If you want your children to be promising, mothers must not become the following 4 types of mothers, especially the 4th type, no matter how short they are
The first overly doting mom. Some mothers, after the birth of their child, completely sacrifice their time and space to take care of their child in every possible way, and even meet all the requirements of the child. This kind of mother seems to be very kind in front of her child, but in fact, in such an environment, the child has not learned how to think independently, nor has he learned how to face difficulties and setbacks.
Second, overly nagging moms. Some mothers are always full of worries about their children, pay too much attention to their children's bits and pieces, and always judge their children's behavior with their own experience. The child may not have done anything wrong, but the mother is always reminding and criticizing. Such an environment will not only drown out the child's personality and creativity, but also make the child lose self-confidence.
Thirdly, the mother who complains negatively. Some mothers always complain about the injustice of the society, the pressure of the family, or are pessimistic about the future of their children. In such an environment, it is difficult for children to develop positive qualities, let alone appreciate the beauty of life.
Fourth, overprotective moms. For the sake of their children's safety and health, some mothers always limit their children's contact and attempts excessively, or even confine their children to their homes. In this environment, children cannot learn how to face difficulties in life independently, let alone develop the habit and ability to learn independently.
As mothers, we need to realize that there are many challenges and difficulties that children need to face in their growth, and only in this process can they continue to grow and improve. As mothers, we should not spoil our children too much, do not over-nag, do not complain passively, and do not over-protect our children. We should try our best to create a free, equal and safe environment for children, so that children can grow up in trial and practice, and learn to face all kinds of difficulties and setbacks in life. In this way, the child can become an independent, confident, and positive person with a bright future.
Help parents and wake up children!