Learning to be independent is to have each other when two people are alone, and have oneself when one person is alone.
Wang Ou, who I haven't seen for a long time, has finally returned to work!
After becoming a mother, she cut off her long hair and became a goddess with short shoulder-length hair, a blue shirt with little black pants, showing a fashionable charm.
The figure is as slim as ever, the skin is firm, and the appearance is gorgeous.
I don't look like I've given birth to a child at all.
Now 41 years old, her overall maintenance and temperament are not far behind.
Since Wang Ou was revealed to be with cross talk actor He Jiuhua, she has been the focus of the media.
It is rumored that Wang Ou and He Jiuhua have been in love for 9 years, but He Jiuhua also revealed that he had a secret meeting with a mysterious woman in the car.
But she didn't mind at all, and then she became pregnant and had a child.
As for whether she really had a child with He Jiuhua, she herself did not talk about it positively.
For those who can marry female stars, they are generally either rich or expensive.
Therefore, Wang Ou was in such a hurry to return to work after giving birth, and netizens speculated that this was due to the insecurity of marrying into a wealthy family?
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Married to "Beijing" at the age of 40
Wang Ou is also a powerful actor in domestic entertainment, and his wealth accumulated over the years is quite a lot.
She was known as "Chanel's Little Grey Player".
Wang Ou's wardrobe is full of Chanel limited edition clothes, and all Hermès bags can cover a down payment on a house.
Not to mention her vintage jewelry, accessories, and more.
In a variety show, Wang Ou's home in a Beijing mansion was piled up with all kinds of high heels.
Everything from retro to trendy, and the lowest price also starts from the 4th.
In addition to these visible things, even the hoes used to grow vegetables were imported from Germany, and a set of tools cost 5,000 oceans.
And a set of cups on the table costs more than 1,000.
In "Sister Lang", most female artists rely on their skills to become famous, and only Wang Ou is famous for her "second-hand" clothing.
She is known as a "medieval rich" and "high-level player" in the fashion industry.
As the "trench" sister, Wang Ou is not surprised to find He Jiuhua.
Although He Jiuhua is only a cross talk actor in Deyun Club, he is an authentic Beijinger.
It has always been rumored that He Jiuhua's parents are well-known wealthy businessmen in Beijing, and the family is still running a business, so he is never short of money.
Previously, it was revealed that the mansion where He Jiuhua lived in Beijing belonged to a high-end community, a place where money and power could not buy, and a family background that could be clearly known.
The fact that 40-year-old Wang Ou can marry "Beijing" obviously means something.
Therefore, when the two made their relationship public, the fans of the two families almost fought because they didn't like each other.
However, love is not something that fans have the final say.
True happiness is in your own hands.
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There are traces of damage
Wang Ou's emotional road is not smooth, and every emotion is controversial by the outside world.
Perhaps, it has something to do with her upbringing.
An unhappy childhood takes a lifetime to heal, and I think that's probably the case with Wang Ou.
Wang Ou was born in a divorced family and walked on thin ice in his childhood.
Her parents divorced when she was three years old, and she was sent to live with her relatives.
In Wang Ou's memory, his childhood was spent in the homes of various relatives.
Sometimes mom is busy at work and even her friends come to take care of her.
Such a growth environment made Wang Ou sensible at a young age, and she had to do everything by herself.
When she grew up, Wang Ou wanted to participate in a beauty pageant, but her mother's cold water was poured on her one after another.
"You're black and ugly, why did you participate in the pageant, how did you get selected?"
The blow from his mother made Wang Ou feel very insecure.
But Wang Ou eventually participated in the competition, and just like that, 15-year-old Wang Ou participated in various modeling competitions and won awards.
It is precisely because of this that after Wang Ou was 15 years old, her mother did not work anymore and became Wang Ou's adoptive mother.
After years of hardship and dedication, he has never received the affirmation and encouragement of his mother, which has hurt Wang Ou's heart.
Wang Ou has repeatedly compromised for the sake of family affection, so he can only enlighten himself, because his father has long since died, and his mother is his only relative.
After many years in the entertainment industry, Wang Ou finally became famous with film and television dramas such as "Langya Bang" and "The Pretender".
Ironically, many friends and even classmates who haven't been in touch for years sent her congratulations.
Perhaps, this is human nature.
The growth of childhood, the experience of youth, and the injuries that have been suffered, even if they grow up, there are traces.
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"Desperate Sanniang"
may have seen through the essence of life, Wang Ou is also a "desperate Sanniang" in his career.
In "The Pretender", she played Wang Manchun, who was ruthless and had a lot of means.
After wearing a dress, he immediately changed his style, and his acting skills were exquisite.
In "Xiaoman Life", Wang Ou changed his gorgeous image from the past and replaced it with curly hair.
The exaggerated shape is refreshing.
In "Riding the Wind and Waves", Wang Ou worked very hard, and it was not easy for cross-border actors to sing and dance, but she finally succeeded in forming a group and won good results.
In "Star Detective", she uses her ingenuity and charm to bring the audience scene after scene of reasoning carnival, which is very enjoyable to watch.
For Wang Ou, she thinks that actors should be less on variety shows.
Because, in this way, the mystery of the actor can be maintained.
But the cruel reality is that the competition in the entertainment industry is fierce nowadays, and it is easy to be eliminated without traffic and exposure, so I am quite passive.
For the sake of her career, she can only balance it.
In the past few years, everything that has surrounded her is related to her private life.
Now that she has made a comeback, she can only speak with high-quality works.
For actors, high-quality works and superb acting skills always come first.
As for those private lives, it's just entertainment gossip after dinner.
Regardless of whether you really marry into a wealthy family or not, only with effective economic security can you maintain your personality independence.
Learning to be independent is to have each other when two people are alone, and have oneself when one person is alone.
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Author: Wan Muzi, CCDM China Career Planner, BSC Senior Career Planner, American Shubo School Career Planner, more than 9 years of enterprise project management, registered international psychological counselor, more than 5 years of corporate training lecturer, platform contract author, second child mother.