In August 2013, someone broke the news, saying that the "little man" article cheated on Yao Di during Ma Yili's pregnancy.
Suddenly, people's three views shattered, and there was a thought in their hearts:
Are there any good men in the entertainment industry, and is the relationship between sisters and brothers reliable?
But only half a year later, the 28-year-old Jing Chao married Xiao Li Lin, who was 6 years older than him, the same sister and brother love, the same strong women and weak men,
Moreover, Xiao Li Lin is still married for the second time, and she also has an 11-year-old daughter, who became a stepfather at a young age.
With the lessons of Ma Yili and the article, everyone can't help but question, can such a marriage be happy?
Also, what did the sunny and handsome Jingchao fall in love with Xiao Li Lin?
01
Jingchao was born in 1986 in a well-off family in Shanghai, and his father was a highly skilled doctor.
In the eyes of his classmates, Jing Chao is a treasure boy who can dance Latin dance, can draw, and also understands medical skills, and even knows some about the pulse.
What's more, he is very handsome, with angular facial features, and is known as "Tip Xiang".
When he was in high school, Jingchao was discovered by a talent scout and invited him to shoot an advertisement, but he had no plans to enter the entertainment industry at that time.
He wanted to become a doctor, like his father, to relieve the pain of patients.
But in his third year of high school, 19-year-old Jing Chao learned that if he wants to become an excellent doctor, it will take at least 8 years.
This made Jing Chao daunting, and his heart began to be entangled.
Fortunately, his parents were very enlightened people, and his father told him:
"Do what you young people like to do, and I don't need you to inherit my medical skills. ”
With the encouragement of his father and the advice of the school teacher, Jingchao turned his head and applied for the Beijing Film Academy, and became classmates with Yang Mi, Zhang Xiaofei and others.
Since then, he has embarked on the path of an actor.
In his junior year, the handsome Jing Chao was favored by director Qi Jian, and starred in the TV series "Falling in Love with My Ex-Wife" with Geng Le, Song Jia and others.
In the play, Jing Chao plays the role of the performance artist "Footprints".
Although this role left a very deep impression on the audience, Jing Chao's acting skills have been questioned by many insiders.
said that his acting skills were too exaggerated, and it looked like he was acting in a drama.
Because of this sentence, Jingchao's career as an actor fell into a trough all of a sudden, and he didn't receive a serious play for 4 years.
can only play some inconsequential supporting roles in the crew, and it is still one a year, and one can only earn five or six thousand yuan.
What is the greatest sorrow in life?
That is, I finally met a girl I liked, but I found that she was at the top of the mountain, and I was at the bottom of the mountain.
And Jingchao, it was under such circumstances that he met Xiao Li Lin.
02
In 2010, Jingchao met Xiao Li Lin for the first time in the crew of the TV series "Beautiful Housewife".
Although 10 years have passed, she still looks as beautiful as "Du Bingyan" in "Marrying the Right Man in the Wrong Sedan Chair",
And the personality is lively, gentle and lovely, which is the type that Jingchao likes.
But at that time, Xiao Li Lin was already a famous actor, but Jingchao was still unknown.
In order to gain Xiao Li Lin's approval, Jingchao can only start from other aspects, that is, to study cooking skills.
Start by conquering Xiao Li Lin's stomach.
But after inquiring, I learned that Xiao Li Lin's favorite food turned out to be expensive salmon, and Jingchao really couldn't afford it.
I bought a soup pot and brought it to the crew, and I changed the method to cook all kinds of soup every day, some to supplement nutrition, some to beautify and beaust.
Although he called many people to drink together every time, everyone could still see that what he really cared about was Xiao Li Lin, who was 6 years older than him.
Although Xiao Li Lin was only 30 years old at the time, she had already been married and had a daughter.
Her ex-husband is Li Xuetao, a teacher at the Shanghai Theater Academy.
It is said that when Xiao Li Lin was studying in the play, she took the initiative to pursue Li Xuetao, who was 8 years older than her, and as soon as she graduated, she couldn't wait to enter the palace of marriage.
And soon gave birth to a daughter.
But not long after the birth of their daughter, the contradictions between the two began to appear, and finally ended in divorce.
In this marriage, Xiao Li Lin can be said to be a failure, not only affecting the career with a very good development momentum, but also becoming a single mother.
So in the face of Jingchao's pursuit, Xiao Li Lin has always been very evasive, because she feels that
He has been divorced and still has a drag oil bottle, but Jingchao is still a sunny and handsome big boy.
It's not at all right for the two to be together.
But Jingchao doesn't think so, he likes Xiao Li Lin very much since he watched "The Wrong Sedan to Marry the Right Lang",
So he didn't care that Xiao Li Lin was divorced and had a daughter.
In the face of Jing Chao's stubborn fighting, Xiao Li Lin also had no way, and she couldn't bear to refuse Jing Chao directly.
was afraid that this would hurt his self-esteem, until something happened that Xiao Li Lin changed his mind.
03
When Xiao Li Lin was out filming, she suddenly received a call from her mother, who told her very calmly on the phone:
"I have cervical cancer and I'm hospitalized and I'm going to have surgery soon. ”
Xiao Li Lin was anxious when she heard it, since the divorce, her mother is her only support, if her mother has three long and two short,
So what can she do?
At this time, Jing Chao suddenly called her and said to her:
"I already knew about my aunt, I asked my dad to find a hospital in Shanghai, find the best doctor, and tell my aunt not to have surgery first, and wait for me to pick her up. ”
Xiao Li Lin was a little moved, and asked Jing Chao how he knew this, and Jing Chao told her very seriously:
"If I don't know this, then I'm not worthy of being your boyfriend. ”
Being cared for by a boy 6 years younger than herself, Xiao Li Lin felt warm and a little uncomfortable.
Jingchao took Xiao Li Lin's mother from Wuhan to Shanghai, and even signed it before the operation.
After the operation, Xiao Li Lin's mother was weak, with tubes inserted in her body, lying on the bed and unable to move, and she needed to be taken care of in all aspects.
And Jingchao gave up a lot of filming opportunities and stayed in the hospital to take care of him for a month.
At that time, it was the season when mosquitoes were rampant, and Jing Chao was the kind of physique that attracted mosquito bites, so no matter where he went, he always carried flower water with him.
Every now and then, I spray a few times on my body.
But who would have thought that Xiao Li Lin's mother was very sensitive to the smell of flower water, and at the slightest taste, she couldn't help coughing and hurting the wounds on her body.
After Jingchao found out about this situation, he threw the toilet water directly into the trash, and the mosquitoes stung him all over the bag.
There are itchy scratches on the hands and legs, which is terrible.
A month later, Xiao Li Lin finally finished filming and hurried to Shanghai, when she asked the doctor to learn about her mother's condition,
The doctor's words made her stunned for a while, and the doctor said:
"You're a daughter-in-law, right? You have a good husband, and your mother-in-law has a good son. ”
It turned out that because Jingchao took care of Xiao Li Lin's mother too thoughtfully, so that the doctors and nurses in the hospital thought that
Jing Chao is the son of Xiao Li Lin's mother, otherwise, who would be so dirty and tired, staying in front of the hospital bed 24 hours a day?
And one guard is a month.
04
This time, Xiao Li Lin was completely moved, she had already seen clearly that although Jing Chao was younger than her, he was a very responsible person.
She said to Jing Chao:
"Although I am touched, I can't be selfish, even if you can accept me, but have you thought about your parents?"
Jing Chao smiled and said to her:
"Don't worry, my parents have known about us for a long time, and they like you very much. ”
Sure enough, as Jingchao said, on the day Xiao Li Lin's mother was discharged from the hospital, Jingchao's parents also came specially and came to buy a bouquet of flowers.
Xiao Li Lin wanted to take her mother back to Wuhan to recuperate, but Jingchao's parents stopped her and said to her:
"Your mother is still weak, she can't afford to toss like this, our family is big, let's go to our house, it's all a family, don't see outside." ”
In this way, under the guidance of Jingchao's parents, Xiao Li Lin and her mother temporarily lived in Jingchao's house.
Xiao Li Lin and Jing Chao both need to be filming, and they can't be at home all the time, Jing Chao's parents take on the responsibility of taking care of the patients, making all kinds of nutritious meals every day.
In addition, Jingchao's father is also a doctor, and under the care of their family, Xiao Li Lin's mother quickly recovered her health.
When Xiao Li Lin came back from filming and saw her mother again, she was completely dumbfounded.
I saw my mother and Jingchao's mother sitting together, holding hands and chatting about family life.
Xiao Li Lin was speechless.
Before she could agree to get married, her mother had already helped her to do so.
In 2014, Jing Chao and Xiao Li Lin finally achieved results, and held a wedding in Beijing, inviting many friends in the circle.
After getting married, Jing Chao, who was not famous, became famous all of a sudden, and when others mentioned him, they would say:
"He is Xiao Li Lin's husband. ”
However, Jing Chao, who put all his thoughts on Xiao Li Lin, did not have the consciousness of "eating soft rice".
For a long time, Xiao Li Lin went out to film to support his family, while he stayed at home to do housework and take care of his daughter.
Compared with the unsuccessful career, Jingchao is most worried about his relationship with his stepdaughter.
05
The eldest daughter's name is Mengya, and when Xiao Li Lin and Jing Chao got married, she was already 11 years old, only 17 years younger than Jing Chao.
For this stepfather who is like a big brother, she is very uncomfortable, let alone calling her father, even her uncle refuses to shout.
When she was at home, Meng Ya always didn't say a word and was very introverted, which made Jingchao very worried.
So he managed to contact Xiao Li Lin's ex-husband and took Meng Ya to dinner together.
At the dinner table, Meng Ya was already shocked that her chopsticks would not be used, and she saw the two fathers sitting facing each other.
Meng Ya was very worried that the two of them would do it without saying a word.
But after three rounds of wine, Meng Ya's heart was completely put down, and Jingchao and "ex-husband's brother" pushed the cup and changed the lamp, calling him brother and brother.
The ex-husband's brother was very moved, he didn't expect that Jing Chao would spend so much effort for Mengya.
After this meal, Meng Ya finally realized that Jing Chao was her father just like her biological father, and the two were still good friends.
This made her slowly trust Jing Chao, accept Jing Chao, and slowly, even began to call him father, which made Jing Chao very happy.
Seeing that the family is becoming more and more harmonious and happy, Jingchao and Xiao Li Lin bought a house in Beijing.
Although it is not particularly big, it also spent all the savings of the two, of course, the big head is from Xiao Li Lin.
After having a mortgage, the life of the two began to make ends meet, although Xiao Li Lin is much more famous than Jing, but time has changed.
Her salary is not very high.
In order to make a living, Xiao Li Lin first sold the watch her father bought for her, and later even her favorite jewelry and bags were sold.
And it's sold with tears.
Jingchao was very sad when he saw it, he was not afraid of others saying that he ate soft rice, but he was most afraid that Xiao Li Lin would be sad,
So he discussed with Xiao Li Lin that he would give up being an actor and go to work in a company, 4,000 yuan a month, which could subsidize some of his family.
But Xiao Li Lin stopped him and said to him:
"If you go to work other jobs, then no one will ask you to film in the future. ”
"We're husband and wife, everyone earns the same money, and I'm sure you won't be like this all the time. ”
Xiao Li Lin's words moved Jing Chao very much, and it was Xiao Li Lin's support that allowed Jing Chao to survive the trough of his life.
06
After 2015, Jingchao finally ushered in a turning point in his career, especially after the broadcast of dramas such as "Fan of Fairy Sword and Cloud", "The Legend of Ruyi" and "Forensic Qin Ming".
made him, who has been tepid, finally gain attention, although he is not popular, but he finally has a foothold in the entertainment industry.
He was finally able to take on the responsibility of providing for his family.
In 2017, 37-year-old Xiao Li Lin disregarded the dissuasion of the whole family and gave birth to her youngest daughter Xiao Rice Cake for Jing Chao.
This made Jingchao practice a lot of skills and become a super dad, whether it is feeding milk powder, changing diapers, or coaxing the child to sleep,
He is very skilled.
What's even more rare is that even if he has a small rice cake, he is very good to Mengya, and treats everyone equally.
As she grew older, she also reached puberty, began to fall in love, and had some minor troubles of adolescence.
But she was very happy to share with Jingchao's little father, and once, the two chatted on the phone for 9 hours.
Xiao Li Lin who watched it was dumbfounded, not understanding how Jing Chao did it.
In 2018, Jing Chao, whose career was on the right track, appeared on the variety show "I Am an Actor".
When the mentor asked him why he came, Jing Chao, who had an upright personality, said directly:
"My wife asked me to come, and I came. ”
That well-behaved strength made Zhang Ziyi start to envy, and now that I think about it, if Wang Feng is as obedient as Jingchao,
That Zhang Ziyi may not be divorced.
Since having a little daughter, Jingchao's career is getting better and better, Xiao Li Lin rarely comes out to film, and stays at home with peace of mind to teach her husband and children.
Enjoying Jingchao's love for her.
Although Jingchao is very busy now, he still dotes on Xiao Li Lin very much, as long as he is at home, he is reluctant to let Xiao Li Lin do housework.
The work at home is basically all done by him.
And Xiao Li Lin is also a particularly well-behaved and intelligent woman, she always looks at Jing Chao with a smile.
No matter whether Jingchao does well or not, she always does not hesitate to praise and praise herself.
In her praise, Jing Chao has been completely lost, even if he is tired of doing housework, he is very happy.
Because he felt that he was finally like a man, and he enjoyed the worship from Xiao Li Lin.
It's hard to imagine that a couple who have been married for 10 years and have two children still hold hands and sleep at night.
What kind of fairy love is this, so sweet.
Many people say that marriage, like a career, also needs to be managed, and management requires some skills and wisdom.
But in Jingchao, he didn't see any deliberateness, his love for Xiao Li Lin was all out of his heart, and it was completely natural.
If you have to say that he has any secrets, it must be his sincerity, no matter what time it is, sincerity is always nirvana.
And Xiao Li Lin is also very virtuous, she always looks at her little husband with a tolerant heart,
Although a good man is not connived, praise from the heart is essential,
When I saw them, I believed it again, it turned out that sibling love can still be very sweet.
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