Text/Flying Fish
Sixty ears are smooth, seventy ancient times are rare.
When a person lives to the age of seventy, he is actually a blessed person.
Now everyone's living conditions are better, as long as the mentality is good, as long as there are no accidents, in fact, they can live for a long time.
When people reach the age of 70, they actually say goodbye to some people, and even watch some people around them pass away, or their spouses leave first, they will feel lonely and afraid of living alone.
You must know that birth, old age, sickness and death are the normal state of life, people will eventually grow old, no one can escape life and death, we live optimistically.
What we have to do is to live a life with a willing attitude.
When you are over 70 years old, you can still do these three things, and I hope you are the real winner.
1. There is money in the card and a house in his name.
reminds me of Grandma Jinghui in "North and South", after her wife died, she had demolition money and pension in her card, and she also had her own house in her name.
She lives alone, is not afraid of loneliness, and can live optimistically, how happy she is.
She lives a very sober and sensible life, even if her son wants to cheat her out of money, let her buy the house, give him money to change to a big house, and then take her over to go together, she refuses, and is unwilling to look at other people's faces to live.
And the house here is my own, and I live very comfortably, and I don't want to be displaced when I get old.
She has money herself, has a house, lives well, and has a high quality of life in her later years, which is enough.
So when you are over 70 years old, you have retired, you have money, you have a house, then you can live with peace of mind, don't give money to others easily, and don't give up the house, only in this way, your old age can be guaranteed.
2. Take care of yourself and take care of yourself.
After the age of 70, if you are in good health, free of illness and pain, healthy, able to live independently, take care of yourself, and keep your mind clear, then you can have a plan and awareness of your life, which is actually very good.
In life, if you have anything to do, you can also do it yourself, you don't have to trouble others, you can go out to buy vegetables and cook by yourself, you can go out to travel if you want to, you don't have to wait for anyone, you don't have to look at anyone's face, you can master the rhythm of life by yourself, such a life in old age is actually quite enviable.
After the age of seventy, your life is carefree and you have money as a guarantee, so you don't have to think so much about your life in your later years, you just need to take care of your body and live your own life.
After a person reaches the age of 70, being able to maintain a good body and take care of himself is also a blessing for the family and a winner in life.
3. Accompany your wife on a blind date and go through the rest of your life.
After the age of seventy, when the relationship between yourself and your wife is still very good, and your wife is also very good to you, two people can live a good life together, which is actually a blessing in old age.
In his later years, Zhu Dali's temper became more and more eccentric, and he never even changed, and he was not good to his wife, which caused his wife to finally muster up the courage to divorce him when she was old.
Zhu Dali did not agree to the divorce, so his wife sued for divorce and went through the legal process.
When Zhu Dali realized that this matter could not be saved, he realized that he was wrong, took out the savings and gave it to his wife, and told her to live better in the future.
In the end, before Zhu Dali could finish speaking, he died suddenly.
People who have been strong all their lives say that they will fall.
When you reach old age, if you have a bad relationship with your wife, then the person who has taken care of you all your life is suddenly going to leave you and give up on you, and you are really not used to living alone, so you will think of your wife's good.
In fact, the person who has been with you for the longest time is your wife, and young couples are old companions, and when you get old, it is a very happy thing to have your wife by your side.
We must treat our spouses well, when we are old, there are people around us who know your warmth and coldness, understand your pessimism, and take care of your daily life, which is the real winner.
In short, if a person is over 70 and can still do the above three points, that is the real winner in life, I hope you can do it.
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