In the theatrical world of light and shadow, every insignificant interaction may become the focus of public opinion.
No, on the star-studded stage of the 2024 TV Drama Quality Ceremony, a handshake between the veteran actor Ding Yongdai and the acting representative Chen Jianbin was like a pebble thrown into a calm lake, causing ripples and arousing heated discussions among the audience and netizens.
"The beginning of etiquette lies in the right body. This is the teaching of the ancients, and it is also the code of conduct in our daily social interactions. However, in the midst of the ever-changing times, do all traditional etiquette need to be rigidly followed, or do they need to be interpreted flexibly according to the situation?
When Mr. Ding Yongdai got up and walked calmly to Chen Jianbin with the calmness accumulated over the years, and Chen Jianbin chose to respond with a peaceful attitude, this seemingly ordinary handshake was actually a deep dialogue about respect and understanding.
The "temperature" of the handshake fights
"A gentleman treats people with sincerity and doesn't ask anything", when Ding Yongdai and Chen Jianbin touched their palms, some netizens quickly captured this detail and couldn't help but speak: "Sit down and shake hands, do you owe some fire?" After all, in the traditional concept of etiquette, standing and shaking hands is regarded as a high level of respect for others, especially for respected seniors. However, we should also understand that the spiritual core of "li" lies in expressing sincerity and respect, and the form is only the carrier.
Another interpretation of respect
On the other hand, there are also wise people who treat it indifferently, quoting a common saying: "Sincerity is not tall, short, fat or thin, sincerity does not matter whether you sit or stand, walk or lie down." They suggested that Chen Jianbin may not have intentionally neglected this move, but based on the deep friendship between the two and the tacit understanding between them. Perhaps he knew that even if he remained sitting, Ding Yongdai could feel the respect and closeness from his heart. As the British writer C.S. Lewis said, "True respect is not about what you do on the surface, but what you feel on the inside." ”
A blend of context and mind
In today's society, many public etiquette is undergoing a modern evolution, and people are beginning to re-examine those deeply ingrained norms of behavior. In this context, Chen Jianbin 's "seated handshake" has also become a vivid case of the public's discussion of modern etiquette. It reminds us that we should not lose sight of the essence of interpersonal communication – the authentic exchange of emotions and mutual understanding – while pursuing an outward sense of ritual.
Netizens are hotly discussed
The comment area is almost full of negative comments, saying that Chen Jianbin has an arrogant attitude, bad acting skills, no politeness, and is not as good as ordinary people.
Some netizens said: Ding Yongdai's coffee position is not enough, isn't Hu Ge's coffee seat also insufficient? Look at what Hu Ge did, bending over with both hands to show his respect for his predecessors vividly.
Write at the end
"The purpose of etiquette is not to bind people, but to set them free. "Whether standing or sitting, the handshake is just a symbol, carrying the emotional bond between the two artists and between them and the audience.
Perhaps, we should learn to appreciate this kind of sincere expression outside the rules, because it just reflects a kind of tolerance and progress in the entertainment industry and even the social atmosphere - etiquette does not have to be confined to form, what matters is the heart that is willing to respect others and convey warmth. On top of the brilliant quality ceremony, the handshake story between Ding Yongdai and Chen Jianbin is such a vivid "etiquette education class".
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