Recently, related topics such as "minimalist wedding" and "three-no wedding" have frequently aroused heated discussions among netizens. The so-called "three-no wedding" refers to simplifying the wedding process, no kissing, no long convoy, no groomsmen and bridesmaids, and the main focus is labor-saving, money-saving, and personalized. According to the latest survey report on the concept of marriage and love released by a marriage and love platform, the majority of young people have gradually become rational in consumption, and are increasingly yearning for lightweight, small and beautiful weddings. How can new and simple celebrations become a new fashion?
Young people voluntarily choose "minimalist weddings"
The cost is reduced, and the blessing is not reduced
Recently, a couple in Pinghu, Jiaxing, Zhejiang Province held a "minimalist wedding" that only cost 5,000 yuan, which was not only praised by relatives and friends present, but also quickly hotly discussed by netizens.
There are no luxury fleets, no groomsmen and bridesmaids, no emcees and makeup, and no fancy lighting and sound...... This "minimalist wedding" was presided over by the groom Huang Tao and the bride Wei Yaqiao, who told the story of knowing and loving each other and understanding of marriage at the wedding. The bride, Wei Yaqiao, said that the two also prefer a simple, simple and sensitive lifestyle in life, so they chose to hold a simple wedding.
△ The groom Huang Tao and the bride Wei Yaqiao personally presided over their wedding
Wei Yaqiao introduced that when they told their parents about the idea of holding a "minimalist wedding", the parents did not approve of it at first, thinking that the wedding was a combination of two newlyweds and even two families, and it should be grand, but the insistence of the two finally made the parents of both sides let go of their prejudices. All the relatives and friends present also praised this approach, and the friends felt that they were very courageous and very happy.
The reason why Wei Yaqiao and Huang Tao chose "minimalist wedding" is also inseparable from the reform of local marriage customs. By chance, they were inspired by a WeChat tweet posted by the local government titled "Marriage Customs Reform Makes Wedding Customs Purer and Better". They decided not to pick up the brides, not to invite groomsmen and bridesmaids, to abandon the fancy hotel, and to put the wedding reception in the town's neighborly center.
The reason why it can be hotly discussed, Wei Yaqiao thinks, on the one hand, is because young people have their own ideas and insist on implementing them, which infects everyone. On the other hand, the attitude of the elders to change traditional attitudes, support young people to change customs, and embrace a new life in a new way has been recognized by everyone.
△ The wedding scene of the groom Huang Tao and the bride Wei Yaqiao
After the topic of "minimalist wedding" that cost 5,000 yuan became hot, many netizens agreed. It is believed that such a wedding greatly reduces the financial burden, and also reduces the psychological pressure of young people in the face of cumbersome and complex wedding processes, and is the embodiment of the pursuit of personalization, freedom, and a simple and comfortable lifestyle.
A similar case has been seen in Xiao County, Suzhou City, Anhui Province, where the 31-year-old groom Chen Weijian and the 28-year-old bride Huang Duoyi recently chose a "three-no wedding", and the wedding car is a shared bicycle decorated with festive latte art and colorful balloons.
The bride, Huang Duoyi, said that each shared bicycle was carefully decorated by friends in advance, and the two chose "zero dowry" to reduce the burden of love and add sweetness to love, and they wanted to create a better future through their own efforts.
△ Mr. and Mrs. Chan Wai Kin and their shared electric wedding car
Born in 1998, Feng Ningning and her boyfriend are both from Jilin, and the two settled in Sichuan due to work. Feng Ningning said that the two plan not to hold a wedding banquet and save the cost to travel, which is both romantic and more cost-effective.
Feng Ningning found that some friends and classmates around him needed to get up early in the morning to prepare for makeup, kissing and other steps when preparing for the wedding, and they were busy from morning to evening, feeling that it was time-consuming and expensive to hold a wedding. So she imagined that her wedding would not be a wedding banquet, save the cost, and the couple would go on a trip to record what they saw and heard along the way through travel photography.
△ Feng Ningning and his wife are on the way to get married
"Minimalist weddings" are favored
Highlight the change in young people's view of marriage
With the changes of the times, the wedding form is also constantly innovating, such as the "three turns and one ring" in the 80s, and the pomp and circumstance of star-rated hotels and luxury wedding cars in the 90s. Nowadays, a strong style and personality are more revered.
Pei Yuxin, an associate professor at the Department of Sociology and Social Work at Sun Yat-sen University, analyzed that the "minimalist wedding" is actually to remove the red tape in traditional weddings, and add the creativity of young people to make the wedding more suitable for themselves, and can reduce the investment of time and money, and at the same time get an emotional experience.
Pei Yuxin believes that although young people omit the unnecessary social entertainment in the wedding and the exchange of social capital between families, they are still very concerned about showing their personality and showing the irreplaceability of the emotional link between the two parties.
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