Women are made of water, seemingly gentle, but in fact they are strong, especially women who are mothers, and they are really incomparable to men.
Whether it is the bitterness experienced during pregnancy, the pain during childbirth, or the hardships of taking care of the baby after giving birth, especially the sadness and helplessness when the child is sick, they all interpret what it means to be "just for motherhood".
Recently, a Yunnan netizen filmed a sad scene of a mother taking her 2 children to see a doctor on the side of the road.
This mother should not be very old, unkempt, and she came out before she had time to clean up.
Also, where can the child take care of so much when he is sick.
She was carrying a month-old baby on her back, and there was a two- or three-year-old boy by her side, and he obediently followed his mother, without crying or making trouble.
Because the two children were sick at the same time, she held an infusion rod in her hand and hung two hanging waters, and it was not easy to drag the two.
In the eyes of others, my mother doesn't have to go to work, and they all say that they are happy at home, and only they understand.
In fact, most families are like this, when there is no one to help, the father has to earn money to support the family, and the mother has to take care of everything for the children.
At that moment, I wonder if this mother regretted having a second child?
In the face of such a difficult life, it is enough to have only one child, so why make yourself so tired?
Comments from netizens
Believe it or not, others also say that she doesn't go to work at home, and it's very comfortable to take care of the children
This is not just in the mouth of the old man, they grew up together, and the suffering in the middle is not mentioned
Just give birth to one to prove that you are fertile, or love yourself more
I saw a young mother carrying this pair of twins with this kind of carrier in the vegetable field, everyone sighed that she was so hard, and an uncle told me that she still had to go to work, I was shocked, what did marriage bring her, how did she persevere
I've seen myself infused, my children have been infused, and I've seen myself picking up my children from school, hey......
I don't understand why I have no one to help take care of the children, I have to do everything by myself, and then I have a second child, why I let myself live so helplessly and hard.
Many mothers came over like this, and some netizens did not sympathize with her, because the road was chosen by herself.
Personally, I think that even if you want a second child, you can wait for the eldest to be older.
In the traditional concept, people generally think that having more children is more blessed, but real life tells us that the energy and price required to raise a child is huge, especially when the child is sick, the pressure on the mother is multiplied, and some directly collapse.
With the continuous improvement of people's living standards, the concept of childbearing is also quietly changing.
More and more couples choose to have only one child, and having a second child is not just a simple matter of giving birth to them and raising them, they not only need to eat milk powder, use diapers and so on after birth.
When you grow up, you still need to receive a better education and participate in extracurricular training, which is a lot of money, so excessive economic pressure is also the most direct reason why young people don't want to have a second child.
It's not terrible to have a second child, but what I'm afraid of is that the task of raising a baby is all pushed to the mother. When we don't want to weaken the love for each child, then parents can only double their efforts and give their children enough love.
If there is a way, every mother doesn't want to force herself to be superman, omnipotent and omnipotent.
The most important thing for a family is to support each other, and if the mother takes on too much responsibility for taking care of the child alone, she will only become more and more disappointed in her family, and she will become more and more assertive in the child......
Will you have a second child?