Xiao San's truth: How to stimulate the original partner, make the cheating man disgusted with marriage, divorce and marry her?
More than ninety percent of cheating men are not willing to divorce for the sake of the mistress.
On the one hand, it is because the conditions of women who can be juniors are generally very poor.
Divorce for the sake of the mistress, for the cheating man, is a loss.
On the other hand, cheating men are very greedy.
If marriage and extramarital affairs can go hand in hand, then there is no need for a cheating man to divorce,
They can coax the mistress and their wives at the same time,
Neither side gives up, neither side loses, so most cheating men will not choose to divorce.
Cheating men don't choose to divorce, and if the mistress wants to get on the throne, he has to rely on the mistress's means.
Most mistresses don't start with cheating men, but take the original wife.
Before a junior, she told Jiaxin about her history of ascendancy.
This junior's condition is not good, compared to the original partner who was kicked out of the game,
She is much worse, her family conditions are not as good as the original match, her parents are divorced, and no one cares.
And the original parents are both public institutions, and they also married a car.
The personal conditions of the junior are not as good as the original match, she works as a clerk in a private company, with a monthly salary of less than 5,000,
Originally worked in a bank, with a monthly salary of nearly 10,000 yuan, and there are good development prospects.
The cheating man matches the original partner in all aspects, which is also the reason for the cheating man in the small three.
Under normal circumstances, a cheating man will definitely not divorce his original partner for the sake of the mistress,
Even if he has feelings for Xiao San, he will only find a way to maintain an extramarital affair.
But this junior used means to successfully make the cheating man take the initiative to divorce his original partner.
What kind of means does this junior use?
I believe that many wives who have been cheated on have seen similar methods.
The junior is constantly stimulating the original wife, making the original partner have conflicts with the cheating man.
For example, every time she goes to her after the cheating man goes to her, she will leave some ambiguous traces,
Just waiting for the original partner to go home every time he goes home and see it, and then collapses and has a conflict with the cheating man,
Another example is that Xiao San is in the circle of friends every day, sending some hints to show that the cheating man loves her very much.
The permission of the junior to open a room and non-friends can see the ten, in order to "inadvertently" show the original match,
The junior will also guide the cheating man, and when chatting with her,
belittled the original wife, said that she didn't love the original wife, and then posted it in her circle of friends.
Because the cheating man knows that the mistress and the original partner are not friends, the mistress gives the cheating man's avatar nickname every time he sends it.
So the cheating man didn't suspect that Xiao San was doing it on purpose, so he felt that the original partner had to trouble him.
Under what circumstances will a cheating man give up his wife with better conditions and choose a mistress?
It's that he feels that it is really too painful to continue to live with his wife.
As long as he comes home, his wife will make trouble with him, beating and scolding, crying and crying.
He felt that every minute at home was extremely tormenting.
And all this is caused by Xiao San, who will naturally appease the cheating man,
Not happy at home, miserable with wife,
But when he went to find the mistress, he felt happy, and the mistress gave the cheating man enjoyment,
If you slowly cheat on a man's heart, you will be biased towards the junior.
In the end, Xiao San made another move to retreat and tell the cheating man that someone introduced her to a blind date.
The conditions are no worse than that of a cheating man, and she may consider getting married on a blind date.
Give a cheating man, and those who are better than him are willing to marry the mistress,
Why can't he take the feeling of divorce and marrying a mistress,
In order to create a sense of happiness for the mistress, and in order to escape the pain given by his wife, the cheating man will take the initiative to divorce and marry the mistress.
In fact, Xiao San's means are not so clever, but Xiao San's cognition is very clear,
She knows that it will not succeed if she divorces the cheating man directly,
The cheating man attaches more importance to interests and does not have such deep feelings for her.
So she didn't start with a cheating man, but chose to start with the original partner,
She stimulated the original partner and let the original partner ruin the relationship between the husband and wife with her own hands, making the marriage unhappy.
Then it becomes a haven for cheating men, and the original match is not so valuable.
In the end, she also raised her own value, creating an illusion that she was worthy of a cheating man.
and makes the cheating man feel that if he doesn't make a choice, he will lose his mistress.
If you lose your mistress, you will fall into an unhappy marriage with your wife.
A cheating man is selfish enough, and he will naturally choose to abandon his original wife for his own enjoyment.
This is the routine of the junior, in fact, it is very simple for the wives to solve it.
saw through the junior, did not cooperate with the junior, and repeatedly emphasized the low value of the junior.
A cheating man will not divorce and marry a mistress at all, this mistress feels that there is no hope for his superiority, and he will definitely find another goal.
More than half of the juniors rely on stimulating their original wives to achieve their goals.
The junior stimulates the original partner to make the original partner emotional, dissatisfied with the cheating man, and has conflicts with the cheating man every day.
Causing the cheating man to have an aversion to marriage and taking the opportunity to divorce the cheating man.
This is a common routine used by many juniors, but many original wives will still be recruited.
In fact, Xiao San's methods are not very clever, and the wives only need to be emotionally stable.
Analyzing the means of the junior, not the trap of the junior, it is very difficult for her to get on top,
The junior has not been able to get on the throne for a long time, so he should be in a hurry, and it is the junior who is easy to lose control of his emotions.
Extramarital affairs are about who is emotionally stable and who has a stronger psychology.
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I'm Jiaxin, a marriage defender who focuses on the separation of third parties.