Who doesn't want to enjoy a good old age? But to have such a good old age, parents need to have a long-term vision in their relationship with their children. For parents, the relationship with their children is a battle for long-term quality of life, so they need to find a balance between helping and distancing.
First of all, it is crucial to consider your own health and quality of life. Older people need to take care of themselves and not be overly dependent on their children. They should learn to adapt to the current pace of society, learn to use new technology, and reduce excessive demands on their children, so as to avoid putting excessive burdens on their children.
Secondly, when faced with the plight of their children, parents need to carefully assess the situation. They should be good at distinguishing the nature of their children's plight and adopting different attitudes and actions for different situations. Only when children are in real need should parents reach out and give appropriate support and encouragement.
Finally, parents must be wise to assess their abilities and limitations when helping to care for a small family. They should not be overly responsible, but should allocate their time and energy according to their actual situation. Good family relations can only be maintained if help is given within the limits of what can be afforded.
In short, the relationship between parents and children is a long-term game, which requires parents to maintain a clear mind and a wise attitude in dealing with their children. Only with the right approach and attitude can we ensure a more harmonious relationship between parents and children and lay a solid foundation for a good old age.