Actually, I don't want to talk about this issue today, because I have talked to you before, about the recovery period, the handling of various special festivals, I will not repeat it here, the reason why I mention this today is because I want to tell you some problems in the chat by talking about this birthday issue.
Xiaoyu said to redeem
Normally, we take the initiative to contact your ex, who doesn't have a very good attitude towards you. But if you don't contact your ex, your ex is unlikely to take the initiative to come to you, so when you choose the content of the chat, try to avoid feelings, things that the other party is anxious about, etc., and also avoid apologies and essays, etc., which are all content that the other party is unwilling to talk about.
At the same time, you need to adjust your mindset and maintain a good attitude towards your ex's feedback, so that your communication can continue.
Let me give you two cases that I have actually encountered.
The first case was when I met a counselor who broke up unattractively, and the advice I gave at the time was to disconnect and deal with it, and after about two months, I met his ex-girlfriend's birthday.
In order to express his love for his ex-girlfriend, he waited until twelve o'clock in the morning, sent a birthday wish, and transferred a 520 red envelope, his girlfriend said thank you, and then returned the red envelope to him, and then deleted him.
Then the consulter was very sad and sad, felt that it was useless to be disconnected for so long, and deleted the contact information.
The second case, which is also a consultant, is also an unattractive breakup, and he was disconnected for two months, and then successfully reunited, and there was no need in the reconnect, and the interaction between the two got better and better, and then on the day of his ex's birthday, he just sent a red envelope of 5.2 yuan that night, and didn't say anything.
At this time, his predecessor jokingly said, 5.2 yuan, too stingy.
This consultant is also very calm, saying: The pattern is a little more open, I send 5.2 yuan to female friends, and if you perform better, you can make an exception to 5.3 yuan.
Xiaoyu said to redeem
Now that the case is over, let me give you a brief analysis:
In the first case, why did the Avengers fail, because at the beginning of the Avengers, he directly exposed his sense of need, but chose a birthday time, said happy birthday in the early hours of the night, and sent a red envelope of 520.
First of all, as long as your ex is thinking normally, you can know that you are on time and on time to bless the day, too hard; secondly, the red envelope of 520 yuan is particularly valuable for you who are not a couple, and the number 520 is too obvious, you still want to redeem the other party.
I don't think any ex will accept your red envelope unless your ex is very short of rice.
In the second case, the success of the Avengers also stems from the fact that they did not put pressure on their ex, and their performance on their birthdays was remarkable. The second is that the red envelope sent is 5.2 yuan, and who will receive this is not a big problem.
And they are already able to chat normally at this time, even if the number 5.2 is ambiguous, it doesn't matter much, and at the same time, it also arouses the interactive interest of girls, and they feel that 5.2 yuan is too stingy.
Then his answer was also very clever, saying that sending a female friend is this number, and another meaning is that the girlfriend is really 520, so that the ex can try to think about what it is like to be a girlfriend.
Xiaoyu said to redeem
Today, I just took a birthday case to illustrate that in communication with your ex, if you want the communication between you to continue, you must not expose your sense of need, and learn to create a good interactive atmosphere.
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