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The years have left traces of vicissitudes on Dai Jiaoqian's face, but her life is extremely ordinary and happy. Although she has never been bathed in the glory of her acting career, she has a warm and harmonious family, a lovely daughter who is well cared for, and a husband who loves her deeply.
Today, Dai Jiaoqian no longer pursues fame and profit, and devotes herself to community public welfare activities to send warm care to her neighbors. She learned what true happiness is and lived an ordinary and fulfilling life.
Looking back to her young years, Dai Jiaoqian has infinite dreams and persistent pursuit of her acting career. In 1993, at the age of 13, she bravely signed up for the famous "Chinese Young Star Competition", showing her desire for the stage and her vision for the future at this turning point in her life.
In the same year, Wei Shuxian, a senior teacher, walked into the Yindu Art School in Shanghai and started her educational career. Wei Shuxian is like a beacon guiding the way, carefully guiding Dai Jiaoqian to move forward on the road of acting.
It was under the guidance of this mentor that Dai Jiaoqian met You Xiaogang, a director who was already famous at that time, and started a long and fruitful 6-year cooperation process.
You Xiaogang praised Dai Jiaoqian a lot, and promised that he would make her a household name within 5 years. Sure enough, Director You did what he said, and Dai Jiaoqian emerged in several successive film and television dramas directed by him, and gradually became a high-profile "You Girl".
Director You is even more strict, and through high-intensity physical fitness and skill training, the youthful and sharp energy on her body is smoothed out one by one. He personally tailored an important role for Dai Jiaoqian, allowing her to show her outstanding acting talent.
During the cooperation, Dai Jiaoqian witnessed You Xiaogang's unique literary accomplishment and extraordinary ability to recognize people, and was in awe of this young and promising director.
Just when Dai Jiaoqian's career was getting better, fate caused her to encounter another director, Yu Zheng, and this intersection brought her life into a major turning point.
The first time to cooperate in the TV series "Happy Mother-in-law and Pretty Daughter-in-law", Yu Zheng praised Dai Jiaoqian's strength. Subsequently, they collaborated on several works one after another, and Dai Jiaoqian was once regarded as Yu Zheng's "reassuring" role.
However, the good times did not last long, and in 2014, in the context of trying to promote newcomers to the top, Dai Jiaoqian's position under the command of the director began to be marginalized step by step.
Under this embarrassing atmosphere, the drama "Palace Lock City" directed by Yu Zheng came out controversially. Attentive viewers found that the plot setting, character creation and overall background of the play had a striking resemblance to the famous writer Qiong Yao's classic "Plum Blossom Branding", which caused doubts to arise.
In the face of such a major controversy, Mr. Yu Zheng took a tough attitude and rejected the accusation of "plagiarism" to the outside world, showing a fearless posture. However, at this critical moment, Dai Jiaoqian's words inadvertently exposed the contradictions of the entire situation to the world, making the situation more passive.
She bluntly admitted that "Palace Lock City" did draw inspiration from "Plum Blossom Branding", and even more exaggerated called it "a clear version of "The East is Undefeated".
Dai Jiaoqian's bold words are undoubtedly a heavy blow to Yu Zheng, who is in crisis in the original itself. As a result, Director Yu was not relentless, and reprimanded Dai Jiaoqian's words and deeds of "reversing right and wrong" through social networking platforms.
As a result, the two sides fell into a tense standoff.
In this dispute, it is obvious that Dai Jiaoqian is in a rather passive and unfavorable environment. Whether it was an unintentional mistake or some other motive, this act has doomed her place under the command to cease to exist.
In the end, the court ruled that Yu Zhengsu publicly apologized to Qiong Yao and compensated 5 million, and Dai Jiaoqian suffered a heavy blow to her career.
Just when Dai Jiaoqian's acting career suffered a heavy blow, another "nobleman" in her life appeared - her husband "Brother Gui" (Wu Qihua). This persistent man spent 10 years winning Dai Jiaoqian's heart with his actions.
At the beginning, your brother was just an "acquaintance" of the Dai family. In order to get close to his sweetheart, he always traveled thousands of miles back and forth between Shanghai and Beijing, sometimes buying fresh fruits for his family, sometimes assisting in repairing equipment at home, showing his sincerity to the Dai family everywhere.
Your brother's frequent visits also made Dai Jiaoqian's mother regard her as a family-like existence, only waiting for her beloved daughter's nod of approval.
Winning the approval of your family is important, but it is obviously even more difficult to win the support of Dai Jiaoqian's lover. For this reason, your brother did not hesitate to get close to Dai Jiaoqian's friends in order to get inside information.
Once, when director Ding Zijun was filming "The Legend of Flying Fish", he asked Dai Jiaoqian about her relationship status, and he unmistakably said the identity characteristics of "Brother Gui".
This surprised Dai Jiaoqian, and she began to re-examine this "calf licking love" suitor.
In the end, what moved Dai Jiaoqian to your brother was his unreserved dedication when her father was hospitalized. At that time, Dai Jiaoqian was in the field and could not be separated, and your brother devoted himself wholeheartedly to Dai's father's nursing work without saying a word, and this selfless dedication deeply touched Dai's mother, and tears burst out of her eyes.
Dai Jiaoqian saw the kindness and innocence in his heart and began to open his heart.
In the days after marriage, your brother guarded his wife like a shadow, not only her personal bodyguard, but also her most loyal admirer. Whenever Dai Jiaoqian stood on the stage to show her light, he always silently guarded behind the scenes, recording her most beautiful moments.
Even in the group photo of a friend's party, the figure of their husband and wife rarely appears at the same time, and to the outside world, who Dai Jiaoqian's husband is is still a mystery. After adding lovely children to the family, your brother did his best to shelter his wife and daughter, and did his best to create a safe and stable family environment, so that Dai Jiaoqian could get through the trough of her career.
With the care and companionship of her husband, Dai Jiaoqian finally began to live the life she dreamed of - having a warm and happy family, and also having the opportunity to devote herself to social welfare undertakings.
In his married life, your brother used his actions to protect his wife from the outside world. He paid special attention to his words and deeds, for fear of causing any trouble to Dai Jiaoqian.
Whenever Dai Jiaoqian goes out to work, your brother is not only her personal bodyguard and her most loyal fan, recording her most dazzling moments on the stage.
Even on the occasion of a group photo at a gathering of friends, the figures of the couple are rarely in the same frame, and to the outside world, who Dai Jiaoqian's husband is is still a mystery.
Soon after, the couple added a lovely baby daughter. In April 2016, Dai Jiaoqian released a set of photos of newborns, accompanied by words and words, describing the joy of being a new mother.
Since then, your brother has devoted himself more wholeheartedly to the family, sheltering his wife and daughter from the wind and rain, and trying his best to create a safe and warm haven, so that Dai Jiaoqian can be married and taught with peace of mind.
Although her acting career suffered a heavy blow, with the support and encouragement of her brother, Dai Jiaoqian did not collapse. On the contrary, she has shown unprecedented tenacity and calmness, in addition to taking care of her family, she is also actively involved in community welfare activities to send warmth and care to her neighbors.
She learned what true happiness is, no longer just pursuing fame and fortune, and living an ordinary and fulfilling life in peace.
Some netizens speculated that Dai Jiaoqian's confession video of sharing her life on social platforms may reveal that there have been cracks in her marriage. But this is not the case, and the relationship between her and your brother is still as strong as ever.
She is re-examining her life with peace of mind and living the happy life she wants.