When I was twenty-nine years old, I married a girl who was two years younger than me, and her name was Li Mei. Li Mei is a gentle, considerate, cheerful and lively girl, and we fell in love for three years before deciding to get married.
Li Mei's family conditions are average, but she is very sensible and has always been the pillar of the family. After we got married, she showed meticulous behavior, taking care of housework and taking care of life for me, all of which reflected the appearance of a good wife and mother.
However, some problems arose in married life. Li Mei always asks me to do that thing every night. At first, I was okay with it, but as time went on, I got bored and tired. I tried to communicate with her, but she always washed her face with tears, saying that she loved me too much.
A week later, I couldn't take it anymore and filed for divorce. Li Mei cried heartbreakingly at the time, saying that she had always been for my good, but she didn't expect me to make such a request.
In the days after the divorce, I felt unusually empty. I started to reflect on my decision, was it because I was too selfish, should I give Li Mei a little more time and space?
Eventually, I decided to go to Li Mei and see how she was doing. I found that Li Mei still lived a simple and fulfilling life, and instead of being depressed by the divorce, she became stronger and more independent.
In the communication with Li Mei, I understood a truth, love is not blindly taking, but should be giving. Li Mei's love for me is selfless, and I only care about my own feelings. I decided to pursue Li Mei again and start our married life again.
Since then, I have learned to appreciate the people in front of me more and give more love and understanding. My marriage with Li Mei has also become happier and more satisfying. This experience made me understand that marriage requires the efforts and dedication of both parties, and only by truly understanding each other can we go further.
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