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In 1990, 34-year-old Zhang Fengyi was already well-known in the film industry and was known as a "tough guy on the screen". This year, he met and fell in love with Lu Liping, a famous "drama bone" of the same age, when they co-starred in the police film "Police Officer in the Year of the Dragon".
At that time, Lu Liping was very upright, bright-eyed, and quite popular in the entertainment industry. Zhang Fengyi was impressed when he saw her, and was attracted by her outstanding temperament and talent.
Lu Liping also fell in love with this masculine and upright actor with unique skills at first sight. After the shooting, the two soon fell in love and decided to enter the marriage hall hand in hand.
In 1990, they held a low-key wedding with the blessing of family and friends. Newly married Yan'er, the two are on the rise in their careers, and their personal lives are also full of sweetness and expectation.
But soon, cracks appeared in their married lives.
Zhang Fengyi was born in a poor family and wanted to change his family's living environment through his own efforts; Lu Liping, on the other hand, was born in a family of intellectuals in Beijing, with a demure appearance but an enthusiastic heart.
Due to the obvious differences in personality and background between the two, coupled with the huge pressure brought about by Zhang Fengyi's rising career, Lu Liping began to feel distressed in her heart.
At first, she was able to understand and understand her husband's sacrifices and sacrifices for the sake of the family. But as time passed, the heavy burden allowed the "unbalanced" emotions to gradually grow in her heart.
Especially when she sees her husband making great achievements in his career, her jealousy and restlessness are even more obvious.
Three years later, the conflict between the husband and wife finally accumulated to the point where it could not be resolved, and they decided to part ways. In 1993, Zhang Fengyi and Lu Liping officially divorced, ending this marriage that lasted for a very short time.
In 1993, Zhang Fengyi's acting career ushered in the peak moment. In this year, with his superb and outstanding performance in the feature film "Farewell My Concubine", he successfully created the classic role of "Duan Xiaolou".
His masculine and tough temperament is in stark contrast to the gentle and feminine image of "Chen Dieyi" played by Leslie Cheung, and the tacit cooperation between the two makes the characters portrayed vividly and vividly.
This film was widely praised as soon as it was released, and Zhang Fengyi won the reputation of "King Acting School" with his wonderful performance in the film, which further established his status and image as a "tough guy on the screen".
Winning such an honor should be the proudest moment in Zhang Fengyi's career as an actor.
However, just when his career took off and his reputation rose, his divorce from Lu Liping also became the focus of attention from the outside world. Because Lu Liping also has a certain degree of popularity in the film industry, coupled with the short marriage between the two, the outside world generally believes that Zhang Fengyi is a "negative man".
Many people are questioning and accusing Zhang Fengyi, thinking that he neglected his wife and children in pursuit of career achievements, and that he is a man who has abandoned everything from beginning to end. For a while, there were even a lot of criticisms and abuses of Zhang Fengyi on the Internet.
After the divorce, Zhang Fengyi's son Zhang Boyu chose to follow his mother Lu Liping, and the relationship between father and son became even more estranged. Although Zhang Fengyi and dance teacher Huo Fan later married and regained the warmth of the family, due to the long-term absence of constant companionship, the trauma of the father and son's heart knot has not been completely healed.
This period of time is undoubtedly a huge test for Zhang Fengyi's career and emotional life. On the one hand, he has achieved unprecedented success in the film industry, but on the other hand, his marriage is on the verge of breaking down, and his family relationship is in jeopardy.
After the divorce, although Lu Liping did not stop at the development path of her acting career, she had many twists and turns in her married life. She successively entered the marriage hall with athlete Tao Wei and actor Sun Haiying, but in the end, they could not escape the fate of breaking up at the end of their fate.
In 1996, Lu Liping met and fell in love with Tao Wei, a player of the national football team at the time. Although there is a 6-year age gap between the two, Tao Wei is 6 years younger than Lu Liping, but this has not become an obstacle to their "sister and brother love".
It didn't take long for the two to decide to come together. In 1999, they were married in the United States, witnessing the unwavering vows of the lovers.
It's a pity that the good times didn't last long, and three years later, there were cracks in the marriage between Lu Liping and Tao Wei. Due to the great differences between the two in terms of personality and beliefs, the contradictions continued to escalate, which eventually led to their long-term cold war state.
In order to avoid the conflict from continuing to intensify, Lu Liping and Tao Wei finally chose to break up peacefully and ended the marriage.
The trauma of divorce made Lu Liping feel hopeless about married life for a while, and even had the idea of not getting involved in it anymore. But at this moment, a man who has also experienced marital pain launches a fierce pursuit offensive against her - he is the actor Sun Hae-young, who is loved by the audience.
In 2001, the two fell in love when they co-starred in the TV series "The Years of Burning Passion". Previously, Sun Haiying had married a pharmacist and had a son.
Unfortunately, the child suffered an accident at the age of two, resulting in lifelong paralysis. In order to take care of the children, Sun Haiying's wife finally chose to leave. Since then, Sun Haiying has begun to shoulder the double burden of family and career on her own, taking care of her paralyzed son.
It wasn't until his son died at the age of 15 that Sun Haiying unloaded this heavy burden.
After learning about Sun Haiying's ability to support and considerateness, Lu Liping finally opened the door of her heart and decided to try married life again. A year later, they got married in Shenyang and witnessed the marriage of a "sick man" and a "widow".
For Lu Liping, Sun Haiying is undoubtedly a "good medicine for marriage", which made her regain her confidence in love.
Now revisiting the story of Zhang Fengyi and Lu Liping, the outside world's evaluation of the divorce of the two has changed 180 degrees. What triggered this change was a series of controversial words and deeds of Lu Liping in recent years.
As a devout Christian, Lu Liping once publicly uttered the words "thank God" at the 47th Taiwan Film Golden Horse Awards. This makes her the first actress among mainland actors to publicly thank God on such an important occasion.
For a Chinese citizen, expressing his gratitude to God at the award ceremony of an international competition has undoubtedly caused a lot of controversy and criticism.
What is even more unexpected is that on July 5 this year, the veteran actor, who is over sixty years old, suddenly posted on Weibo, quoting a passage from John F. Kennedy, expressing her yearning for "American freedom", and wrote "Happy birthday to the United States" at the end.
has always had a good impression of the United States, and such a public statement naturally ignited heated discussions among the majority of netizens. Many people have questioned why she loves the United States so much and whether she can consider changing her nationality.
In the face of the strong response of public opinion, Lu Liping finally chose to delete this Weibo.
However, Lu Liping's most uproaring remarks came after the assassination of former Japanese Prime Minister Shinzo Abe. As a Chinese citizen, she actually publicly mourned the former Japanese prime minister who had caused deep harm to the Chinese people on Weibo.
She wrote on Weibo: "Each of them lives so hard and hard, just like myself.
This remark undoubtedly sparked strong dissatisfaction and abuse from Chinese netizens. Many people are questioning and accusing Lu Liping, thinking that she is a "traitor" and "lackey".
Although as a public figure, Lu Liping has freedom of speech, but she does behave too gaffe on some occasions.
In the face of Lu Liping's series of gaffes, the outside world's evaluation of Zhang Fengyi's criticism of being a "negative man" has changed 180 degrees. Many netizens said: "Fortunately, they didn't go to the end at the beginning, otherwise with Lu Liping's current behavior, they wouldn't be the same."
It is precisely because of Lu Liping's series of controversial words and deeds in recent years that the outside world's evaluation of Zhang Fengyi's accusation of being a "negative man" has changed 180 degrees.
After re-examining this past, many netizens have a new understanding and opinion of the divorce incident of that year.
In addition, Zhang Fengyi's career is rising, and the pressure on his shoulders is increasing day by day, and the sense of "imbalance" in Lu Liping's heart gradually grows. When she saw that her husband had made great achievements in his career, but she was only a housewife, she would inevitably feel jealousy and restlessness in her heart.
In the past three years, the conflicts between husband and wife have accumulated little by little, and finally intensified into an unbridgeable gap, and divorce is inevitable.
Now re-examined, netizens generally believe that Zhang Fengyi's pursuit of career back then was not his own selfish desire, but for the livelihood and future of the whole family, and the hard work he made should be understood.
And the reason why Lu Liping is difficult to understand this is largely due to her family background and personal character. From this point of view, Zhang Fengyi is not the so-called "negative man", but Lu Liping lacks empathy and tolerance.
Some netizens sighed: "Fortunately, Zhang Fengyi didn't go to the end with Lu Liping at the beginning, otherwise with Lu Liping's words and deeds today, they will be different, and they will not conspire with each other in the end."
"31 years ago, everyone wrongly judged the cause of this divorce and blamed Zhang Fengyi alone. However, as time passes, we have gained more understanding and understanding of life, and we have come to understand that the dilemmas and choices faced by each person are very different, and we need to look at them with tolerance and empathy.
Revisiting the past of Zhang Fengyi and Lu Liping today, we can't help but have more reflections on the rise and fall of this marriage. The chapters of life are full of fun, and the past gradually dissipates like dust, leaving only a few pearls to tell.
Zhang Fengyi was born in poverty and was determined to change his family's life; Lu Liping was born in an intellectual family and has a passionate and unrestrained personality. The two met and fell in love in 1990, and the newlywed Yan'er period was full of sweetness and expectation.
But soon, due to the difference in background and the heavy pressure brought by Zhang Fengyi's career, contradictions began to breed between the couple.
As the years go by, life comes in all shapes. Zhang Fengyi later married Huo Fan and regained the warmth of the family; Lu Liping also experienced two marriages before finally meeting Sun Haiying, the "marriage medicine".
Life is a long road, who can tell right from wrong? The important thing is that they have all found their own happiness in the end.
This is life, vicissitudes of life, mixed flavors. But one day, we will all gain an understanding of life and learn to look at everything in the world with a tolerant heart. This realization is the most precious lesson in life.