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The sun shines warmly on the streets of the town, and the warm breeze blows, bringing the breath of summer. Our family is visiting my brother and sister-in-law's house, and this is a family reunion that has not been seen in a long time. Outside the car window, the trees are shady, and occasionally a few small birds jump and play among the treetops, chirping as if to say hello to us.
I am the eldest son in my family, I am 27 years old this year, and I have just entered society. My parents are both traditional Chinese, hardworking and simple, and they attach great importance to their families. Mom is gentle and virtuous, she is a woman with high emotional intelligence, and no matter what difficulties she encounters, she can deal with them calmly. Dad is more stubborn, sometimes too straightforward, and his words are inevitably hurtful.
My younger brother Xiao Ming is only 20 years old this year, he is in the prime of his youth, he has a flamboyant and rebellious personality, and he often argues with his parents. His wife Xiaofang is a good daughter-in-law who is well-behaved and virtuous, but sometimes she is stimulated by Xiao Ming's wayward behavior.
As for the brother and sister-in-law we are going to visit today, it is said that they have a lot of opinions about our family, especially about the marriage of Xiao Ming and Xiao Fang. I was a little worried that something unpleasant would happen.
Just when I was nervous, my father suddenly said, "We are guests, and my brother and sister-in-law will definitely entertain us well." "
Mom said gently, "No matter what, we have to be polite and more tolerant." "
"Tolerance, they don't look down on us at all!" Xiao Ming snorted disdainfully.
Xiao Fang hurriedly comforted: "It's okay, as long as we get along amicably." "
I sighed and secretly hoped that this reunion would not be too difficult.
More than an hour later, we arrived at the neighborhood where my brother and sister-in-law's house were located. It is an upscale community in a beautiful setting, with greenery, flowers and abundance at every turn.
My sister-in-law's villa is very luxurious, covering a lot of land and even a plunge pool in the courtyard. We rang the doorbell, and after a while, the door opened, and a middle-aged woman stood in the doorway with a blank face.
"Yo, it's coming. She said coldly, not as if we were not too welcome.
"Hello sister-in-law, we're here to visit. Mom said with a smile, and then took the initiative to step forward and wanted to give her sister-in-law a hug, but was stiffly avoided by the other party.
I saw that my father's face was a little ugly, and Xiao Ming also glared at his sister-in-law angrily. In this atmosphere, my brother also walked out.
"Come in, don't stand at the door. The elder brother said, getting out of the way.
We rushed in, and saw that the living room was brilliantly furnished, and we could see the wealth of my brother and sister-in-law. However, there was no smile on their faces, but a look of impatience.
"Just sit down, we don't have much to entertain here. The sister-in-law said with a look of indifference.
I saw a look of confusion on my mother's face, but quickly regained her composure. Dad and Xiao Ming frowned secretly, obviously dissatisfied with their sister-in-law's attitude.
"It's okay, we're just here to walk around and talk. Mom said gently.
"Oh, then feel free to do whatever you want, I still have something to do. After the sister-in-law finished speaking, she turned around and left the living room.
My brother sat on the couch, picked up the remote control and turned on the TV, and seemed to treat us guests as air.
For a moment, there was a kind of silence in the living room. I saw that Xiao Ming's face was full of anger, and he seemed to want to say something, but was stopped by Xiao Fang. Dad's expression was also very ugly, and it seemed that he was hurt by his brother-in-law's cold attitude.
In this eerie atmosphere, I saw my mother's expression as usual, and even a hint of a smile. Just when I was confused, my mother suddenly stood up.
"Well, can I go to the kitchen and have a look? Maybe I can help with something. Mom said to her brother.
The elder brother glanced at his mother in surprise, but nodded anyway. It seems that Mom wants to break this situation in her own way.
When my mom walked to the kitchen, I followed to see what she was trying to do.
"Mom, you don't have to do this. I whispered to my mother, "Their attitude is too much." "
Mom shook her head, and her tone was very calm: "We are guests, so we should be guests." Besides, their indifference to us is not necessarily a bad thing, maybe there is just some misunderstanding?"
I looked at my mother with some surprise, and she didn't seem to be angry or sad about my brother and sister-in-law's cold attitude, but instead planned to treat them in a more friendly way.
Mom looked around the kitchen and started cleaning. She wiped down the boards and the stove, and cleaned everything up. I watched my mother's skillful movements and couldn't help but marvel at her proficiency in housework.
At this moment, the sister-in-law walked in, and she saw that her mother was busy, and the expression on her face was a little surprised.
"What are you doing?" The sister-in-law asked, with a hint of displeasure in her tone.
"Oh, I just wanted to help clean the kitchen, after all, we were guests. Mom smiled and said, "I can make some snacks for everyone later, what do you all like to eat?"
The sister-in-law was stunned at first, and then sneered: "You people, do you still know how to be a guest? I think you are here to take advantage!"
When I heard this, I was immediately furious, and I was about to have a seizure, but I was stopped by my mother. The smile on my mother's face did not change at all, and she still maintained a calm tone and said, "Of course we are here to be guests, but we also have to do our part to make the host feel more relaxed." Just let me make the dim sum, I'm pretty good at it. "
The sister-in-law was stunned for a moment, as if she didn't expect her mother to answer like this. She glanced at me, snorted, and left the kitchen.
"Mom, they're going too far, let's go. I said a little angrily.
Mom shook her head and said earnestly: "Xiaowei, sometimes we have to learn to be tolerant and tolerant. Maybe there is some kind of psychological obstacle to what they are doing now? We must treat them with patience and kindness, and we must not fall into the quagmire of quarrels. "
I was convinced by my mother's words, and I just thought that she was really clever in dealing with such things. So, I joined my mom and started helping with the ingredients.
Soon, the kitchen was filled with the smell of fragrance. Mom skillfully made the beautiful snacks, and we put them on our plates and prepared to serve them out.
"Mom, you're such an amazing woman. I said from the bottom of my heart, "If you weren't here, our family might have had a fight." "
Mom smiled and didn't say anything. I looked at her kind face, and I only felt that she exuded a unique temperament, which made people feel like a spring breeze and relaxed.
I walked out of the kitchen with a snack and noticed that the atmosphere in the living room seemed to have eased. Dad and Xiao Ming's faces were not so ugly, and my brother didn't turn on the TV so loudly anymore.
"Ahem, let's try the dim sum made by Mom, it's very delicious. I said, handing the plate over.
Dad and Xiao Ming didn't say much, but I could tell that they still appreciated Mom's approach. The elder brother frowned, but he still tasted the dim sum, and then showed a look of approval.
At this moment, my sister-in-law also walked out, and she saw that everyone was eating snacks, and the expression on her face was a little complicated.
"Sister-in-law, try the dim sum made by your mother, it's very delicious. I said unceremoniously.
The sister-in-law hesitated for a moment, then sat down and tasted the snack. Her expression softened suddenly, as if she had been conquered by her mother's craftsmanship.
"Well, it's not bad. The sister-in-law reluctantly spoke.
I looked at my mother and saw a faint smile on her face, and her eyes revealed a warm look. I know that with her kindness and patience, she is melting the iceberg heart of her brother and sister-in-law little by little.
In this way, the atmosphere finally eased somewhat. I believe that as long as my mother continues to treat my brother and sister-in-law with her high emotional intelligence, our family will eventually get the respect we deserve.
Seeing this, the mother continued to take the initiative to interact with her brother and sister-in-law in her unique way. She walked up to her sister-in-law and said with a smile: "Sister-in-law, I have made these snacks according to your taste here, I hope you can like them." "
The sister-in-law was stunned for a moment, then nodded, and her expression eased. Seeing this, my mother said to my brother again: "Brother, the decoration of your house is really good, I can see that you are very tasteful." "
The brother was amused by his mother's compliment, and inadvertently showed a smile. At this moment, a childish voice came: "Grandma, I want to eat snacks too!"
It turned out to be a child from my brother and sister-in-law's family, a boy about 5 years old, who was squirming over. Seeing this, my mother hurriedly squatted down and said gently, "Come, grandma will give you a taste, these snacks are all made by grandma herself." "
As she spoke, the mother handed the child a snack. The child ate in small bites, and soon showed a satisfied expression.
"Is it delicious?" Mom asked. The child nodded vigorously.
"That's great, grandma will come often in the future and make you something to eat. The mother said, touching the child's head.
The child seems to have a good impression of his mother and takes the initiative to throw himself into his mother's arms. When my brother and sister-in-law saw this scene, a smile finally appeared on their faces.
At this moment, Xiaofang also walked over, squatted beside her mother and said, "Mom, I will also help you take care of the child together." "
The mother nodded, and Xiao Fang began to tease the child. Soon, the child was attracted by Xiaofang's liveliness and cuteness, and smiled happily.
Seeing this scene, my father, Xiao Ming, and I couldn't help but be moved. The original rigid atmosphere was finally completely broken, and it was replaced by a warm and harmonious family atmosphere.
Even my brother and sister-in-law looked a lot more relaxed, no longer the cold look. Mom's high emotional intelligence exudes a unique charm in this family, which invisibly shortens the distance between us and my brother and sister-in-law.
Then, my mother took the initiative to walk up to my brother and asked with concern: "Brother, I like the decoration of your house very much, I don't know which designer you invited?
Seeing that his mother was so sincere, my brother immediately became interested and talked endlessly about the doorway of decoration. Mom nodded her head in praise as she listened intently.
I watched this scene and was deeply impressed by my mother's wisdom. She not only resolved the original situation, but also narrowed the distance with her brother and sister-in-law in her own friendly way, making the whole family atmosphere harmonious and warm.
I was immediately shocked by my father's blunt words, and quickly stepped forward to stop him. Unexpectedly, my brother said with a smile: "No problem, if you are interested, just give me your resume." "
I looked at my brother in amazement, and he didn't feel any displeasure at my father's straightforwardness, but behaved quite kindly. It seems that the mother's high emotional intelligence has really worked wonders in this family.
In this way, under the leadership of my mother, the atmosphere between our family and my brother and sister-in-law is getting better and better. Everyone chatted back and forth, occasionally mixed with a hearty laugh or two.
I looked at my mother, who was busy with herself, sometimes beckoning everyone for snacks and sometimes teasing the cute child. Her figure seemed so tall and wise to me, like a warm force that held our family together.
"Mom, you're amazing. I couldn't help but say, "If it weren't for you, our family would have had a quarrel today." "
Mom smiled and didn't say anything. However, I know that she must be very relieved that she has earned the respect of the whole family in her own unique way.
In this way, under the leadership of my mother's high emotional intelligence, the estrangement between our family and my brother and sister-in-law was finally resolved. This originally strange and cold family has become warm and harmonious, and it is full of family warmth.
I am very proud of my mother, who used her wisdom and patience to not only maintain the harmony of our family of four, but also win the respect of my brother and sister-in-law. From now on, we will definitely cherish this hard-won family unity even more.
In this way, under the leadership of my mother, the atmosphere between our family and my brother and sister-in-law became harmonious and warm. The originally strange and cold living room has also become a warm cottage full of affection.
Mom seemed to be very pleased with this scene of family harmony, and she would smile comfortably from time to time. However, she did not stop there, but continued to use her own unique way to amplify this warm atmosphere.
"Sister-in-law, your yard is really good, can we go outside and sit later?" Mom said to her sister-in-law with a smile.
The sister-in-law seemed to be infected by her mother's affinity, nodded and said, "Okay, let's go outside to breathe." "
So, we followed my mother to the backyard of the villa. I saw a huge swimming pool, the water is crystal clear, surrounded by greenery, and the scenery is very pleasant.
As soon as the child saw the swimming pool, he immediately became excited and wanted to get into the water. Mom's eyes were quick, she stopped him, and said with a smile: "Don't worry, grandma will find you some swimming rings." "
With that, my mother began to rummage through the yard. After a while, she found a few cute swimming rings and put them on for the child and Xiaofang.
"Alright, now you can get into the water. Mom said, clapping her hands.
The child jumped happily and soon jumped into the pool. Xiao Fang also smiled and followed in, and the two frolicked in the water, and the scene was very warm.
I looked at my mother, who was standing by the pool, with a happy look on her face. And Dad, Xiao Ming, and brother and sister-in-law all sat on the recliner on the side, chatting with each other.
At that moment, my mother suddenly turned around, beckoned to us, and motioned for us to go into the water as well. I was stunned for a moment, then smiled, took off my shoes and jumped into the water.
"Haha, the water is so cool!" I shouted loudly, eliciting a burst of laughter from Fang and the child.
Dad and Xiao Ming soon joined us, and the family played in the pool. Occasionally, there would be a splash of water, which would wet the people around you.
However, no one cared about this, everyone laughed heartily and enjoyed the warm time of this family. Even my brother and sister-in-law were infected and showed a relaxed smile that she had never seen before.
"Brother, you guys should come down too!" Mom beckoned to her brother and sister-in-law.
The elder brother hesitated for a moment, then took off his shoes and socks and jumped into the water. Seeing this, the sister-in-law was embarrassed to stand by any longer, so she followed into the water.
In this way, our family was finally reunited and had fun to our heart's content. The sun shines warmly on us, and the occasional breeze brings a burst of coolness.
I looked at my mother, who was standing by the pool, clapping and cheering, sometimes splashing and teasing the child. Her figure looked so beautiful and tall in the sunlight, like the embodiment of wisdom, and in her unique way united our family.
Just when I was full of emotion, my mother suddenly swam towards me.
"Xiaowei, do you look happy?" Mom asked me with a smile.
I nodded vigorously, the joy in my heart indescribable. Seeing this, my mother smiled slightly, and then said, "Do you know? Our family should always be like this, happy and caring for each other. No matter what happens, we must hold on to the warmth of this family. "
I was deeply moved by my mother's words, and I just felt that every word she said was like a proverb of wisdom, and I felt an urge to obey.
"Mom, you're amazing. I said from the bottom of my heart, "If it weren't for you, our family would have had a quarrel today." "
After hearing this, my mother didn't comment too much, just smiled faintly. However, I know that she must be very relieved that she has used her own unique way to dissolve the family gap and win everyone's respect.
"Okay, don't talk about that. Mom tapped me on the shoulder and shouted, "Come, let's take a picture as a family!"
As she spoke, my mother beckoned everyone to come closer. Our whole family huddled together, all with happy smiles on our faces. At this moment, my sister-in-law took out her mobile phone and took a family photo of us.
This photo captures the good times of the moment: we are happy and lively as a family. And my mother is like the mainstay of this big family, with her unique wisdom and patience, she connects us tightly.
From that moment on, my admiration for my mom reached a new level. With her noble character and wise mind, she not only dissolved the family estrangement, but also gave us unprecedented family warmth.
I know very well that this hard-won warmth and harmony will accompany us for a lifetime. Because of people like mothers, our families will never lose their direction and will always be wrapped in warmth and love.
In this way, under the leadership of her mother's high emotional intelligence, a strange and cold family has become a happy place full of warmth and laughter. Our whole family was deeply affected by this affection and determined to cherish the good times in front of us.
From now on, no matter where we go, the warmth of this family will be with us. As long as we keep in mind our mother's wisdom and treat each other with kindness, tolerance and patience, our family will always be united and happy.