My name is Wang Lin, an ordinary office worker. My husband's name is Liu Wei and we have been married for seven years. At first, our marriage was like a beautiful painting, full of longing and hope. However, as time went on, our relationship began to get complicated.
Liu Wei is a very enterprising person, and he has been pursuing a higher position and a better life. And I, although I also have my own dreams, but more often than not, I am just a wife who silently supports him.
However, as the years went by, I gradually found that we were getting farther and farther apart. Liu Wei was busy with work all day long, and rarely had time to spend with me, and our communication became less and less. I began to feel lonely and helpless, and even began to wonder if the relationship between us still existed.
In the midst of such confusion and contradictions, I decided to have a heart-to-heart talk with Liu Wei. We sat in the living room, talking face to face. I told him how I felt, and I told him I needed more attention and companionship. However, he always used his busy work as an excuse to make me feel even more disappointed and frustrated.
Gradually, I began to realize that the problems between us were much more than that. There are huge differences in our personalities, living habits, and even life values. Perhaps, we really don't fit together.
However, getting a divorce is not an easy task. I need to think about the relationship between us, the stability of the family, and the future development. Divorce requires courage and, above all, wisdom.
I began to think carefully about our relationship, analyze what our problems were, and look for ways to solve them. I decided to go to a counselor with Liu Wei, hoping to resolve the conflict between us through professional help.
With the help of a counselor, we gradually began to understand each other's needs and expectations. We learned to communicate and understand each other better, and also rekindled the spark of marriage. Although the problems between us are not completely resolved, at least we have found a way to work together.
After going through this difficult period, my relationship with Liu Wei has become closer and stronger. We learned how important each other were, and we learned to be more tolerant and understanding of each other. Perhaps, divorce is not our final choice, but the starting point for us to start over.
Now, as I look back on our marriage, I feel truly grateful and happy. Divorce requires courage and, above all, wisdom. I am glad that I did not give up lightly, but chose to face difficulties with Liu Wei and go through every step of life together.