watched "Parents' Love" many times, and found that in addition to stepmothers, there are many elderly mothers in this drama.
An Jie said that he gave birth to Jiang Defu like a rabbit, litter by litter, without letting people take a breath.
In fact, Jiang Defu and An Jie's state was the norm in that era, and it was strange that there were no five or six children in the family.
In this case, of course, the appearance of elderly mothers is not surprising, but what makes people feel chilling and helpless is that the helplessness and sadness of their parents in old age make people feel chilling and helpless.
Wang Xiu'e died in childbirth, and she worked hard all her life.
I don't know if anyone has paid attention, but whenever Wang Xiu'e appears in the picture, she is not idle in her hands.
This cousin, who is three years older than Lao Ding, has never been loved, in Lao Ding's eyes, she is his nanny, if she has to have an extra layer of identity, it is a fertility machine.
Lao Ding's dislike for Wang Xiu'e is on the surface, if it weren't for the fact that his parents in his hometown are gone, he would definitely not let Wang Xiu'e come to the city.
Because he felt that Wang Xiu'e was embarrassed by him, and would make An Jie and Jiang Defu laugh. But if you like a person's performance, shouldn't you want everyone to see her?
Wang Xiu'e also knows Lao Ding's thoughts, the man who sleeps next to him every day actually wants to find a literate and knowledgeable woman like An Jie.
Even if she knew Lao Ding's thoughts, what could she do?
She has no culture, she came to the big city with her three children, and she didn't even know where the principal's wife's home was, so it was difficult to move an inch, and how could she keep her husband who wanted to steal food.
So she lived in fear all day long, afraid that Lao Ding would not want her, worried that Lao Ding and An Jie would be together, and she would be driven back to her hometown.
So she can only do her best to please Lao Ding, take care of Lao Ding's life in an orderly manner, and do a good job in the role of nanny. In addition to that, she also tries her best to do a good job of the fertility machine.
She has already given birth to three children for Lao Ding, but Lao Ding wants a daughter, so she continues to give birth. Excessive self-confidence and physical loss made her die in the bed where she gave birth to her last child.
But many years later, no one remembers her, including the child she desperately gave birth to, how sad.
Jiang Dehua gave birth to a daughter to Lao Ding, but he had no support.
If there is one person who remembers Wang Xiu'e, then Jiang Dehua can be regarded as one, but maybe it is an excuse for her to get close to Lao Ding.
is another woman who loves Lao Ding with all her might, Jiang Dehua realized the ultimate wish of Lao Ding's life, she gave birth to a daughter for Lao Ding, named Xiao Sample, and stopped without rebirth.
Lao Ding is complete, but what about Jiang Dehua?
Because she gave birth to a daughter, her contribution to the Ding family is not as great as Wang Xiu'e. When Wang Xiu'e's son wanted to bury Lao Ding and his mother together, her disadvantages were immediately highlighted.
Even Jiang Defu will say that Wang Xiu'e is the one who added a man to Lao Ding's family, and she is the eldest wife who married back at the behest of Lao Ding's parents.
The implication is that Jiang Dehua did not give birth to a son, and his contribution to the Ding family was not as great as Wang Xiu'e's.
Jiang Defu said it rightly, but who can speak for Jiang Dehua? The daughter she gave birth to has been loved by everyone since she was a child, and everyone holds her in the palm of her hand, and she can't stand up for her mother like Jiang Yafei.
Jiang Dehua could only back down, who let her marry Lao Ding later and not give birth to a son? Jiang Defu knew this truth, let alone Lao Ding, but he never thought about Jiang Dehua's future.
As an elderly mother, Jiang Dehua's daughter was unable to provide for her in the end, she could only continue to live with An Jie and Jiang Defu, seemingly happy, but in fact sad.
This rural woman has been under the fence all her life, even if she has been loved, but she also has shortcomings.
An Jie, who worked hard to give birth to a child for Jiang Defu, is not an elderly mother?
Since An Jie married Jiang Defu, she has been refreshing the An family's perception of her. not only accepted Jiang Defu, an uneducated old man, but also gave birth to one child after another.
When he knew that An Jie gave birth at home, or Wang Xiu'e delivered the baby, Lao Ou almost dropped his jaw in shock. An Jie, such a particular person, how could he give birth to a child at home.
But who would have thought that this is not the most amazing.
In the original book, An Jie gave birth to eight children, and when she gave birth to the last child, she was about forty years old, but she was not born and was stillborn.
Even though An Jie has many children, none of them are too close to him. The second child thinks she is too particular, and Jiang Defu has always tolerated her and never stood on her side.
Because the third child has a bad life, he has always hated his parents, and feels that it is because of their partiality that he has made his life hard. Jiang Yafei was even more bold, never took An Jie's words seriously, and didn't even tell her about getting married.
Her most optimistic youngest daughter is not close to her, and when Jiang Changyi came to the island, he did not give up his head for An An. After old age, he is not around.
In the end, only Jiang Yafei was by her side, so many people felt that Jiang Yafei was very filial, but is this really the case?
Jiang Yafei can be regarded as the closest to An Jie among the many children, but she also has a place where she can't live with An Jie, but An Jie can only accept it, after all, it is already very good to have a daughter who is willing to be by her side.
The contradiction between children and parents is a difficult problem that people have not yet overcome.
In that era of material poverty, the relationship between parents and children was also indifferent, especially after the children were prosperous, they could not be with their parents.
Perhaps, this is the truth that people are increasingly reluctant to have children.