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"Life is not only about what is in front of you, but also about poetry and distance", this popular quote comes from Gao Xiaosong, a "Tsinghua genius".
Standing on the god platform, he had infinite scenery, but he was scolded by netizens for "getting out of China". Today, Gao Xiaosong has lost dozens of pounds, and he also suffers from severe depression, and can only sleep for 40 minutes a day.
So why did Gao Xiaosong come out to apologize this time? What has he experienced over the years?
In March this year, actor Pan Jie angrily criticized Gao Xiaosong for talking nonsense on her social account, and his previous video about Pan Jie's family had big problems and corrected them one by one.
It turned out that in 2017, Gao Xiaosong told Pan Jie's elders in a certain program that the information was untrue, which caused a lot of trouble to Pan Jie.
Gao Xiaosong then came to the door and publicly apologized, and his sincere attitude was finally forgiven by Pan Jie.
On April 7, Pan Jie's Weibo posted a video of the two talking. Gao Xiaosong seems to have changed people, very thin, with humble eyes, and no longer has the image of being high in the previous show.
Gao Xiaosong was also embarrassed when he saw the posthumous photo of his mentor Luo Xiaoling. He was devout and incense, saying that Luo Xiaoling was his leader in movies.
Pan Jie's mother, Luo Xiaoling, was a director before her death and taught Gao Xiaosong, not only imparting a lot of film knowledge, but also constantly encouraging him in life.
And Gao Xiaosong did not verify it, and told Pan Jie's great-grandfather Qian Zhuangfei in the show that he was the director. But the old man is actually a revolutionary, a heroic model.
In the face of the accusations of his mentor's daughter, presumably Gao Xiaosong must have come to apologize sincerely.
Talking about why he lost weight, Gao Xiaosong said that he was severely depressed, often insomnia, and could only sleep for 40 minutes a day in severe cases.
Because of depression, he deleted the contact information of many colleagues and friends, and even only one family member and one classmate, just to ensure that he did not lose contact. I hardly ever contact outsiders. So Pan added him as a friend before, but he was also deleted after passing.
Gao Xiaosong said that depression destroyed his health and led to negligence in his life. Nowadays, many people know something about depression, so Pan Jie understands and forgives it.
Depression is known as the "cancer that never dies", and Gao Xiaosong has been suffering from this disease for a long time. Some netizens are worried, but Gao Xiaosong said that he will be active and work hard to overcome difficulties.
Gao Xiaosong's behavior this time has won the praise of many netizens, and the ancients said that if you know your mistakes, you can change them, and you are very good. As the old saying goes, trouble comes from the mouth, because Gao Xiaosong has made many speeches before, which has brought him a lot of abuse and criticism.
Gao Xiaosong's background is not ordinary, he has never suffered since he was a child, his family and relatives are either academicians of the Chinese Academy of Sciences, or experts and professors, all of them are highly educated, and even his neighbors are celebrities like Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng. Gao Xiaosong also said that in their family, a master's degree is almost equivalent to illiteracy.
Although he also inherited the high IQ of his family and was successfully admitted to Tsinghua University, his personality was very rebellious and he began to play in a band and write songs.
What is enviable is that Gao Xiaosong's artistic path is also very smooth, and he has written many campus ballads, and his masterpiece "You at the Same Table" has become popular all over the streets.
Gao Xiaosong reached his junior year and made up his mind to drop out, and he entered the preparatory class of the Beijing Film Directing Department. Although he was not admitted to graduate school later, he still laid a good foundation, and since then he has been a choreographer and director to shoot MTV, open a record company, be a screenwriter and producer, and make movies "When the Flowers Bloom", "You at the Same Table", "Da Wusheng" and so on.
Born in "Rome", his career is proud, and Gao Xiaosong's love story is even more exciting.
Gao Xiaosong's first love is said to be called "Red", which was the inspiration for "You at the Same Table", but after the song became popular, the two separated.
Later, I met the singer Yunzi, the beginning was vigorous, Gao Xiaosong also wrote songs for her, but I didn't expect the ending to end miserably, after the two broke up, Yunzi committed suicide, although outsiders don't know the reason, but Yunzi's mother pointed out that Gao Xiaosong was the initiator.
In 1999, his first wife was named Shen Huan, and it is said that when he was wandering around the university, Gao Xiaosong fell in love with her at first sight, and proposed to her on the third day, and the marriage lasted for three years, and the two parted ways.
Later, Gao Xiaosong met his second wife Xi Youmi, who was born in the draft, and the two got married in 2007 and gave birth to a daughter. A few years later, Gao Xiaosong broke up with the other party happily on the grounds that he was unhappy and needed freedom and space.
Although netizens have a lot of discussions about this, they are generally more tolerant of the romance of talents, so Gao Xiaosong still lives freely and has unlimited scenery.
However, Gao Xiaosong's first "big heel" was in 2011, when he was sentenced to half a year in prison for drunk driving.
No one expected that he had lived a very fulfilling life in the past six months, reading and translating books, and teaching his fellow inmates to write poems. After being released from prison, he is still a talented and suave talent, earning enough Internet traffic.
He once said in a show that he had a rare quiet time in his life at that time. It may also be what the ancients said about blessings and misfortunes.
Later, Gao Xiaosong started talk shows, such as "Xiao Shuo" and "Xiao Song's Strange Talk", etc., because he has been involved in a wide range since he was a child and has been to many countries, he can be regarded as having a wealth of knowledge.
Even he himself said that he was a miscellaneous scientist and knew a little bit about everything. Therefore, the content of the program "Xiaoshuo" is very free.
In those years, the word "public knowledge" was still a compliment, and people looked up to them and admired their knowledge and demeanor. Therefore, Gao Xiaosong's eloquence and the amount of knowledge at his fingertips once again made people praise him as a "Tsinghua genius". He also said that 90% of his fans are undergraduates.
However, as his fame grew, his remarks became more and more "out of line".
In the program, he denied the exploits of the national hero Zheng Chenggong in recovering Taiwan and praised Chiang Kai-shek, the spokesman of the bourgeois landlords.
He published an article titled "I Love Japan" and visited the Yasukuni Shrine in Japan. Such behavior has caused many netizens to criticize and write.
He became the nationality of a beautiful country, and he was ashamed to say that the best thing about China is that the beautiful country hates others, and such remarks are even more disgusting.
Once, Gao Xiaosong explained literature on a certain platform, but he didn't expect that just two minutes after the broadcast, countless netizens rushed into the live broadcast room and scolded him for going back to the beautiful country. scolded him, so he had to stop the live broadcast.
He didn't know that netizens had long lost their filter on some nonsense. His plan to make a comeback through social platforms seems to have failed.
Since then, Gao Xiaosong has kept a lot of low profile. Occasionally, because of topics such as "thin weight" and "plastic surgery", it has been hotly searched.
Gao Xiaosong, the admired genius, fell off the altar because of his broken mouth. It really responds to what the ancients said, be cautious in words and deeds.
Even if you are deeply influenced by Western culture, you should also have the correct three views. As a celebrity, you should set a positive example for Dabul. What do you think?
Information sources:
1. Weibo, Baidu Encyclopedia
2, "Xiao Shuo" and "Xiao Songqi Talk"
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