Some people say:
To see if a woman is doing well in marriage, you don't need to look at her circle of friends, you don't need to listen to what she says, you just need to look at her state to know the answer.
Born from the heart, a woman who lives a happy, stable and down-to-earth life must have a calm and beautiful face, and behind her, there must be a man who really spoils her and loves her.
There is no specific standard for a good husband, but how well a man behaves as a husband is known from the state of his wife.
Lovers are like flowers, and they need to be nourished by sunshine and rain.
If you meet someone who is not ladylike and does not have a florist who cares for flowers, then love yourself well, let yourself be self-reliant, burst with energy, and live as a vigorous grass.
One
Love is not just spoken, it is done. The spring breeze turns into rain, and the lover is silent.
Whether a woman is happy or not, you don't need to prove it, just look at your face.
The first time Sunshine deeply realized this was after giving birth to Erbao.
Back at work, female colleagues praised Sunshine for being in such a good state, and they didn't look like their mothers who had given birth to Erbao at all.
Sunshine didn't believe it at first, until she saw her red-faced face in the mirror.
Indeed, compared with when Dabao was born, the state is really heaven and earth, although after giving birth to Erbao fat into a ball, but the mood is happy, laughing every day, the whole person has a white and chubby moisturizing beauty.
In contrast, when she gave birth to Dabao, she lost weight like lightning during her maternity leave, and her whole body was tired and her eyes were dull.
Everything is because men have gotten better.
Dabao came unexpectedly, the man was not psychologically prepared to be a father at that time, he was young and playful, and he did not have a deep understanding of marriage, so he was basically in a state of "kicking and moving".
At that time, Sunshine was also young, and the panic caused by pregnancy and the disharmony with her mother-in-law made her spend the whole pregnancy in resentment. The man is not strong, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are in conflict, and after the birth of the son, it is a night crying baby, during that time, the sunny life is gray.
Sunshine's parenting record has this passage:
Two years ago, I was full of girlishness. Now I am, even if I have a beautiful face and filters, I still can't cover my tiredness and old age. The most terrifying thing is that I have a stingy and mean look on my face.
But Erbao was negotiated by Sunshine and her husband together, and at this time, the man, who was middle-aged, had experienced countless contradictions and training, and had become considerate and gentle. It is precisely because of this that although Erbao has been busier since he was born, because of the man's thoughtfulness and help, Sunshine feels that the days are smoother and happier.
No matter how deep the marriage vows are, behind every bright and beautiful woman, there is a man who gives her love and nourishment.
Two
A good marriage will make you feel happy and will also make you younger and younger.
But a happy marriage can be met but not sought, and many times, marriage is not something that can be achieved by one person's hard work.
If you can't meet a lover, you can spoil yourself with your best efforts, make your heart strong, full of energy, although inconspicuous, no shelter, but still live as a tenacious grass.
A few days ago, Feng Chime went to the hospital and saw a sad scene:
A young woman with a big belly tried to tie the loose shoelaces, but the belly was so big that the woman bent down several times and couldn't reach it, and the man next to the woman looked at it in a daze, without the slightest intention of stepping forward to help. A nurse next to her couldn't stand it and yelled at the man: Are you wood?
Wind Chimes laughed silently, there are too many straight men of steel who don't know what responsibility is and what care is. Including her ex-husband.
Feng Chime divorced her ex-husband because she didn't feel care and love at all in her marriage. After ten years of hard work, Wind Chimes finally decided to let himself go.
Leaving the man, the economy is stretched, and the wind chime will find a way to make money in many ways. When a small goal is achieved, Wind Chimes will also reward themselves with a small gift.
When he began to work hard to make money and know how to love himself, Feng Chime's eyes were more calm and self-consistent and calm.
Ten years ago, this was completely absent.
The happy and satisfied face of a wife is a man's greatest medal.
A woman's calm and calm face is the greatest reward for herself.
Born from the heart, whether you live well or not, is all on the same face.