Love, sometimes it is a storm, sometimes it is a realistic calculation. Recently, a controversial topic about bride price has caused heated discussions on the Internet.
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In the video, a girl revealed in an interview that she and her boyfriend have been arguing over the bride price.
Then, at the interview scene, she talked to her boyfriend on the phone in front of the camera to discuss the bride price. The girl explained that the 100,000 yuan bride price she asked for was just a formality, and that the money would eventually fall into the hands of the two of them.
However, her boyfriend actually responded: "Can 100,000 yuan bride price buy out our three-year relationship?"
A young couple who have been in love for three years, they have experienced many sweet times and have also gone through a lot of difficult times together. When their relationship was about to enter the marriage hall, there was a fierce conflict because of the bride price. The boy believes that a three-year relationship should not be measured by the amount of the bride price.
For this conversation, netizens have expressed their opinions.
Supporting Girls:
Supporting Boys:
Talking about money hurts feelings.
If you really have feelings, you shouldn't have a bride price.
Bride price, a traditional custom from ancient times to the present, has different understandings and interpretations in different regions and families. Some people believe that the bride price is a man's respect and blessing for the woman, and a manifestation of a sense of ritual, while others believe that the bride price is a feudal remnant and an objectification and oppression of women. Different people have different opinions on this issue, but that doesn't mean we can ignore its presence and impact.
The editor has something to say:
As one of the traditional wedding customs in the mainland, the bride price should be a symbol of two families celebrating happy events and marrying together, but in real life, the bride price often becomes the source of conflicts between lovers and families. Here's what I think about the couple's controversy in the video:
As for the amount of the bride price, I believe that it should be determined according to the actual situation of both families. Where economic conditions permit, an appropriate bride price can show the man's sincerity and respect for the woman; In this process, both parties should fully communicate and understand each other's difficulties in order to reach a consensus.
The bride price should not be a yardstick for measuring affection. The value of feelings cannot be measured by money, and the three-year relationship has gone through a lot of ups and downs, and it should be a cherished wealth for both parties, rather than being bound by the bride price. On this issue, the boy's point of view is positive, and he firmly believes that feelings should not be measured by the amount of the bride price. However, we also need to understand the position of the girl. In the traditional concept of the mainland, the bride price is regarded as compensation and respect for the woman by the man, which is why the girl will insist on the bride price. Therefore, the key to solving this problem lies in whether the two sides can think from the perspective of the other side and whether they can reach a consensus through communication and understanding.
I think families on both sides have a role to play in this as well. As elders, they should guide young people to view the bride price issue correctly, rather than letting the bride price become an obstacle to the relationship between the two people. Only when both families work together can the young couple move towards a happy married life.
All in all, the issue of bride price involves many aspects such as traditional customs, personal emotions and family responsibilities, and the solution to this issue requires understanding, communication and compromise on both sides. It is hoped that the young couple can properly handle the bride price issue, so that their feelings will not be affected and they will move towards a happy future. It is also hoped that more people can reflect on the meaning behind the bride price, so that this traditional custom can play its due role in modern society, instead of becoming an emotional burden.
I would like to ask readers, what do you think? Love or money, which is more important, and do you think the demand for a bride price of 100,000 yuan is reasonable?
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