There is no road in vain in life. Dong Yuhui is a young man who has experienced a wide range of books and has been tempered by life at the same time.
Dong Yuhui interviewed him in "Xinhua News Agency": Looking back on his life experience, he said that his college years had the greatest impact on his personality.
After all, it is a bit unreasonable to ask for living expenses from the family after going to college, and it feels a bit embarrassing. After all, I realized that adulthood would awaken and hope that I would be independent and self-reliant.
Since he thought of it, Dong Yuhui has done various social practices, done many part-time jobs, distributed leaflets, worked as a tutor, and worked as a part-time tour guide...... After experiencing hardships and grievances, I have to pay more time and take care of my studies.
He compares himself to a very small flower and a tender sapling, which may have become coarse on the outside but the inside. People are becoming less glassy day by day, and I have to give lectures to children and explain tourist attractions to foreign guests, and I have to let myself continue to express, but also express interestingly, and fluently, so I have become more extroverted.
When I worked part-time in college, I could earn seven or eight thousand a month!
For the university he went to in 2011, this part-time job is definitely enough to spend.
People are smarter, hard-working, hard-working, and more solid, and you can actually do pretty well.
These experiences have made Dong Yuhui strong, and those previous fragile and shy inferiority complexes have disappeared......
Dong Yuhui said that the love for books comes from the parents of the family, in junior high and high school, in his simple family, food and clothing are very frugal, put him into a group of relatively wealthy children, his incompatibility, so that he can only be in the real world, the only way to deal with it is to go into the books, and try to resonate with the sages.
Reading will make Dong Yuhui happy, this happiness first came from his parents, when he was just in school, he purely used reading as a tool to deal with exams.
When he was a child, his parents told him many stories: "Mother-in-law's Tattoo", "Meng's Mother's Three Migrations", "Ohm Enemy", "Tao's Mother Cutting Hair", these are all after many years of historical screening, the big waves are sweeping the sand, these cases are more suitable for family education.
The importance of the environment to the child, the importance of the sense of mission to the child
Teaching children to write on the ground shows the importance of accompanying them.
High-quality accompaniment with children is to do the same thing with children, you read books before children read, what you care about, what children will value......
Although I grew up in a rural family when I was a child, my parents' love for books exceeded their love for other things. Of course, there are not a few books at home, such as "Earthworm Farming", "Tractor Maintenance", "Sow Postpartum Care" and so on.
Sometimes during the scrubbing process, my father also flipped through it from time to time, which inadvertently affected Dong Yuhui. Since childhood, Dong Yuhui has been in his cognition: books are more valuable than other things. For him when he was young, it was very touching in his heart.
The times are indeed changing, and the new era belongs to more of an era of rapid technological development and an era of continuous change in the social structure, but the pursuit of people's inner needs has not changed.
Reading Li Bai's poems, you are still enthusiastic, and you are still frustrated when you read Du Fu's poems, that is because people's hearts are the most true, beautiful and kind, and the pursuit of these things has not changed.
The first is to expand knowledge, let children open up their boundaries, and complete their knowledge system from different perspectives.
For letting children read, it is to let children stand on the shoulders of giants and see the world, after all, we know less about the world, and read more.
Second, reading can give children a more sound personality.
Through the stories in the books, the way people deal with difficulties, and when you see some groups in difficulty on the street, you will have empathy, and then do what you can to help them and do a good deed every day.
If you can take this sense of mission and make you a very good person, one day when you have the opportunity and energy to mobilize a lot of resources in society to create value, you try to use yourself to cut into a field to improve the real life of those people, this value will be even greater.
Because he went from being a single individual to a group of people.
Books can give people a complete understanding and make them understand themselves better.
When faced with good and evil, right and wrong, how to choose, he can make people more determined.
At the end of the book, it will make people have a kind of wisdom.
In the past, the joy of reading came from the expansion of knowledge and horizons. Nowadays, people often read books in search of resonance.
Knowledge and wisdom are two different things, those who have knowledge may not have wisdom, and those who have wisdom may not have knowledge either.
Wisdom is a summary of the methods of how to live this life well, and knowledge is some fact about the laws of how this thing works.
In short, it's different. It's important that you know how to live a short life. In the course of your life, put the books you read more grounded, more real, and combine many things in the spiritual world and the real world, and when people walk, they will become sophisticated, thoughtful and complete.
Regarding dressing, Dong Yuhui said: It's not that he can't afford it, and these can't make him happy. Happiness often comes from meeting a friend today, and in the process of chatting, I found that there is a problem that is very similar to his thinking, and the perspective of understanding is also very similar, and suddenly I feel that I am suddenly enlightened.
The joy of meeting a "bosom friend" in the vast sea of people is very strong, just like if you read a book today, the content of the author is correct, the words are beautiful, the wording is accurate, you will feel that this person writes really well, and you occasionally hear a particularly good sentence today......
Without accumulating silicon, there is no step to thousands of miles, and the accumulation of knowledge can be accumulated.
Dong Yuhui can be a teacher when he is serious, and a friend when he is kind.
The gentleman is frank, Dong Yuhui attaches great importance to the harmony in the comment area of the live broadcast room in the live broadcast room with Hui, because he has experienced the "small composition" incident, when there were as many as 100,000 people in his live broadcast room, a small editor "opened his mouth" and said that Jilin small composition is not the credit of Dong Yuhui alone, and he has also counted other small compositions......
This made Dong Yuhui very incomprehensible, he felt that a small editor could not speak in the comment area, and you could not use it for public and private purposes. How have you ever seen the editors of the official media "People's Daily" and "China Daily" respond in the comment area......
Dong Yuhui doesn't want this to happen, if he finds that the comment area is full of quarrels during the live broadcast, it will really affect the mood of the live broadcast very much...... You Xiaobian explain, he spoke in a bad tone at that time, and it was enough to make big things small and small things......
Originally, after the editor commented on the small essay incident, the next two days were normal Dong Yuhui's normal vacation time, but they were interpreted by some bad media to interpret him as deliberate and angry......
Fortunately, in this "small composition" incident, the communication between Dong Yuhui and Lao Yu has been relatively smooth from beginning to end. The phone was about to burst, all of them were missed calls, among which a message from Jingdong was "mistakenly answered", and it was frank and showed Lao Yu...... That's what a gentleman's friendship looks like.
Dong Yuhui is "a soldier who dies for a confidant", and he defends Lao Yu everywhere.
High EQ, Dong Yuhui is too good, opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared, and gold will always shine......
In modesty, there are sharp edges everywhere: Jingdong, left and right hands, and Bi Ma Wen are all lost stalks. If you don't leave "me" here, you have a place to keep people.
Humorous, empathetic, philosophical, sensual. The knowledge reserve and pattern expression ability are really good at this age......
We can be colleagues, not colleagues or good friends, because this is just Lao Yu for so many years, because New Oriental has come out of so many people, and everyone used to joke: New Oriental can't keep people, wrong, this is New Oriental has a mind, so many people go out, Lao Yu has not hidden a person, and those people blame Lao Yu, Lao Yu has not hidden a word.
Lao Yu once said to Dong Yuhui: If you spit in the sea, is it impossible for the sea to give you back the spit.
Dong Yuhui was full of emotion, saying that for more than a year from Mr. Yu, after this "small composition" incident, I didn't like to sell goods, but in the two hours of my live broadcast, the goods were still sold.
He envies Teacher Liu Yonghao, selling goods can go around that Sichuan baby chili powder from family education, his goal is oriented, no one wants to affect him to sell goods, he just has to make money.
I am not very professional in selling goods, so Mr. Yu set a direction for me, and the new company should insist on this cultural investigation, and he was given a position: the cultural assistant to the chairman of New Oriental (the legendary Bi Ma Wen).
However, Dong Yuhui recognized that the culture of New Oriental, how to reflect the corporate culture of an enterprise, is only valuable when it is practiced, and only when you protect it, the values are meaningful.
There is no point in singing high notes.
Dong Yuhui said: I have been working for so long, and I have been insisting on these simple but correct and long-term things.
We will not become the first in this industry, and you don't have to expect so much from us, because we really can't do it. But we will do something that is in line with our values, or after a few years, if we don't want to do it in the future, or one day we "retire", and I think back to when I was younger, I thought, "Hey, this guy is okay!
All of us in front of the camera many times, in fact, are very restrained, unwilling to play loud music, unwilling to speed up the number of words, unwilling to induce others to place orders, because that is definitely not our intention.
Consumption makes people happy, but consumerism makes people miserable. It is a question of "degree", a question of need.
In the premiere with Hui, Lao Yu appeared in the live broadcast room with Hui, showing his support for Dong Yuhui and his more than 70 young partners.
If Lao Yu doesn't appear in the live broadcast room with Hui, he will be spread by the "unscrupulous" media, saying: Dong Yuhui, you are working against Lao Yu now.
Actually, no, this is just Lao Yu's new strategy. If you do it, it will be Lao Yu's left and right hands, and it doesn't matter to Dong Yuhui to me. Don't scold me, but I'm personally quite happy, after all, I'm now in a round life......
Maybe all this is not what I want, if there is really a choice, I am still willing to go back, there is no policy, to be a teacher, that is what I really want.
But since you are chosen to sell the goods, you have to sell the goods, and you just need to do it well.
Although there is pressure, when there is a problem, Mr. Yu is always absent, and it always appears after the problem is solved......
Dong Yuhui understands Lao Yu, and actively communicates with Lao Yu every day......
Dong Yuhui has always been more open-minded: no matter what the final outcome of the incident is, he hopes that after he walks out of New Oriental one day, after he leaves, no one will blame him.
That's why so many people like Dong Yuhui: simple, kind, and simple...... Unique, unrepeatable.
Some people say: Guan Yu took a fancy to Cao Cao's strategic thinking and was willing to follow it, but Taoyuan's righteous feelings were involved, and he loyally blocked Guan Yu's future, and also made the hero famous for centuries.
Some people in history say that they are always strikingly similar, but they remind future generations all the time......
For the spiritual world of young people in the new era, Dong Yuhui hopes that they can read it extensively: after all, what is written in the book has relatively undergone a certain amount of interrogation and inspection, and its credibility and authenticity are higher.
People can't be picky eaters when eating, and the same is true for reading, you can't just choose your favorite books to read all the time, if you only read your favorite books for the rest of your life, it will only make you walk into a very remote alleyway and can't get out.
The second one has to have a complete cognitive structure. Don't get stuck in an information cocoon. To make some particularly correct friends, the resonance and resonance between classmates, if a group of classmates talk about games and stories after class, it will be very different from a group of classmates chatting about problems after class.
After all, talking about games and stories for a long time will make you lose yourself.
Read more books and resonate with the sages.
Nowadays, many children play with mobile phones and rarely read books.
But to cultivate a child, we should start with the books he likes to read, as long as he can sit down and maintain a long period of concentration, even if he can read comic books, and then parents should accompany their children to read, synchronize with their children, don't be out of sync, and do their own things.
Follow him to do the same thing, not to supervise him, after reading it, to share and chat with the child, to ask questions, to stimulate the child to think, will have his own evaluation of his own things.
The purpose of reading a book is to see through the essence of the phenomenon and summarize a feeling of one's own from reading the book.
Ask questions through chatting to let your child feel that you care about reading with him.
After a long time, after he has a reading habit, he can practice his circle drawing, write or knock on the computer to save important content, and most importantly, let the child share and repeat the books he has read with others.
If you encounter anxiety and confusion, use reading books as a tool to smooth out your mental world.
Read more and try to find your own direction for the future in the books left by the sages. He can't solve real problems, but he can give you mental motivation.
Although the times are changing, it belongs to an era of technological virtual development, an era of continuous change in social structure, but people have not changed much about truth, goodness and beauty.