Text: Zhu Shenyong
No woman wants to have a threesome, and the reason why San'er accepts the situation of a threesome is mainly because she is mentally controlled by your husband, and she is coaxed by your husband to draw a big pie, create fantasies, and create dreams.
At the same time, your husband will suppress her by breaking up, this man controls San'er with a soft hand and a hard hand, so she can only compromise and wait to eat the big cake drawn later.
Generally, the three children who can agree to a threesome will have the following psychological characteristics:
1. She is extremely lacking in love.
She is very lacking in love in her original family to a large extent, and she rarely gets the love of others in her upbringing, at this time, there is finally a man who loves her, and you want her to break up with this man, she can't do it.
2, she thinks that she is true love with a man, and your original partner is the third child.
In her cognition, she thinks that true love is the truth, and who men prefer more, this woman is the wife, and they just lack that piece of paper.
The man said to her: "My wife and I have no relationship for a long time, it is because of the children that this empty shell marriage is maintained, you are my true love, I only love you alone in my life." ”
She was brainwashed by this sentence, and really thought that she was the true love of a man, but she didn't know that it was this man who coaxed him in order not to break up and continue to take advantage of her, but any smart and dignified woman would think of it.
In China's current society, there is no inseparable marriage, the children are still young, the parents are not in good health, and the wife is unwilling, these are all excuses for a man not to want to divorce, because he just wants to have a threesome, not only to enjoy the practical value that marriage brings to him, but also to enjoy the emotional value, emotional value and sexual value brought to him by women outside.
Therefore, as a third child, you must see this man's face clearly, don't be deceived by him, and finally become a white chicken and be taken advantage of, and in the end you will not be able to fall into anything.
As a wife, we have to talk to her many times in the face of this kind of three children, and you have to show her inner grievances and grievances, you can say to her, "In fact, you have been very wronged for so many years, how many grievances have you suffered in this relationship with my husband?"
San'er will say, "I'm not wronged, we are true love, what about your life, is it interesting to tie up a man who doesn't love you?"
You can reply: "True love will not want you to be wronged for a long time, put you in the shadows and see the light, if he loves you, he would rather sacrifice himself than let you suffer the slightest grievance." "In this relationship, I saw that you have given a lot, youth, body, and emotion, so what has my husband paid to you? ”
I have to go to the talks many times, I want San'er to come to my senses, and dare to ask men for marriage, money, companionship, etc., instead of being suppressed by men and not daring to ask for them, and humbly waiting for men to give alms.
After San'er woke up, he dared to start a war with a man, which could stimulate the contradictions between the two of them, so as to present the coaxing faces of the man on both sides, and then the three of them sat down together to talk about breaking up, and completely dealt with the extramarital relationship step by step.
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