Author: Wen Qiusheng
Original article, plagiarism must be investigated
01. Introduction
Some people treat love as milk in coffee, just a concoction.
Some men, who express their affection for you, keep getting closer to you and intruding into your world. But it may not really suit you, and you may not take this fate seriously.
Some love seems to be as hot as fire, but it hides false feelings. Like a fire pit, it is easy to get hurt.
Whether a man is sincere or false, it can be seen from the subtleties. If a man just wants to "play" with his feelings, he probably has the following characteristics.
02, with marriage in the body, I can't control my heart
Before, best friend's boss pursued her.
Originally, his girlfriend thought he was divorced, but later found out that he had two children and had been living with his wife.
Seeing that her hidden marriage was discovered, her boss told her: He and his wife are not in harmony and will divorce sooner or later.
His girlfriend has a good impression of him, but he doesn't want to ruin his marriage, so he proposes not to interact with him in the future.
The boss is still chasing after her, he says he loves her very much, but he has not divorced for a long time.
repeatedly said that divorce is simple, but his interests will suffer a lot of losses, and the implication is that he still hopes that his girlfriend can think about him and accept his current situation.
His girlfriend also saw through his hypocrisy and completely broke off the relationship with him.
If a man is married and still falls in love with you, such a man is unfaithful to his marriage and is by no means true love to you.
Schiller said: "The realm of love is very small, it can only accommodate two people, and if you fall in love with several people at the same time, it is only an emotional game, not true love." ”
Men have a family, they don't want to get divorced, they just want to enjoy the excitement and romance of extramarital affairs, and they won't be responsible for women outside of marriage.
He just wants to play the world, in the midst of thousands of flowers, not a single leaf touches, he just wants to play with feelings.
Never, don't trust a married man's promise to you, his love for you. If so, he really loves you and won't do it twice.
03. The opposite sex around me is very good, and there is no sense of boundary
A man just wants to play with his feelings, and he will have no sense of boundaries for the opposite sex around him.
American marriage columnist Henry Claude said, "Those who cross the line never feel that they have crossed the line, because it is someone else who stings." ”
A man who has no sense of boundaries is good to everyone, in fact, it is the idea of "casting a wide net and catching more fish".
There is no sense of proportion to the opposite sex around him, and he is very good to everyone. Moreover, it is customary to show one's charm and to express one's favorability.
It's easy to have an ambiguous feeling with the girl around you. Such a man is like a "central air conditioner" who wants to warm all the women around him.
A man with a good reputation and a blurred sense of boundaries will be good to you for a while, but not for a lifetime.
He has a lot of female friends around him, and they all maintain an ambiguous relationship. It seems that he is good to everyone, but in fact, he doesn't love any woman.
Most of such men are just playing with feelings, and they will not put their sincerity in the hands of women.
04. Touching you too quickly, the relationship develops too fast
Fan Shengmei and Qu Lianjie in "Ode to Joy" have never met a few times.
For the first time, they exchanged contact information with each other in a meeting.
Qu Lianjie gave Fan Shengmei a shopping card and a small gift, and asked Fan Shengmei to block the wine for him.
Later, he asked her to play at an upscale golf course and gave her a red dress.
Too quickly, he wanted to be with her. Fan Shengmei had a good impression of him, and soon gave her sincerity.
However, when Fan Shengmei's father was seriously ill, Qu Lianjie generously admitted that he didn't treat her as a girlfriend at all.
If a man allows your relationship to develop too quickly, in fact, it means that he is not deeply in love.
He hasn't met you a few times before he wants to get up close and personal with you and break through the last line of defense. On the one hand, he doesn't respect you, and on the other hand, he just wants to get you.
He is not driven by love, but by desire.
The faster a man gets a woman, the less he will respect her.
So, women, if a man doesn't respect you and wants to have physical contact with you too much, it's not love. For men who are frivolous in their feelings, most of them are just "playing".
05, Wen Qiusheng's message
Love is respect, restraint, and restraint.
A man who really loves you will give you enough security and will not let you suffer from gains and losses.
He will take the initiative to keep his distance from other members of the opposite sex and show love to you alone.
And there will be no entanglement with other women. Rather, they know how to clean themselves, be loyal and single-minded to love.
A man who really loves you will definitely know how to restrain you, respect you, enjoy the process of falling in love with you, and hope that each other's feelings can flow for a long time.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.