The current education is sick, where is the disease?
In an interview, Internet celebrity professor Dai Jianye used 10 words to describe it: "There is educational anxiety in the whole society!"
In the course of the interview, Professor Dai Jianye mentioned a chill down the spine, that is, "there are too many children with depression in primary and secondary schools, whether in the city or in the countryside, there is educational anxiety at the whole social level." ”
According to the 2023 Blue Book of Mental Health in China, the detection rate of depression among high school students is 40%, the detection rate of depression among junior high school students is 30%, and the detection rate of depression among primary school students is 10%.
According to the "2022 National Blue Book of Depression", depression patients under the age of 18 in mainland China account for 30.28% of the total number. In the group of depressed patients, 50% of depressed patients are school students, and 41% have been suspended from school due to depression.
In 2023, a parent posted on the Internet that in the sophomore class of his son's high school, there are 29 classmates taking antidepressant medicine, while there are only 50 people in a class. Isn't it scary to see how our children's spirit is on the verge of collapse.
In the film and television drama "Little Huanxi", Yingzi's mother has an almost perverted obsession with Yingzi, controls the child's study and life, and imposes her own ideas on Yingzi. When Yingzi wanted to go to Nanjing University, she was blocked in every way. Especially the suicide of Ding Yi in the play, which caused Yingzi to have mental problems and suffer from depression. ran away from home alone, and even committed suicide by jumping into the river in the end.
In an interview, Professor Dai Jianye elaborated on this issue: "At present, many parents and their children are still in kindergarten, and many cram schools are arranged on Saturdays and Sundays. "Many parents who 'hope that their sons will become dragons and their daughters will become phoenixes' have placed too high expectations on their children: "We must let our children be admitted to prestigious schools!211 guarantee, strive for 985!It is the best to go to Beiqing!"
In order to realize the dream in his heart, he did not realize it, so he put all the attention on the child, and kept the child's immature shoulders bearing the unbearable weight.
A person has to enroll in more than a dozen interest classes, such a crazy situation appears around us, and today's children, almost everyone has to study thirteen or fourteen hours a day. They soak in the ocean of knowledge every day, which makes us feel reassuring, and in fact, the physical and mental destruction of children is self-evident.
In the past, we were shocked and unbelievable at such a situation, but now it seems that everyone has accepted the fact that it cannot be changed. That's a sad thing. Why can't we make it easier for our children's shoulders?
"You didn't get into a prestigious school yourself, why do you want your child and daughter to be admitted to a prestigious school?"
"You can't let your sons and daughters do what you're supposed to do in life!"
"Children are not an accessory to our lives, they are independent individuals with their own consciousness and ideas. They have no obligation or responsibility to make up for the regrets in our lives. ”
Professor Dai Jianye believes that parents' excessive expectations are a social pathology, and the mental health problems brought to children are unpredictable and frightening - depression patients under the age of 18 account for 3% of all depression patients, and they are only so young children, they have to bear the unbearable weight, shouldn't we reflect on it?
The child is also an independent individual, and also has his own thoughts, and also has his own rights to pursue, what reason do our parents have to ruthlessly deprive him of his rights and restrain his thoughts? Everyone should have their own path, and we are just a companion, shouldn't we let the child live a more relaxed and comfortable life?
Although our parents are using the banner of "good for the child" to tie the child's hands and feet, let him follow the route he has demarcated. But, dear parents, don't you think about why your children have to follow the course you have delineated, are they puppets, are they machines, don't you feel that your actions are pathetic and ridiculous?
In addition to the family, the school's contribution can not be ignored, and it is precisely for this reason that Professor Dai Jianye said: "I think our country, the current basic education, in a sense, should reverse. ”
After seeing Professor Dai Jianye's interview, netizens left messages to express their anger and helplessness-
"On the way home during Qingming, I heard two high school students chatting, their school jumped off the building six times a month, and each school really needs a psychology teacher."
"As a teacher, I really feel sorry for the children now, as a parent, I can't change, anyway, I'm physically and mentally exhausted, passive rolling, the scary thing is that I don't want to roll, but everyone rolls, the child is squeezed at school, her classmates laugh at her bad grades, and it's only ...... in the first grade"
"The schoolbag is getting heavier and heavier, but the smile on his face is getting less and less!" "It should be an innocent age, but he can't straighten his waist because of his studies, such a sad scene, shouldn't he be vigilant?
In today's society, what can we give our children? Is it a happy childhood, or is it endless learning? What is the essence of education? Is it the supremacy of scores, or is it to let children understand what kind of person they want to be in the future?
All this is worth asking and reflecting on!
Dear readers, what do you want to say about the Internet celebrity professor Dai Jianye's 10-word evaluation of the current primary and secondary education?
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