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01
In the past, I liked an advertising slogan from the well-known brand Lenovo computer:
"What would the world be like if humans didn't have associations. ”
In life, if people don't have thinking and their own awareness, what will their lives become?
If you classify people, there will be a big difference between people.
As Shakespeare said:
"For 1,000 readers, there are 1,000 Hamlets. ”
Some people spend their lives and would rather suffer physical hardship, but they are rarely willing to really calm down and suffer a little mental hardship.
If life is destined to endure hardships all your life, choose to suffer more physically or choose to suffer more mentally, I think the outcome of life is destined to be different.
The laziness that a person stole when he was young will eventually make you return it in a double way in the near future.
People like to pay attention to what fate is, but few people can seriously think about what kind of fate is, and how to better change this state when they are poor, slowly climb out of the trough, and realize the counterattack of life.
It is more difficult to change people's thinking than to separate an atom, and the core of breaking through fate is to change thinking.
02
After working in education and training for a while, I realized this year how difficult it is to be a chore.
When getting along with people, even if you have the power of the wilderness, even if the identity of the other party is not equal, it is sometimes more difficult to change a person's innermost thoughts and concepts than to ascend to the sky.
Li Bai said, "Shu Road is difficult, Shu Road is difficult, and it is difficult to go to the blue sky", which may be what he said.
Under normal circumstances, people cannot be woken up, but can only be woken up by pain.
If you don't see the Yellow River, you don't die, you don't hit the south wall, you don't look back, you don't shed tears when you don't see the coffin, the reason why there are so many tears of pain and remorse in the world may be that we often don't have the awakening and understanding in advance.
The ancients said:
"The wise man has the foresight in the unbudding, and the wise man has the foresight in the inform. ”
A wise man can think of ways to avoid calamity before danger comes, and a wise man foresees something to happen before it is even a sign of it.
Whenever you see this aphorism in the book, it makes you feel in your heart that the biggest difference between people, that is, the so-called gap in fate, is the cognition and thinking in the mind.
03
When reading the Book of Changes, we often see the following words:
"Born from the heart, life turns with the heart. ”
"If you are poor, you will think about change, change will be successful, and you will be good for a long time. ”
If you don't change the concepts and perceptions in a person's mind, no matter where you go, you may live a prisoner's life.
Just like such a thing, in life, whether a person chooses himself as a savior or chooses to rely on others in life, in fact, in fact, they are already destined to be different from each other's fates.
Su Shi said:
"Looking horizontally, the side of the ridge is a peak, and the foresight is different. ”
Even if faced with the same thing, people's minds have different concepts, and each person chooses different ways, and often comes up with different results.
You see, just like when we were in high school, different students had different habits when solving math problems, which also led to different scores.
Some people "do my day and three times", even if they finish a question, they often use their minds to go back and re-examine and proofread again, and the quality and effectiveness of the questions naturally have more guarantees, and some students do it again, they will be shelved and full of confidence, which naturally leaves many hidden dangers.
So, I have to make you understand that the so-called fate is just a product of cognition and thinking.
04
I've ever heard the cruelest words:
"The biggest tragedy of middle age is the premature cognitive closed loop. ”
The so-called cognitive closed loop, that is to say, a person slowly begins to close the channel between his mind and the outside world, always thinking that those who know can be competent for everything in life.
What a terrible way of life this is, ego, a road to the dark, where will there be the opportunity and possibility to change fate?
The biggest law in the world is change, and having the ability to adapt to change is the greatest ability of a person.
Confucius said:
"A gentleman is not a weapon. ”
The fact that a husband can stretch and bend is actually a flexible philosophy.
Even Lao Tzu wrote in the Tao Te Ching:
"If you are low, you will be profitable, and if you are curved, you will be straight. ”
In this world, sometimes you will see that the logic of the development of everything seems to be such a spiral and tortuous trajectory, tomorrow may not be better, and accidents may meet in the present.
A person's awakening must come from the heart, and only by changing one's own thinking can one essentially change one's own destiny.
05
Sometimes, I like the old saying, he compares the world and society to "rivers and lakes", and the reason why it is defined as rivers and lakes is that the water of rivers and lakes is more turbid, and after all, it cannot make us clear to the bottom.
Suddenly, I realized the good intentions of the ancients, using the definition of rivers and lakes, which is invisibly reminding you to be cautious and sober enough, but not to be careless and do careless things in Jingzhou.
As everyone knows, those who drown can swim, and those who are cut by knives are all knife-wielders.
A person's reverence for life often forms a huge difference between people.
Take the drunk driving case as an example, I have met a succession of people around me who have encountered such a thing, and I think the real reason is that there is a "hidden danger" in their minds, which really causes a tragedy in their lives.
A person's mind, once formed, is very difficult to change.
Albert Einstein once said that it is harder to change a person's mind than to separate an atom.
People's thinking is so stable, which shows that their fate is also stable and unchanging, and it is difficult to change.
It's hard to change, it's not that it can't be changed.
However, if a person wants to change his fate, he is destined to pay a certain price, just as it is a truth that free pie will not fall from the sky, without paying, there will naturally be no return.
And a person's unforgettable update of their cognition, adapt their thinking, and solidify the skills in their hands often bring very rich rewards, but many times the immediate desire and hedonism blind the sober eye.
It is more difficult to change people's thinking than to separate an atom, and the core of breaking through fate is to change thinking.
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