Today's children wake up early and go to bed late every day, write homework late at night during school, and attend endless interest classes on Saturdays and Sundays. Can such a life still guarantee children an innocent and happy childhood?
How desperate should it be for parents to suddenly lose their hearts?
Recently, a video in the emergency room circulated on the Internet, a mother was in pain because of the loss of her 13-year-old child, crying miserably and listening to grief.
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Children can be said to be the hope of their parents' future lives, watching their hearts grow up day by day. But suddenly one day, hope is suddenly shattered, how heartbreaking should the hearts of parents be?
According to netizens, the mother didn't cry or make a fuss when she first entered the hospital, but was in a hurry to find the child. When she learned that her 13-year-old child was being rescued in the emergency room for jumping off the building, she panicked, which was still calm.
"What about my child, what about my child!", the mother crawled into the emergency room as if her legs were paralyzed, her fingers trembling and pointing at the emergency room as if she was dumb.
However, she still did not cry loudly, perhaps there was still a trace of fantasy in her heart, thinking that the child could still be saved. But when she saw the child being pushed out covered with a white cloth, she could no longer suppress the grief in her heart, and the heart-rending cry resounded throughout the emergency room.
The netizen who took the video revealed: The mother cried from eleven or twelve o'clock to five o'clock in the morning, during which she couldn't suppress the pain in her heart, she sat on the ground and wailed in distress, "Ouch, ouch~".
The other patients on the side were also persuading the mother to cry out and not hold back. Finally, the nurse told her that she could go and see the child, and then she burst into tears.
This heart-rending video is not only full of grief in the emergency room, but also has attracted widespread attention and heated discussions online.
Many netizens expressed sympathy for the mother's grief and discussed the reasons for such a tragedy.
Is it too much pressure on the children? Or is it the disharmony in the family? We don't know the specific reason, but as parents, we have to think deeply.
"Everyone raises a son and wants to be smart, but he is mistaken by being clever all his life. I hope that the child will be stupid and dull, and there will be no disaster and no trouble to the minister. ”
Whether it's mediocre or excellent, children are happy, and safety and health are the greatest luck.
Every child is a unique individual with their own talents and hobbies. As a parent, you can cultivate your child's strengths and strengths, rather than blindly trying to achieve things on the surface.
Speaking of which, in the end
Until we understand the cause and effect of the incident, what we can do is not to judge the cause of the tragedy. Nor should salt be poured on this mother, who has already suffered so much.
At the same time, this incident has also triggered us to think deeply about family education and parent-child relationship. Are we really able to accept the ordinariness of our children?
In ordinary life, do we ignore the inner needs and feelings of our children? In the current situation of hoping that our son will become a dragon and our daughter will become a phoenix, do we have too high expectations and requirements for our children?
What do you think? Welcome to speak and discuss in the comment area.