"He protects the country with his life, who will protect his loved ones"
As soon as the incident of "the son of a pilot martyr being bullied on campus" came out, many retired servicemen could not sit still! They asked the school and teachers one after another: Why did they not protect the bereaved families of the martyrs?
On April 1, the wife of a martyr posted online that her child had been bullied again and again at school, and it was even more unbelievable that the other party's parents did not care about it.
She was really unbearable, so she chose to expose this matter, and explained that if the other party provoked again, then she would ask the organization to solve it.
However, just when the whole network was waiting for her justice, the person's account was set to private?
"Mom I felt a lot of pain, when they beat me and scolded me, I felt pain in my heart, I think it was because I was bullied without my father"
Not to mention the parties, even passers-by will feel distressed when they hear this kind of words, the child has already lost his father, but because he has no father, his classmates feel that there is no one to support him, so he has been bullied many times, and it is hard to imagine what the child has suffered during this time.
According to the parties, it is not the first time that the other party has bullied Xiao Shufan, and after she found out, she found the other party's mother as soon as possible.
However, it didn't take long for the other party to do it again, this time Shu Fan's mother couldn't bear it anymore and found the other party directly, but unexpectedly, the other party sued the villain first, and took the lead in raising the mobile phone to record a video and prepare to stir up trouble.
In the face of this kind of person, Shu Fan's mother is really angry, she can take care of the child meticulously, but she can't protect the child's safety on campus, when she hears that the child is so wronged, she is also angry and distressed.
Therefore, they will choose to expose the incident and seek the organization to solve it, after all, whether it is the widow of a martyr or not, this kind of matter must be paid attention to and dealt with well.
And the majority of netizens felt angry and distressed when they learned about this:
"It's not just the bullies who are responsible, but also the teachers and principals."
"If we don't deal with it, we don't agree, what are the relevant local departments doing", "We should intervene, we can't chill the hearts of tens of millions of soldiers, we must strengthen school management, and we can't let this kind of incident continue to develop"
"Relevant personnel must also be held accountable, and the organization must also protect the bereaved families of martyrs."
"This is obviously wrong education, these parents just indulge their children to mess around, thinking that their children are not at a loss anyway, and there is legal protection, but they don't know that this practice will ruin their children's lives"
"Schools must pay attention to it and not let the blood of martyrs be shed in vain", "Whether they are the children of martyrs or not, they cannot tolerate this kind of behavior, and schools must report to the police if they do not act"
"The bereaved families of martyrs must not be insulted! The school must give an explanation to the families"
"Soldiers defend the country with their lives, why are these parents so shameless? Where is the conscience? Where is the humanity? Can children bully others and see it?"
Just when the whole network called for the relevant departments to intervene and give Shu Fan justice, Shu Fan's mother's account was set to private, and I don't know if it was the organization that took action, or was asked to talk, in short, there is no follow-up to this matter for the time being.
Although Shu Fan's mother did not update the follow-up, as long as she wants to pursue it, the other party's parents will also be a big deal.
According to the relevant laws and regulations, the families of bullying martyrs should be analyzed on a case-by-case basis, and if the behavior is very excessive and has reached the sentencing standards for the crime, then criminal responsibility can be pursued.
If the circumstances of insulting the family of a martyr are serious, the crime of insult can be constituted, and if the facts are fabricated to slander the family of a martyr, causing psychological burden to the family of the martyr, or the reputation is damaged, and the perpetrator is already at least 16 years old, then he must bear criminal responsibility.
At that time, we were looking back on this incident, according to Shu Fan's mother's statement, the child was not only bullied at school, but also called various nicknames, and caused psychological damage to the child, making the child feel very painful, and even felt that the reason why he was bullied was because he did not have a father.
So in this way, the other party has caused a psychological burden on Shu Fan, and if the other party is over 16 years old, then he should be held responsible.
Although in this incident, the other party was not yet 16 years old, but through this incident, it also made it clear that the families of the martyrs should not be bullied and slandered, and through this exposure, the school teachers and other parents also knew what kind of people his children were.
It is said that parents are the first teachers of children, and children are taught like this, it is obviously the parents' failure to do so, if there is really an organization to intervene, then the criticism and education of parents is also indispensable, and the parents may also be rejected by other parents.
After all, who can guarantee that his children will not be bullied to their children one day?
Every child is born a blank sheet of paper, how parents depict it, what kind of painting will eventually be formed, don't look at the current children are just bullying people, if they are not controlled, what they will do when they grow up, it is also conceivable.
At the same time, schools and teachers should also pay more attention to students, don't treat this kind of bullying as a fight between children, for a long time, it will encourage the arrogance of these people, so you must manage when you should manage, you must intervene when you should intervene, and continue to observe after intervening to see if the other party has really stopped bullying.
In this incident, the bully and his parents should be made aware of their mistakes, and at the same time, it should be made clear that neither the martyrs nor the families of the martyrs can be bullied.
Shu Fan's father is a second-class pilot in the Air Force and a major in the Air Force, and he has performed very well in the army, and has won the second-class merit once and the third-class merit twice.
Unfortunately, on March 30, 2020, Shu Fan's father died heroically at the age of 33 during a flight training mission.
On September 30, 2021, the relevant departments assessed him as a martyr in accordance with relevant regulations, and issued a "Martyr's Honor Certificate" to his bereaved family.
"There is no time to be quiet, but someone is carrying the weight for us"
When they give up their small homes for everyone, when they carry the burden forward, we, as the masses, of course, must take good care of and protect their bereaved families, because their burden is for our stable life.
When I see that the brothers at a young age have lost their father since they were young, and when they see their children being bullied because of the loss of their father, who will not feel distressed?
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