He Qingling is a descendant of the Empress Dowager Cixi, and he once made an amazing statement on a blind date show, saying that as an elder brother, the audience used to kneel for him.
I don't know how many years have passed since the Qing Dynasty was destroyed, why is he still immersed in his brother's dream and can't extricate himself? Why did he think of going on a blind date show to find a partner?
Blind date turmoil
He Qingling's original surname was Yehenara, a native of Dalian, Liaoning, and his ancestral home was Shandong. His profession is ordinary, working as a crane driver.
Now, some of his personal information can also be retrieved on the Internet, such as his Weibo profile: he writes that he is a writer, inventor, Qing history scholar, and winemaker.
He also wrote an article on Toutiao, introducing his identity and background information, such as he was born in 1987, is less than 170cm tall, weighs 70 kilograms, and has only a secondary school education.
One of the reasons why he was in a hurry to get married was that his grandfather was sick and hospitalized, and his condition was relatively serious, and he coughed up blood.
He said that his grandfather's greatest wish before leaving was to see him get married. He really wanted to help his grandfather fulfill this wish, and his grandmother had regretted not being able to see him start a family, so she took the first step.
In the picture in the article, he has taken off his cheongsam and is wearing a simple overalls, which is very different from the exaggerated appearance in the previous show. Eight years have passed since he appeared on TV, and he seems to have matured a lot.
He Qingling also introduced her income in the article, saying that her salary plus five insurances and one housing fund totaled 5,500 yuan, and the actual amount was 3,200 yuan.
He lives with his parents, plans to buy a house, and plans to start a side business selling alcohol. He has been learning the traditional solid-state brewing technique for two years, and wants to open a winery to sell wine and make money when he finishes it.
He said that the aroma of wine is not afraid of deep alleys, and he has been working hard to make wine well, and if the quality of wine is good, he is not afraid that business will not be able to do well.
He also introduced himself as a good family man, who can cook, wash clothes, do housework, have no bad habits, smoke, drink, and gamble, and only talked about two objects, which belongs to the more innocent category.
In terms of finding a partner, he also has his own requirements, saying that he admits that he picks, as long as it is not too ugly and too fat, it is acceptable, and the height of the woman is 160cm, which is acceptable to be slightly fat, but not too fat.
He felt in his heart that this was also for the next generation, and it would not be good if the child born was too fat.
The woman's education and work, he has no requirements, he just hopes that the woman's parents can have pension insurance, and he really wants to find a woman who can live.
In addition, if the woman can live in Dalian like him, it will be more convenient to take care of the other party's parents in the future.
He went on a blind date show in 2012, and he also appeared on "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", and also appeared on "Let's Date".
At that time, there was a popular time-traveling drama, he combed a long braid, wore Qing Dynasty clothes, and looked like an elder brother, as soon as he came on the stage, he was an ancient style of "bending the bow and shooting the eagle", and the program team also packaged him as a "crossing elder brother", Qiu Qiming, the host of "Let's Date", has always called him "Prince He".
In addition to being on the show, He Qingling usually dresses up like this. He said that he dressed like this to protect Manchu culture, and he was even teaching himself Manchu, and he had been learning Manchu for more than a month before appearing on the show.
When colleagues saw him like this, they would joke with him and call him "Eighth Elder Brother".
The unusual shape has brought him quite a lot of trouble and made him very eye-catching. For example, when crossing the street, it is often the case that a car comes and you have to stop and look at him.
It takes him two minutes to cross the street, and sometimes three traffic policemen come to help him direct traffic.
Because of this, the girls were reluctant to get close to him, and when they saw him, they hid far away, and no one dared to introduce him to a blind date. He had no choice, so he went on a blind date show.
The host asked him why he dressed up like this even when he knew he couldn't find a girlfriend, and he said that this was sacrificing the ego and completing the big ego.
On the show, he also said his three love propositions, which are very clear, and the requirements for girls are quite high, namely "Don't dislike girls who don't like history", "Don't be girls who aren't strong enough", "Don't be girls who can't bear gossip".
It can be seen that he is looking for a girlfriend who has the same historical interests and hobbies as himself, can withstand things, and can withstand the wind and rain.
He hopes that his preferences can be respected and understood by girls, and he also wants to take her with him.
He also said that he likes gentle, cute, and personality girls, and it is best to make a little mistake sometimes.
At the same time, his attitude towards feelings is also very serious, not casual, he feels that his love is "give my heart, change your heart, love you only with one heart, and remain unchanged until death." ”
In the heart-warming selection session at the end of the show, he had the opportunity to take away a beautiful Manchu girl, and the girl also said that she would work with him to promote Manchu culture. It's just that he has something else in his heart, and finally chooses to confess to Chen Wen, a girl who has long since turned off the lights.
As a result, this TV blind date came to a doomed ending, and the blind date brother who was looking for love became the brother in distress.
Descendants of Cixi
After the death of the Empress Dowager Cixi, there have been rumors about her descendants. In addition to He Qingling, there is also a more famous one named Nagenzheng, formerly known as Yehenala Genzheng. He is the ninth grandson of Nalan Xingde, which is equivalent to the great-nephew and great-grandson of the Empress Dowager Cixi.
He used to work in the army and studied Manchu culture very much, and was known as the "living dictionary of the Summer Palace" and "the golden signboard of national unity".
His grandfather was the younger brother of Empress Yulong, who served as a royal guard for Cixi. He knows more about Cixi's life and deeds, saying that Cixi is a Manchu, not a Han woman as rumored, so she did not enter the palace with her feet tied, but has a pair of big feet, 38 yards tall, and her personality is also very bold.
Unlike He Qingling, who became famous on a blind date on a TV show, Nagen Zhengcixi's identity is known by relying on the two books he co-authored with others, "The Empress Dowager Cixi I Know" and "The Last Empress Longyu I Know".
Most of the content he wrote in the book was not recorded in the official history, and it was far from the rumors of the wild history. Most of this knowledge was acquired thanks to his status as a descendant of Cixi.
He said that when his grandfather Na Zengxi was a child, he often pulled him to his side and told him stories in the family, as well as rumors and anecdotes in the palace, not only about Cixi, the Lafayette, but also about the emperor, the prince, the eunuch and so on.
Saying that he is related to the Empress Dowager Cixi will inevitably arouse suspicion, and the same is true of that.
However, he did not have any practical evidence to prove his family identity. The reason is simple, his family tree and group photos were burned.
It wasn't until 2006 that the Beijing Municipal Committee for the Compilation of Local Chronicles published a book called "Comrade Hu in Beijing". There is an incident mentioned in the book that can prove his relationship with Cixi. He was so happy that he bought the book home.
The book says that the Empress Dowager Cixi's younger brother Guixiang had a son named Na Dexi. He once bought an old property in Qinghe and renovated a courtyard house on this basis.
In the fall of 1958, Na Dexi moved with his son Na Jingyuan and grandson Na Genzheng and went to No. 42 Qinghe 1st Street.
The book says that there is a name and a surname, which confirms his kinship with Cixi.
The program is right and wrong
Now, 12 years have passed since He Qingling appeared on the show that year, and it is impossible to test what his specific mentality was at the beginning.
However, in order to win ratings, variety shows amplify the controversial points on the guests, arouse heated public opinion, or have strange amateur guests who are keen to show themselves on the show, He Qingling is really not the only one.
In addition to this blind date show on Hunan TV, Jiangsu TV's "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" has also caused a lot of controversy because of the guests' behavior and attitude.
The host of the program, Meng Fei, talked about this issue in an interview. He said that instead of saying that the guests on the show are wonderful, they should show respect for the outlook on life, life attitude and lifestyle of these guests, as long as they do not hinder others.
He also talked about that since it is a show, if everyone on the show speaks steadily, leaklessly, and decently, it will not look good.
Yes, if a variety show wants to get out of the circle, it can't be decent, but it must be quite cautious in the way of seeking breakthroughs and new ideas.
In addition to strange male guests like He Qingling, there have also been many strange female guests on the show, and some of them have even made trouble killing their husbands.
Wang Jia, 32, is a female editor at a publishing house whose motto is that life requires constant experience.
In April 2011, she began to appear on the show "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", showing a very sincere attitude, saying that she really wanted to have a home.
In the end, she succeeded in holding hands with Zhang Tianyi, the general manager of a large company in Beijing. It's just that the relationship didn't develop very well.
After Zhang Tianyi left her the news that "I am going to the United States on a business trip", she evaporated from the world.
She and her later husband met on the Internet, and soon lived together and got married.
It's just that after marriage, Wang Jia seems to have been living in the state of the show, and she often quarrels with her husband.
She would come up with the idea of killing her husband, also after the two had a quarrel over trivial matters.
In July 2012, she hacked her sleeping husband to death with a knife and claimed to the police that he had committed domestic violence against her.
After her lies were revealed, she was arrested by the police and finally sentenced to 10 years for intentional homicide.
Compared with such a blind date story, He Qingling's performance on the show is really nothing.
This nostalgic outdated elder brother may really have a strong sense of identity with his aristocratic identity, but unfortunately he failed to keep up with the trend of the times, lived too much in his own world, and was finally left behind by the times.
Nowadays, he is not very active on the Internet, and he may have found a beloved to spend the rest of his life with.
Time has been moving forward, and I hope he can forget the past quickly and focus on living a good life in the present.