Love is the most real and valuable only when it is implemented in concrete life.
Good love never needs to be smallpox, it doesn't need to be grand and gorgeous, it is nothing more than three meals a day, eating, drinking and sleeping.
Judging whether there is true love between two people, the specific performance is usually in these ordinary and trivial things.
From the matter of "sleeping", you can see what the relationship between the two people is.
Chat with each other before bed
Once, I was a guest at my aunt's house.
When I went to bed at night, I heard the sound of laughter coming from the room of my aunt and my brother-in-law next door.
The sister-in-law didn't know what interesting things he was sharing with the aunt, and he made the aunt laugh from ear to ear.
My aunt and my husband have been married for 30 years, and their relationship has always been very good.
By their age, many people have become speechless, and some couples live a chicken.
But their feelings were not affected in the slightest.
The reason is that no matter how busy the two of them are, they will chat before going to bed at night.
Both parties shared their experiences of the day, shared what interesting things they saw, ended the day in chatting, and spent those unparticipated times, through these descriptions, it was like participating in person.
Studies have shown that partners who chat before bed will have a better relationship than silent couples, and how they spend their bedtime determines the temperature of the relationship.
Whether the sleep is compatible
Sleep fit is really important.
There are many partners who choose to part ways because they can't sleep together.
I have a couple around me who can't sleep in the same bed at all, and they quarrel when they don't agree.
Women hate men for snoring, men hate women for not sleeping honestly, and always like to roll quilts.
Men like to stay up late, and every time they lie down, there is a lot of movement, and women sleep very shallowly and are easily woken up.
The two of them always quarrel over sleeping, and they separate after arguing, and they can't go on after a long time.
Those loving couples are not without bad habits when they sleep, they may also snore, and some people may like to stay up late.
It's just because they both know how to tolerate and forbear, and know how to think about each other.
If you sleep shallowly, I will go to bed early, and the movement will be quieter, I will snore for fear of disturbing you, so I will sleep again when you fall asleep.
There is nothing that cannot be solved if we are considerate and tolerant of each other.
Wake up in the middle of the night reaction
One night, in the middle of the night I had an upset stomach and went to the toilet frequently.
Once when I went to the toilet, I accidentally tripped over a stool and made a loud noise.
My husband was woken up by me, and he immediately cared about what was wrong with me?
When I learned that I was sick to my stomach, I immediately got up and poured hot water for me, and filled a hot water bag with hot water to warm my stomach.
Seeing my husband's reaction, my heart was sweet, and I was even more convinced that I hadn't married the wrong person.
When they are sleeping soundly at night and are suddenly woken up, most people will definitely feel a little unhappy.
But the person who really loves you will worry about you more than if he is unhappy.
He won't blame you for waking him up, he will only care about your situation, and will take care of you to comfort you and take care of you.
When two people are together, whether they can sleep together is really important.
The quality of sleep determines the quality of marriage.
Those loving couples are able to sleep together.
They spend their bedtime with hugs and chats, not with backs and silence.
Know how to be considerate and understanding of each other, and will not easily blame and lose your temper.
May we all be able to sleep with the person we like and spend the rest of our lives together.