Mr. Yang Jiang once said: "All relationships in the world are mutual. ”
All success is not achieved overnight, but requires mutual support.
Among the strong, they will open roads in the mountains, build bridges in the water, and cross others and themselves.
And the weak will only tear each other apart, and it will be difficult to move an inch.
The best relationship between people is to be noble to each other.
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Friends, illuminate each other
Gibran once said: "The meaning of life lies in the mutual illumination of people." ”
Unilateral trouble is to ask, and to help each other is to rush.
During the Tang Dynasty, the poet Li Bai was uninhibited, talented, and made a wide range of friends in his life.
He is a close friend with Gao Shi, and has traveled together many times, recited poems, and talked about life.
Li Bai also taught Gao Shi the art of sumo, so that Gao Shi won the position of cavalry captain during the war in Jibei.
Later, during the Anshi Rebellion, Li Lan rebelled, and Li Bai was involved because he didn't know people clearly.
When Li Bai was defeated, Gao Shi was crusading as the envoy of Huainan Jiedu, and his subordinates had been arresting Li Bai.
After quelling the rebellion, Li Bai was imprisoned and wrote a letter to Gao Shi for help.
But Gao Shi ignored it, concealed his relationship with Li Bai, and burned the poems written to Li Bai in the past.
Li Bai's wife has visited her many times, but Gao Shi has avoided it.
In the end, Li Bai and Gao Shi became strangers and drifted apart.
True friends are not to praise each other, but to be able to help in times of crisis.
俗话说：“知音难遇，贵人难觅。 ”
In life, I have met countless people, and I have a long road, and most of them are passers-by.
When in distress, there are only a handful of people who stand up, and when they are down, there are even fewer people who do not abandon them.
No matter how many friends you have, you don't have to be proud.
In life, people who are icing on the cake are commonplace, and people who fall into the well can be seen everywhere.
Often between friends, they will only embarrass each other and drag each other down until they are covered in mud.
Good friendship is a gift of life, not a sacrifice, not a bond, but to be able to illuminate each other and be each other's nobles.
Help each other in times of trouble, and share them together in times of frustration.
A true friend is a beam of light that shines into life, shining on each other, but each is wonderful.
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Lovers achieve each other
In Jane Eyre, it is written: "Love is a game, and both parties must be evenly matched in order to rely on each other in the long run." ”
I once saw such a story:
Rabbits race with tortoises, and in the course, there are mountains, there are rivers.
The turtle is in the mountains and has a hard time crawling.
The rabbit was stranded on the bank of the river because it could not swim.
So, the tortoise and the hare consulted, and the two sides came to an agreement.
When in the mountains, the rabbit carries the tortoise on its back and gallops all the way.
When they reached the riverbank, the tortoise carried the hare on its back and crossed the river.
Eventually, the two reached the finish line together.
This is the famous win-win theory of tortoises and rabbits.
There is a cloud in "Youlan Cao": "Cooperation is like an orchid, promote its fragrance; ”
The best love is not an endless request, nor is it a shackle of bondage, but nourishes each other and grows together.
If it is a husband and wife, they can neither comfort each other emotionally, nor complement each other in the pattern.
will only tear each other's hind legs and hinder each other's growth, until both sides lose and end miserably.
Between lovers, there must not only be a righteous spirit of treating each other with all sincerity, but also a tacit understanding that will never be abandoned.
You must know that what can move people's hearts more than a thousand words is each other's achievements.
Only when each other is noble, the road ahead can go farther and wider.
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Between family members, we share joys and sorrows
I once heard such a sentence: "Everything in the world is false and illusory, only family affection is true and eternal." ”
In the world, family members are closest to them, but they are also the most neglected by themselves.
There was a young man, born in an ordinary family, with a father who was a worker and a mother who was a nurse.
Young people's dream since childhood is to become an engineer.
Although his parents have a mediocre culture and cannot help him technically, they have always supported him silently behind the scenes.
When young people are frustrated by losing an engineering competition at school, parents always give them timely encouragement.
And patted himself on the shoulder and said, "Don't be discouraged, failure is not terrible, what is terrible is that you lose the courage to learn from failure." As long as you persevere, one day you will succeed. ”
When his friends laughed at the young man's whimsy, his parents would tell him, "If they all deny you, then you should be doubly sure of yourself." ”
The constant care and encouragement of his parents has always been his driving force.
Eventually, the young man became one of the best engineers.
As the saying goes, "Everything in the world is changing, and some have even changed beyond recognition, only the family remains." ”
Whenever I encounter hardships outside, my family will always become my most solid backing.
When you are confused and helpless, you can solve problems, and when you are tired, you have someone to rely on.
When we encounter wind and rain, we will carry it together, and we will overcome adversity together.
Family members can share joys and sorrows, and can illuminate each other's world and become each other's harbor.
No matter when and where, family members will always be the eternal nobles in their lives.
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As the old saying goes: "Adults are for themselves, and they become themselves." ”
On the road of life, no one is alone.
There will be countless hands behind him silently supporting him.
Whether it is a long-term companion of family and lovers, or a friend who sends charcoal in the snow, they are all silent ferrymen.
I hope that for the rest of my life, everything I ask will come true, everything I will do will be smooth, and all I will meet will be nobles.