Because my own children are in the second year of junior high school, I care more about other people's children. This year, there are two children in the relatives who take the college entrance examination, a boy, the last few mock exams are a few points and five hundred, learning is relatively easy, and there is not too much pressure, playing basketball, football, and badminton when he has time is also one of the best in the county, and he often participates in competitions on behalf of the school.
There is also a girl, the simulation score fluctuates between 56 and 508, and she has a future plan, but the study pressure is relatively high, she studies at half past ten every day, eats and washes at home for half an hour, and continues to study for two hours, gets up at five o'clock in the morning, and the glasses have reached more than 600 degrees.
Both children are very good! both are baby bumps in the eyes of their parents, and they are also the children of other people's families. No one knows which of the two children will be better in the future.
When I happened to be eating out at noon, I met two eldest brothers, who made their own one-acre and three-point land at home when they were busy farming, and worked part-time in the county seat during their leisure time.
An eldest brother has a sad face, his child is studying in Beijing, is already a junior, learns the computer, usually does not contact the family, only when there is no living expenses to contact the family, when he returns home, he does not go out of the door, and he does not know what he is busy with, and he does not contact his relatives and classmates, he just stays in his own room, sleeps late and gets up late, and complains to you when he calls, so that it is more difficult to do something than to ascend to the sky. I don't know what I'm going to do in the future, but I'm going to live one day at a time.
Another eldest brother is full of smiles, and his two sons have worked everywhere to learn crafts before graduating from junior high school, one in Suzhou and the other in the county seat. And both of them are married, and they have children. Especially in the county, this son, especially able to endure hardships, and a ruthless, now can earn more than 30,000 a month, although the work is more tired, but also dirty, but the real money in the hand, so that he has two houses in the county, and there are more than 100,000 scooters, in his free time to travel with his parents, to see the scenery of other places, it is also very pleasant. No wonder the eldest brother is smiling from beginning to end!
Going to school or not going to school is really confusing, whether it should be reading or learning a craft early, many college students have no sense of direction after graduation, either take the postgraduate examination, or take the public examination, if you can't pass the exam for a year, you will take the exam again for another year, if you can't do it, you will do it again, if you are lucky enough to be admitted, everything will be fine. I'm afraid that I won't be admitted and I will be out of touch with society. There are not a few such children around me, and they always think that they will definitely be admitted next time, and their parents are slowly losing confidence. It's better to know earlier than to work early after graduation. Children who enter the society early know what they need and understand the importance, so they work hard to learn skills, endure hardships, and suffer hardships, and they don't care about other people's cynicism, as long as they can earn money.
Therefore, children who do not go to school are more resilient to stress and are more able to adapt to this cruel society.