I used to always hold the "what if...... I just ......" the idea of "living, for example, if I fail the graduate school entrance examination, I will be finished, if I haven't worked before the age of 25, I will be finished, so it is really tiring and tiring!
Suddenly one day I want to open.,I don't think of my life as a life anymore.,I see myself as an immersive scripted player in this world.,The choices I face in my life are all the levels in this "script game".,It doesn't matter if you're wrong.,It's a script kill anyway.,Suddenly I'm not afraid of anything!
What if I am not afraid of failure, I am not afraid of age, what if I don't get in? What if my peers succeed before me?
It's just a script kill and I didn't pass this level, and I suddenly wanted to open it!
I sincerely advise all anxious people to take "so what" as their mantra, I used to be afraid of failure, afraid of imperfection, so I am very anxious!
Later, as long as I didn't succeed, even if I failed, I would first say "so what", now I have nothing to fear except life and death, whatever!
The advice of the passers-by is: Don't come!
Thank you for your comfort, I decided not to be anxious for a while and start being anxious in a few years.
Thank you, the corpse is completely cold!
No problem, I told my brother that I seem to have lost the urge to get married now, and he said that it is like this, after that age I am sober-minded, I don't want to get married very much, and he is almost 40 years old and will not get married.
I only grow up at the age of 30, and I start to lay off employees at the age of 30, maybe growing up means sending talents to society!
30 is too old to work, 60 is too early to retire, this is the way this world is.
When we are in our 40s, will we feel that the worst is 40-50 again!
"Bad life of the Chinese"!
So now a lot of people don't give birth!
Me too, at the age of 29, I began to collapse in my mind's cognitive system of the past, and at the age of 32, I completed the reconstruction, and now I am just on the right track!
In fact, it feels like everyone doesn't realize how young and young people are in their twenties.
The only internal friction is that there are too many choices, and you must always keep a low profile when you are jealous, so as not to be backstabbed.