Text/Mo Ran
In this real society, the relationships and feelings between people cannot stand the test.
Everyone is self-interested, and no one will really think about you.
If you take the feelings of adults too seriously, you will be wronged in the end.
The relationship between adults seems to be strong, but in fact it is fragile, and each other hides the most vulnerable side of their hearts, for fear of being caught by others to catch their weaknesses.
This kind of relationship, once there is a crack, will collapse with a bang.
The feelings of adults, scattering is the normal state of life, and we are no exception, we are completely lucky for a long time, and most people are fragile.
Some feelings fade away if they are not in touch with each other
I used to value feelings very much, especially friendship, and felt that the company of my youth was very rare.
But when I grew up, I realized that everyone would have their own lives, and many people forgot about many people.
Some people will think that true feelings can transcend time and distance, but when you really experience something, you will understand that feelings are not as strong as you think.
When you are together, each other is your own world and the best playmates, but once you are separated, the new person will replace the old one, and no one can really accompany you to the end.
Life is actually a journey, accompanying each other for a journey, and then each cultivating and moving forward.
In this world, there are no immutable feelings, don't take a person too seriously, and don't care too much about a relationship.
Some people fade out of each other's lives once they don't have contact
The relationship between people needs to be managed. A good relationship needs to come and go, and if you don't come and go, you will slowly become estranged.
Even if the relationship is good, after the precipitation of time, it will eventually wear out.
Just like a few years ago, I was quite nostalgic, thinking that meeting was a kind of fate, so I cherished the people around me, and I would greet and contact from time to time. But some relationships are never supported by one person.
Relationships require both parties to work hard to maintain, you care about someone, but the other party does not put you in the same position, the relationship will be unbalanced, and slowly you will not want to connect.
No matter how good the relationship is, it will become distant with the passage of time, which is the normal state of life.
Many times, there is no need to care too much about a person, there is a fate for each other, there is a mutual relationship in the heart, and it is natural to connect.
We have to learn to face all the blandness and learn to be relieved.
Fate is destined, and it is not up to anyone
The feelings of adults are fragile. Whether it is actively broken, forced to be broken, or innocently involved.
In short, it is very fragile.
The fate between people is fixed, some people walk and walk and disperse, there is no special reason, it can only be said that each other's fate has come to an end.
Everyone has their own path to follow and is destined to go their separate ways.
Even if there are moments when we share common goals and pursuits, it is only a part of life.
In the future, you still have to rely on yourself and don't expect anything from others.
On the road of life, many things are predestined, and everything may not go as expected, but what you have to do is to live your life well.
Don't lose sight of yourself because of who you lose.
Summary:
After all, the background of life is loneliness, some roads are accompanied by people, but some roads can only be walked by yourself.
Don't care too much about a person, the feelings of adults, cherish them when you are together, and try to be relieved when you are separated.