My name is Wang Meili and I am 56 years old this year. I am an ordinary housewife living an ordinary and fulfilling life. My husband's name is Li Zhiqiang and he is a retired worker. We've been married for thirty years, and while there's no earth-shattering love story, we've been happily married.
Two years ago, my husband and I discussed it and decided to work together to support the elderly. We felt that now that our children were grown up and we were all retired, we should enjoy our old age. So, we rented a small apartment and lived a simple and comfortable life.
Today is my 56th birthday and I wasn't expecting any lavish celebrations, just wanting to have a good meal with my husband and then go home to see our retirement plants. However, when my husband and I went to eat at a nearby restaurant, something happened that I didn't expect.
"It's my birthday, wife, let's celebrate. I said to Li Zhiqiang with a smile.
He nodded, smiled and said, "Okay, honey, what do you want to eat, I'm in for a treat." ”
I was secretly moved to think that this was the birthday surprise I was looking forward to. We ordered a big meal and chatted about the past while tasting the food.
However, just as we finished the main course and were about to enjoy dessert, Li Zhiqiang suddenly frowned.
"What's wrong?" I asked, puzzled.
He was silent for a moment, and finally spoke, "Beautiful, I think we'd better break up." ”
I couldn't believe my ears, how could he say such a thing? I froze, not knowing how to respond.
"I don't want to live like this anymore, our life is so monotonous and I want to start over. "He took it for granted, but it made me feel extremely disappointed and sad.
I tried to persuade him, but he had already made the decision to insist on leaving. At that moment, I felt as if my heart had been torn apart, and it was in great pain.
Back at home, I sat alone on the couch and couldn't stop crying. I can't figure it out, why did he leave me when we were doing well? I felt lonely and hopeless than ever.
During that long night, I thought about what was going on between us. Maybe I ignored his needs, or maybe our life was really too dull and lost the passion and fun. I realized that there were some problems between us that I had never really faced.
The next day, I decided to have a good talk with him, and I didn't want to give up on our marriage like that, no matter what the outcome was. I love him dearly, and I believe there is room for redemption.
I found him, sitting on the balcony, his eyes confused, as if thinking about something.
"Zhiqiang, I know there are some problems between us, but I believe we can overcome them together. I whispered.
He looked up at me with a hint of confusion and hesitation in his eyes.
"Beautiful, I ......" he said again.
I clasped his hand tightly and said vigorously, "Let's face it together, no matter what difficulties we encounter, we can get through it together." ”
He was silent for a moment, then nodded slightly.
From that day on, we took a fresh look at our lives and found many things that could be improved. We started to participate in some interest classes together, learned new skills, and often traveled together to experience the beauty of life.
Slowly, our relationship became more intimate and our communication became smoother. We have learned to be tolerant and understanding, and we have learned to cherish the people in front of us.
Gradually, our lives become colorful, full of laughter and joy. We rediscovered our love and understanding with each other, and regained our belief in the possibility of happiness.
Now, whenever I see him smiling at me, my heart is filled with satisfaction and happiness. We may face all kinds of difficulties and challenges, but as long as we work together, I believe that we will be able to overcome everything and spend the rest of our lives together.
Because we've decided that we're going to grow old with you.