The poet Rabindranath Tagore was once asked:
What's the easiest in the world? What's the hardest?
Rabindranath Tagore replied:
"It's easiest to blame others, but it's hardest to know yourself. ”
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The trough of life will be there for everyone, and it will pass. During this trough, it is actually the best time to reflect on yourself.
If we choose to continue to plant "evil causes" now, not only will we not be able to change the status quo, but will only allow the "evil causes" to continue to grow in the future, and then we will be doomed.
The so-called "evil consequences" are nothing more than laziness, unwillingness to work hard, eating and waiting for death, lack of progress, short-sightedness, and so on.
These "evil causes" are like straws, each of which is not heavy, but it will crush the camel to death at a certain time.
Adjusting to one's bad state in time is a good way to prevent the causes of evil, so we need to learn, and we need to be humble and aware.
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In psychology, people have been divided into two categories: weak values and strong values.
The biggest difference between the two is that people with weak values like to ask when they encounter things: why?
People with strong values, on the other hand, ask themselves: Why?
Over time, a kind of Matthew effect developed between them:
People who like to attribute outwards are always full of resentment and complaints, and their lives are getting worse and worse.
People who are accustomed to seeking from inside constantly improve themselves, become better and stronger, and become stronger and stronger.
Life is practice, and cultivation is inward.
Comprehend in reflection and improve in change, and talents will continue to move forward.
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Psychologist Wu Zhihong, there is a passage that penetrates into the inside:
Being willing to admit that I have a problem is too much of a good start. There are too many tragedies in life, and it is right to defend me to the death. This kind of stubbornness will isolate people from all goodness.
The more you cover up your problems and scars, the stronger they thrive in resistance.
Whitewashing and denial consume our mental strength, and ignoring and evading it is futile.
Only by accepting after reflection and correcting after acceptance can we redeem ourselves.
The light is mostly hidden behind the dark clouds, and the advantage grows on the back of the disadvantage.
Every problem you find yourself with is an opportunity to repair yourself.
A person who knows how to reflect can remember the good of others and realize his own shortcomings;
Be able to see the strengths of others and discover their weaknesses.
There are advances and retreats in life, and the shades are always appropriate, understand proportions, and know advance and retreat.
In case of trouble, stop for three points, leave two points for speaking, and leave room for the world to be wide.