Text: Marriage counselor Liu Jie
A woman's heart, a needle at the bottom of the sea. In the world of emotions, women's minds are often delicate and elusive, and the way they express their likes is often tactful and subtle.
When a woman has a crush on a man, she may not say "I like you" directly, but indirectly through some seemingly ordinary behavior.
Among them, asking men for help is a common "trick" they use. It's both an excuse to approach you and a stealthy emotional transmission.
If a woman likes you, she will ask you to help you with the following four things, and men should not notice it, let alone be annoyed.
01
Talk to you and ask for comfort
Shakespeare said, "A woman's sorrow is always like her love, either too little or too much." ”
When a woman frequently chats with you, confides in you, and shares her joys and sorrows, she is likely to have a crush on you.
Because she likes it, she trusts you, wants to tell you everything about herself, and at the same time wants to get the comfort she wants from you.
Confiding is a catharsis of emotions and a manifestation of intimacy.
When a woman chooses to confide in you, it shows that you have a different place in her heart. She wants you to understand her and give her emotional empathy.
At this time, the man must not be annoyed, but listen patiently, let her feel your attention, she will trust and rely on you more, and the relationship between you will be deeper.
02
I look to you for advice
When a woman is faced with something difficult to decide, she usually refers to the opinions of people she trusts.
If she frequently asks you for advice, whether it is about work, life, or other options, it shows that she values your opinion very much, and it also implies that she is dependent on you.
Men in this situation, don't just give simple answers, or perfunctory. It's about thinking carefully, giving pertinent advice, and respecting her decision.
Your advice may have an impact on her decision, so be sure to be cautious. At the same time, it's also a good opportunity for you to perform, so remember to take it.
03
Find you to join in the event
When a woman invites you to participate in various activities together, such as friends gatherings, outdoor activities, etc., it means that she wants to spend more time with you and also wants you to be able to integrate into her life circle.
This is a clear sign that she has a crush on you, as she is willing to introduce you to her friends and even family.
When faced with such a situation, men should not refuse outright or behave impatiently. Instead, you should actively participate and show your talent and charisma with your heart. This is a good opportunity to get to know each other better and strengthen your relationship.
Of course, through these activities, you can also get to know her better and take your relationship further.
04
Find you to pretend to be her boyfriend
This is a special situation that usually occurs when she is experiencing some emotional distress or family stress.
For example, her parents have been urging her to find a boyfriend, and she has no suitable candidate for the time being, so she may find you to pretend to be her boyfriend and cope with the family's urging to marry.
It may sound ridiculous, but it's a sign that she trusts and relies on you.
Her choice of you as a "stand-in" shows that you have a certain place in her heart. If you have a crush on her, you might as well take this opportunity to show it well.
But remember to be respectful and understanding during the process, and don't make her feel embarrassed or offended.
In short, when a woman frequently asks you for help, it is most likely because she has a crush on you. When faced with this situation, men should not be annoyed or avoided, but should cherish these opportunities
At the same time, it is also necessary to be good at observing and interpreting the cues in her actions and words to better understand her mind.
In the process of helping her, with more patience and understanding, less complaining and perfunctory, you may find that love grows quietly in these subtle helps.
When you sincerely help her and care for her, it is possible to gain her sincerity and love.