Is there an elderly person in the family who gradually becomes strange and unreasonable after getting sick?
Mother favors son
My dad was hospitalized in a car accident, I accompany him day and night, and my brother occasionally goes for a walk at night, eats a meal and leaves! I said to my mother, hire a nurse, my mother is worried about money, but I have been on leave for more than a month, I can't keep going to work, I also have children at home! I discussed with my brother to let my brother go to accompany him for a day, my mother felt sorry for her son who was tired from work, and even more tired after work, so I was not tired when I co-authored? Later, I said to my brother that we both take turns to take care of them, both are children, and they must be shared equally!
My father was sick and a demon
When I lived at my house, I brought food and drink to my dad, but he didn't eat this or that every day. (Actually, my mom can do it herself). It doesn't matter. The most important thing is to torture people, to be a demon without a bottom line! I don't let people live in peace at all, I make trouble at two ends in three days, scolding me for all kinds of ugly things, because I have an unhappy marriage, he scolds me for "never seeing a man in my life" and so on, I really can't imagine that a father scolds his own daughter.
He also lied and told people that I had beaten her, but he had choked my child's arm and it was bruised and purple. The child said that I was afraid of my grandfather! My husband didn't go home because of the divorce, and I couldn't see anyone for a long time. I was really heartbroken in the face of my parents, but I couldn't do anything about him. They relied on their old age.
Endless torture
I tried my best to take care of him, but in exchange for hurtful words and endless accusations, I couldn't reply that I couldn't do it, and then my dad was a demon again, so I yelled back, don't think that the weak are reasonable! He told his relatives in the group, saying that I locked him up at home and abused him, and wanted to kidnap me through my relatives!
I called those relatives directly in front of him and my mother and said that they were unreasonable, but none of them dared to criticize me and dare to say that they would take care of me!
It's not my mom and dad alone
My brother shrunk his head at the critical moment, so after taking care of them in March, I sent them directly to my brother's house, and there was no one at my brother's house, so I took a small stool for them, put them in the guard room of my brother's community, explained to the security guard, and then went home directly!
Love yourself in your later years and do not affect your children
Two days ago, I saw the news of writer Cai Lan's arrangements for his later years. It gave me unlimited motivation to make money. 82-year-old Cai Lan, sold his real estate and old players, lived in the most prosperous hotel in Hong Kong, and hired 8 people to take care of his daily life. It not only takes care of his life, but also provides spiritual companionship, chat companionship, reading, travel, etc. to enrich his spiritual life. This also makes me full of confidence in life, and work hard to make money for nothing else, in order not to torture my children in the future, and not to become a burden!
Say it at the end
Two grinding spirits, one is super stubborn and morally kidnapping patriarchs, the other keeps shouting that he is sick, and his biggest hobby is to be hospitalized and torture me. I don't blame them, I only blame myself, maybe I did too much evil in my previous life to have such a situation, so I just want to accumulate more virtue, have a gentle character in the next life, and meet a gentle family!