I am 70 years old, 54 years old, retired for more than three years, and my pension has been raised three times, enough to eat and drink, and I am very content.
Someone once said that retirement is a person's "successful retirement", return to the family, and truly live themselves.
For me, an ordinary person, these four words are a bit high, and retirement is just for me to start a new track.
Some people say that retirement should lie flat, enjoy retirement quietly, spend more money when you have money, and spend nothing if you don't have money.
My father also advised me to stop earning money, protect my eyes, and take good care of my body.
I know that this is my father's love for me and his care for me.
In my opinion, retiring at the age of 50 is a blessing and a kind of luck.
There is no pressure in the workplace, but the pressure in life has not decreased at all.
My wife has five years to retire, and although my daughter is over 30 years old, she has not yet started a family and is on the way to pursue her dreams.
Yesterday, I went to Baoding Yan in the northern suburbs with my wife to play around, and when I came back, I felt that my bones were scattered, and I was really old.
The daughter is still chasing her dreams in other places, although she can support herself and support herself, but she always feels that she is a child before she has a family.
I also had a desire to back her up, no matter how much money I could make, at least I could help her when she needed me.
As for retirement, I think there are a lot of conditions that need to be lowered. If we ordinary people can have the following three conditions, I think we can retire with peace of mind.
1. Find your own life and have your own hobbies.
Yang Jiang once said: Life is to find some fun for yourself, entertain yourself, and enjoy it.
In my opinion, after retirement, it is best to find your own fun and indulge in it.
The woman in her life, who lived hard in the first half of her life, is worthy of everyone, but she is sorry for herself.
When I was young, for the sake of my children, for my parents, and taking care of my wife, I had to earn money to support my family and play various roles.
When you retire and walk on the road to aging, you should really live for yourself, cultivate some hobbies for yourself, and do what you like.
Don't forget your original intention, and chase your dreams on the way to old age.
When I was younger, I loved reading "Little Novels" and "Micro Novels" and imagining how good it would be if I could write them.
After retiring, I found an organization, followed Mr. Tang Xiaoxiao, and pursued my dreams in a common hobby with like-minded friends in the self-media writing camp.
Every day is wonderful and fulfilling, not only can you find the hobby in your heart, but also realize the happiness of retirement.
Have a few close friends, occasionally get together, cook in person, cook a few specialty dishes, talk about the world, and reminisce about the years.
Find a few poems and distant places, take a long trip, see the rivers and rivers, taste delicious food, and wash the tired body and mind.
After retirement, find your own life, have your favorite hobbies, and enjoy your life to the fullest and enjoy your body and mind in your spare time.
2. Have a house, a stable income, worry-free food and clothing, and be physically and mentally healthy.
Every time I see someone on the Internet, someone tells about their life for their children.
Sell your house in retirement, buy a bigger house for your children, or buy a better car.
I lamented that I had worked hard for most of my life, and I didn't even have a shelter from the wind and rain.
Although living with children, there is always a feeling of being under the fence.
There are also some elderly people, after retirement, to help their children take care of their children, take out their savings and pensions, and contribute money and efforts in their children's homes.
In the end, they will still be disliked by their children, but the elderly themselves feel that if they pay more, they will get the blessing of "raising children and preventing old age".
In my opinion, after retirement, we are already blessed if we have a house and a stable income.
Worry-free food and clothing, take care of your physical and mental health, meet your daily life, do what you want to do, and don't have to work hard for money, so that you can really be blessed in old age.
After I retired, I had a monthly pension and my wife gave me a job, but I still lived a frugal life.
It is often said by familiar people that it is "old picking", "drilling money in the eyes", and "making money without spending it in vain".
But I still think that clothes don't need to be luxurious, just neat, clean and comfortable;
You don't need big fish and meat to eat, it's nutritious, and it's beautiful to eat a sense of ritual and poetry and distance;
The house doesn't have to be too big, there is laughter in the room, and the feeling of being a husband and wife is a blessing.
After retirement, there is a house to live in, there is pension income, and there is some "after-sleep income" supplement, which is enough for old age.
3. Children are independent and do not gnaw at the old, and can support themselves regardless of whether they are married or not.
After retirement, the most important concern is the establishment of a family for children.
Children have not yet started a family, after all, they are a concern in our hearts, and they are also unspeakable stones in our hearts.
When people reach a certain age, their children can live independently and not gnaw at the old, which is the blessing of us as old people.
Regardless of their ability, as long as our children are able to support themselves and support themselves, we are very satisfied and gratified.
When people are old, after our children get married, we still have savings in our own hands, which is also our blessing.
On the way to old age, don't be a hand-reaching party, and don't be an old man who "spoils his children".
In life, I see a lot of children worrying about the savings in the hands of the elderly and quarreling over the property of the elderly.
Some children have said that their parents are ignorant and do not know how to take the initiative to help themselves, such children are the sorrow of our old people;
Those children who would rather bear all the hardships by themselves and only report good news and not bad news to their parents are here to repay the favor.
My daughter has not yet started a family, and for my wife and me, this is an unspeakable "internal injury".
Every time I attend someone else's children's wedding banquet, I feel uncomfortable when I am asked why I don't urge me to get married.
Someone once said that a person's greatest success is that their children live better than themselves.
And I think that the happiness of children is the capital of our old people's "success and retirement".
After retirement, have you met all three of the above conditions?
If they are all satisfied, they are the happiest old people, they can retire with peace of mind, and the rest of their lives will be better and better.
Author: Huagui Zen Heart
Follow my words and go into your heart. You have a story, I have tea, and we can talk about the rest of our lives together.
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