Banning children from playing with cigarette cards is a manifestation of parents' selfishness and ignorance!
How should childhood life be lived?
Children have their own ideas, parents have their own opinions, and today's children are still the same as the children of 20 years ago, they like to play and play unscrupulously.
Today's parents are no longer the parents of 20 years ago, afraid of the east and the west, afraid of losing at the starting line, after observing for a long time, the ignorance of this generation of parents makes people feel suffocated, because of the wrong cognition, their wrong PUA children, but also called "for your good".
Production of cigarette cards
The "cigarette card" that has been popular recently is very simple to make, take out the head of the discarded cigarette box, fold it into a rectangle, and then a group of children get together, slap the ground with an empty palm, and blow the cigarette card up by the palm wind, and turn it over to win.
In this regard, some parents complained to the education unit that their children were forbidden to play with cigarette cards, and the media reported that the Sanya Education Bureau required a ban on cigarette cards from being brought into the campus, on the grounds that playing cigarette cards was addictive, and they were worried that their children would not be interested in learning.
Can you play with cigarette cards?A letter written by the principal of Hunan
In March, Liuyang Daowu Primary School put forward its own suggestions to the school, hoping to win the right to play cigarette cards between classes, and the principal observed that the children had their own order when playing cigarette cards, and competed, exchanged or competed in accordance with the rules, and the principal decided to retain the children's childlike fun after observation.
She wrote a letter to parents, thinking that children learn to abide by the rules, competition and cooperation, interpersonal communication, and many abilities of resource utilization in the game, she was helpless when she received the ban request, the child just jumped out of the video game, socialized in the community and class, met to play cigarette cards after eating, and was no longer just chasing and playing at school, which is very precious from the perspective of educators, and hopes that parents and children will understand each other, rather than a ban.
Ignorant parents
Regarding education, today's parents are really involved in the margins of the universe, and the mouth of the recent training class has been inexplicably loosened, and some parents have begun to plan for their children to become dragons and phoenixes.
My child is in the first grade, and someone in the class group has signed up for the tutoring class to learn language and mathematics after class extended tutoring, and there are still a lot of people, is this really necessary?
Is it the correct educational idea to put lively and active children in front of their desks and forget to sleep and eat in order to learn?
Xuzhou was jokingly called the kindergarten of "Xin Zheku" by netizens, teaching children to make steamed buns, sewing clothes, raising chickens and planting flowers, some parents said that this is nonsense, what to do if the needle the hand?
On the other hand, parents deliberately go to rent a house for their children to sign up for school, different parents choose different ways, I support the kindergarten stage to learn these life skills is better, better than hand-copied newspapers and non-stop games, a few days ago asked the child what he learned in three years of kindergarten, he said that it is far from the first grade, all with play.
What is the real starting line?
They are all saying that don't lose at the starting line, what is the starting line? Is it knowledge, mentality, or social relations? The college entrance examination girl Fu Wendi with a hideous expression and sworn by was successfully admitted to the university, and the father is the president's child, and he wants to be the president when he grows up.
The only way for parents is to let their children learn hard, hoping to change their fate by relying on knowledge, is it realistic for parents?
Is this still the era when you go to college, and you will definitely be able to turn a sparrow into a phoenix?
Ordinary people must have more self-reliance and self-improvement survival skills, roll up to only 1% of the chance, it is better to cultivate children's ability to plan their future as soon as possible, the results of primary school and junior high school in my opinion is an illusion of prosperity, look at how many children who are okay with learning, in the third year of junior high school can not bear the pressure to suspend school, and then look at the third year of high school, how many children with bad grades, against the wind.
Learning ability does not mean future achievements, being able to endure the hardships of the third year of high school, and being able to withstand pressure after entering the society, is still optimistic, which is the real cultivation of an excellent child.
Childhood needs to be guided, not forbidden
Cigarette cards will not ruin children, stifling children's right to play is really ruining children, people in the 70s and 80s, which is not marbles full of dust, which girl skipping rope is not the higher the better.
If there is no better entertainment, the cigarette card may not be bad, our children also play, come back from school and lose the schoolbag and leave, but must come back to write homework on the light (the street lights in the community are turned on at 6 o'clock), I also Zhang Luo colleagues have saved a few cigarette boxes to bring him, of course, this is not free, the cigarette card must do housework, read textbooks, etc.
Properly letting go of children's right to play is more effective than banning, and the starting line is not all about the results of primary school, but the future family relationship, stress resistance, and survival ability are all part of the starting line.