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In an old village, there are two good friends, Ah Ming and Ah Keung. Amin is a determined and confident person who is always clear about where he stands and what to expect. Cuong, on the other hand, is a flexible person who is good at dealing with all kinds of people and is always able to handle interpersonal relationships harmoniously.
One day, there was a problem with the village's water source, and the villagers were thrown into chaos. Ah Ming and Ah Keong decided to work together to solve this problem. Ah Ming insisted that the problem should be solved at the source, while Cuong believed that the villagers' emotions should be appeased first. The two disagreed, but they didn't quarrel over it.
Cuong understands Amin's persistence and knows he has his reasons. Ah Ming also appreciates Cuong's flexibility and knows that he can communicate better with the villagers. So, the two decided to go their separate ways. Ah Ming goes to find the problem of water source, while Cuong goes to reassure the villagers.
Eventually, Ah Ming found the problem with the water source and solved it, while Cuong succeeded in reassuring the villagers. Harmony was restored to the village, and the villagers were grateful to them.
This story teaches us the importance of a solid and flexible self for problem-solving and interpersonal relationships. When we are faced with confusion, we can stand our ground like Ah Ming and be flexible like Cuong to adapt to different situations and needs.
The idea of a solid and flexible self delves into the complexity and richness of the human inner world. A solid self refers to a deep sense of self-worth that is not affected by external evaluations, while a flexible self is a self that can manifest a multifaceted and evolving self-concept as circumstances change. The two complement each other and together create a three-dimensional, plump personality image.
A solid sense of self-worth is based on a deep understanding and identification with oneself. This sense of value comes from within, not from the outside world. When we have such a sense of self-worth, we do not need to seek recognition from the outside world by controlling others, because we know that our own value exists independently. This kind of self-confidence allows us to maintain a calm mind when facing the evaluation of others, and not be swayed by the perception of the outside world.
A flexible self-concept means that we don't limit ourselves to a fixed framework or role. We are able to show different aspects of ourselves in different situations and as needed. This flexibility allows us to better adapt to the social environment and build good relationships with different people. At the same time, it gives us the opportunity to explore our potential and achieve personal growth and development.
Stability and flexibility are not mutually exclusive, but interdependent. A solid sense of self-worth provides us with an inner anchor that allows us to maintain inner stability in the face of ups and downs. A flexible self-concept allows us to continue to explore and expand our boundaries on a stable basis.
To achieve a solid and flexible self, we need constant reflection and self-awareness. By gaining insight into our inner world, we can better understand our own worth and potential. At the same time, we also need to learn to adjust our behaviors and attitudes in different situations to adapt to changes in the external environment.
Teacher AEC said
Many times, the problem in relationships arises in the confusion of our "identity". For example, if a leader ignores his identity as a husband and father in the face of his wife and children, and subconsciously behaves in the same way that the leader treats employees, then the emotional flow required for family affection will naturally weaken, and the demand and control will be enhanced, leading to family relationship problems. Therefore, when we face different people and things, we must clarify our corresponding identity to act. Of course, if you can unify your stable and flexible self under the corresponding identity, you will definitely become the leader of your life and achieve your own life.
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