At the 2024 TV Drama Quality Ceremony, the handshake between Ding Yongdai and Chen Jianbin sparked controversy among netizens.
At the ceremony, Ding Yongdai walked over and shook hands with Chen Jianbin who was sitting in the first row, however, Chen Jianbin did not stand up to greet him, but kept his sitting posture and shook hands with Ding Yongdai slightly. This scene sparked heated discussions among the audience, and the voices of controversy came and went.
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"It's rude to sit and shake hands with others!" Some netizens bluntly pointed out that shaking hands, as a common etiquette, represents respect and friendship between the two parties. On this occasion, Ding Yongdai, as an elder, should be more respected, and Chen Jianbin sat and shook hands, which seemed a bit out of courtesy.
However, there are also some netizens who have a different opinion. They believe that the way of shaking hands is not an absolute norm, and more importantly, the inner will of both parties and the sincerity of the interaction should be valued. Chen Jianbin sat and shook hands with Ding Yongdai, not because of disrespect, but out of a natural and equal mentality, probably too familiar.
See what netizens have to say
Guess why the standing ones are so eager to find the sitting handshakes?
Huan Huan beats
It felt like his wrist was bigger than his
It's a slow-motion look, and it looks like staring at someone, but it's not
People take the initiative to come up and shake hands, and they should stand up
You got it right, that's the reality
Mr. Ding's posture is also very modest, people take the initiative to come over to shake hands with you, and standing up to shake hands is also the minimum social etiquette
No matter who is older, people should get up when they go to greet each other, or owe it.
In fact, it's none of our business who is standing and who isn't up