What is the most embarrassing thing that has happened to you? Netizen: I walked to my ex-boyfriend's house after work

The twilight after work is like a heavy flannel cloth, quietly enveloping the city. I dragged my tired body down the familiar street, the noise of the office echoing in my head. Inadvertently, I found myself walking downstairs at my ex-boyfriend's house.

I stopped and looked up, the warm light coming through the familiar window. For a moment, I seemed to be pulled by an invisible force, and I involuntarily took a step.

"Ding Dong—" The ringing of the doorbell echoed through the empty hallway. I clenched my fingers nervously, my heartbeat ringing in my ears.

"Who?" a familiar and unfamiliar voice came from behind the door, it was her ex-boyfriend.

"I ...... I ......, "I can't say a complete sentence."

The door creaked open, and my ex-boyfriend appeared in my sight. He was dressed in lounge clothes, with a hint of surprise and confusion on his face.

"Why are you here?" he frowned, his tone tinged with displeasure.

"I ...... I went the wrong way from work......" I lowered my head, not daring to look him in the eye.

He was silent for a moment, then sighed, "Come in and sit." ”

I followed him into the house and sat on the couch in the living room. Everything in the house was so familiar, as if time had never passed, and we were still the same couple in love. However, the reality is so cruel that we have long since broken up and become each other's passers-by.

"Drink something?" he broke the silence and got up and walked to the kitchen.

"No thanks. I shook my head and looked at his back with mixed feelings.

He brought me a glass of water and placed it in front of me, then sat across from me, looking at me with a deep gaze.

"How are you doing?" he asked softly.

"It's fine. I replied lightly, trying not to let my emotions come out.

"That's good. He nodded, as if relieved.

We fell silent, and an indescribable embarrassment pervaded the air. I didn't know what to say or how to face this person I once loved so much.

"Actually, I've always wanted to ask you, why did you break up in the first place?" I finally mustered up the courage to express the doubts in my heart.

He was stunned for a moment, then sighed, "At that time, I was too young to know how to cherish it. I thought I could find something better, but then I realized that losing you was my biggest regret. ”

His words pierced me like a sharp knife deep into my heart. My eyes were hot, and tears almost welled up in my eyes.

"That'...... Do you regret it now?" I asked, choking up.

He looked at me, and a trace of mixed emotions flashed in his eyes, "I regret it, but what's the use of regretting? ”

I bowed my head silently, the pain in my heart like a torn wound. Yes, we can't go back, the one we once loved each other has disappeared forever.

"I'm sorry. He said suddenly.

"Why do you want to say I'm sorry?" I looked up at him.

"Because I know that my mistake has hurt you a lot. I hope you can forgive me, and although we can't be together, I hope we can be friends. He looked at me sincerely.

I was silent for a moment, then nodded, "Okay, let's be friends." ”

At that moment, the knots in my heart seemed to loosen a lot. We can't go back in time, but at least we can let go and start over.

We talked for a long time, talking about the past, and also about each other's current situation and future. Time seemed to become slow and gentle at this moment, and those past pains and regrets slowly faded away in the conversation.

As I left, I stood in the doorway and glanced back at him. He smiled and waved goodbye to me, and at that moment, I felt a sense of relief and relief that I had never felt before.

Maybe this is growth, learning to face the past, learning to let go and forgive. Although that relationship is a thing of the past, it is also an integral part of my life. I will cherish that memory, and I will cherish my life now.

Since then, my ex-boyfriend and I have been friends. We no longer dwell on past grievances and grudges, but face each other with a more mature and rational attitude. Sometimes we eat together, watch movies, and share each other's lives and moods. This relationship makes me feel comfortable and at ease, and it also makes me cherish who I am now.

Time flies by like flowing water, and in the blink of an eye I have stepped out of the shadow of that relationship. I learned to be independent and strong, but also how to deal with setbacks and difficulties in life. I know that I still have a lot of shortcomings and areas for improvement, but I will continue to work hard and strive for a better version of myself.

Looking back on that embarrassing experience, I am very emotional. It made me realize my shortcomings and mistakes, and also taught me to grow and let go. Although that relationship is a thing of the past, it is a precious treasure in my life. I will treasure it in my heart and use it to motivate myself to keep moving forward.

In the days to come, I will continue to work hard, learn, and grow. I believe that as long as I maintain a positive attitude and an enterprising spirit, I will be able to create a wonderful life of my own. And that embarrassing experience will also become a beautiful scenery on the road of my life, which I will always remember in my heart.

As night fell, the neon lights of the city began to flicker, and I stood in front of the window and looked out at the lights in the distance. Recalling the unexpected encounter with my ex-boyfriend tonight, I have mixed feelings in my heart.

The next day, I went to work as usual, but I found myself feeling very relaxed. The oppression and heaviness seemed to dissipate in the wind with last night's conversation. Colleagues greeted each other, and I responded with a smile, but I secretly sighed in my heart: life is really full of unknowns and surprises.

At lunchtime, I went to eat with a few colleagues. Everyone had a lively conversation, and I occasionally interjected a sentence or two, but I no longer deliberately looked for topics as before. I feel like I'm slowly becoming more confident and calm.

After work, I received a message from my ex-boyfriend: "I had a great time chatting with you today, and I hope it will be like this again in the future." I smiled and replied, "yes, I didn't expect us to get along so peacefully." ”

Gradually, I got in touch with my ex-boyfriend more. We are no longer passers-by in each other's lives, but friends to talk to and share. Sometimes, I would ask him for advice on my work, and he would give me some advice and help. Our relationship has become more and more natural and relaxed.

However, life is always full of uncertainties. One day, I received a surprise phone call from my ex-boyfriend. His voice trembled a little and told me he was in a big trouble.

When I arrived at his house, he was sitting on the couch in a daze. His eyes lit up when he saw me come in, but then they dimmed again. I sat down and asked him softly what was going on.

He told me that his company was in financial crisis and that he might lose his job. He felt helpless and lost, not knowing how to deal with this sudden blow.

As I listened to him, I felt a mixture of emotions in my heart. I knew that I should comfort and encourage him at this time, but I also knew that I could not face this difficulty for him.

I took his hand, looked him in the eye and said, "I know you're sad right now, but you have to believe that there's no difficulty that you can't get over." You have the ability and wisdom to find a solution to your problem. I will always be here to support you and accompany you. ”

He looked at me with tears in his eyes. He held my hand tightly, as if he had found a glimmer of strength. At that moment, I deeply felt the friendship and trust between us.

In the days that followed, I faced this difficulty with my ex-boyfriend. We support and encourage each other to find solutions to problems together. Although the process was difficult, we didn't give up.

Eventually, the ex-boyfriend managed to get through it. His company survived the financial crisis, and he regained his confidence and courage. As a result, our relationship has become deeper and more sincere.

Looking back on this experience, I am very emotional. It has made me more aware of what true friendship and trust are, and it has also made me cherish my current life and relationships more. I know there will be more challenges and difficulties in the future, but I have the confidence to face them because I have a stronger heart and more sincere friends.

Life is like a movie, full of unknowns and surprises. We can't predict what the future holds, but we can choose how to face it. I will continue to move forward with this courage and confidence to create my own wonderful life. And that awkward experience and friendship with my ex-boyfriend will also become one of the most valuable assets on my life path.

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