live bravely, and grow up.
As Nietzsche said:
"Whoever cannot destroy me will make me strong. ”
In this way, the more frustrated you are, the more courageous you are, the stronger you are, and the more independent you are living the life you want.
It is said in the Buddhist scriptures: "All kinds of suffering, only self-transcendence." ”
In life, even if there are ups and downs, ups and downs, gains and losses, success or failure, you have to rely on yourself to do it.
Then, grow little by little, become stronger again and again, and eventually you will be glad for the original choice and live a better life.
Self-crossing is the best way to live
There are thousands of ways to live, but the best way to live is to be able to live better and better by yourself.
Because in the years of self-transcendence, a person can become stronger and more independent.
In this way, in the face of helplessness and bitterness, loneliness and loneliness in life, you can still rely on yourself to dispel and release.
A person who knows how to cross oneself is restrained in his heart, rational in his life, and can also be said to be quite mature.
At least in their world, there are no absolutes, everything is actually changing.
As Balzac once said:
"Things in the world are never absolute, and the results vary completely from person to person. ”
Then, if you face how much suffering and tiredness in life, you will never run away, but dare to cross yourself from beginning to end.
Indeed, those who have the courage to cross their own life will be full of infinite possibilities, and there will be all kinds of opportunities in life.
In this way, we can grow and succeed on our own while in the process of self-redemption.
When we become more and more educated and our conduct becomes more and more reliable, we will naturally win more and more people's support and recognition for ourselves.
In the end, show your own firm sense of belief and truly achieve your own success.
Writer Ding Ling once said:
"People, as long as they have a belief and a pursuit, they can endure any hardship and adapt to any environment. ”
We must always believe that every person we look very strong has actually spent a period of darkness behind them, no one to help, no one to support, and no one to ask for warmth.
It is precisely because of coming out of the darkness and pain that I was finally able to cross myself and heal myself.
In this way, I won the life and way I wanted.
In addition to self-ferry, nothing else can help him
Life is originally your own thing, and you can't rely on others.
Because it is a very simple truth, that is, everyone will run, and the mountains will fall.
A wise person will never be entangled in his relationship with others, but know how to let go of himself and not consume himself.
As Dong Yuhui once said:
"A truly wise person does not fulfill others, but knows how to let go of himself. ”
When people let go of themselves, they are actually looking for more opportunities for themselves.
Because while letting go of yourself, the whole person is relaxed, the state is relaxed, and you will take the initiative to lower your expectations and let yourself move forward calmly.
From beginning to end, I will not make myself pay a more painful price for the sake of the so-called face and self-esteem.
Therefore, people who know how to know themselves and can reconcile with themselves will become more and more calm and calm.
The writer Yishu once said:
"The most difficult thing for a person to let go of is face, and the most useless thing is face. The more you care about it, the heavier it becomes, making it difficult for you to move. ”
In the process of self-transit, people actually encounter problems, find problems, and deal with problems.
In this way, honing oneself and exercising oneself in things is ultimately polishing oneself and perfecting oneself.
Mr. Ji Xianlin once said:
"There are thousands of scenes in the world, joys and sorrows, ups and downs, except for self-crossing, no one else can help. ”
In this life, there is no better way than to cross yourself.
Make yourself more cautious, low-key, down-to-earth, and strive to build a good character, excellent habits, tenacious will, and self-discipline.
Slowly, you will find that you are slowly maturing in the process of self-crossing little by little, and you are slowly becoming successful and strong.
For the rest of your life, you must know about self-ferry
Kazuo Inamori once said:
"Life is like wading through a minefield full of temptations, and when we walk through it, we will more or less touch all kinds of "mines".
It's something that can't be avoided. Whenever we hit a mine, what kind of reflection we can carry out is the key. ”
Life is always full of unknowns, and life is also full of possibilities.
A person with an optimistic attitude and a sunny and confident mind will definitely make himself slowly stronger.
Even in the process of growing up, it is inevitable to encounter all kinds of problems and challenges, dilemmas and pitfalls.
However, as long as you dare to face it and have the courage to take it, then you can bear it, endure it, and get through it.
In the end, in the years of self-transcendence, no matter where he goes, he is shining and radiant.
As Rabindranath Tagore put it:
"The suffering, the losses you have suffered, the responsibilities you have beared, the sins you have carried, and the pain you have endured today will eventually become light and illuminate your path. ”
For the rest of your life, don't be afraid of this and worry about that, but always maintain the confidence and courage you deserve.
In this way, when it is time to act, act bravely, and when it is time to rest, also rest in time.
Anyway, in the process of self-crossing, we must believe that only by ourselves can the years shine and life shine.
There is a sentence in "Send You a Horse":
"What is the heart, there is like a thousand miles of maze, thousands of miles away, there is no boat to cross people, except for self-crossing, others can not help. ”
Life is like a bowl of soup, with mixed tastes, sweet and sour, and you can only taste it by yourself.
Only by relying on oneself, self-transcending joys and sorrows, and moving towards self-healing, can fate truly favor oneself and make one's own life more steady, more calm, and more comfortable.