Divorce your wife and spend your life with your lover: three men tell their true feelings
In the hustle and bustle of the city, the emotional waves seem to be more intense than anywhere else. Some people give up a long-running marriage for the sake of momentary passion and choose to spend the rest of their lives with their lover. Today, I would like to share the stories of three men who have all chosen this path, but what are their true feelings now?
Mr. Lee was the first story hero I knew. He once galloped in the business world, his wife was virtuous and virtuous, and the two raised a pair of children together. However, as his career flourished, Mr. Li began to feel that life had become boring, and his feelings for his wife had gradually faded. By chance, he met a young and beautiful woman, and the two quickly fell in love. Driven by passion, Mr. Li chose to divorce his wife and start a new life with his lover.
At first, Mr. Li was immersed in fresh and exciting love, as if he had found the second spring of life. But as time passed, he began to miss the ordinary days he spent with his wife and the innocent smiling faces of his children. He gradually realized that true happiness is not a short-term passion, but a long-term companionship and the warmth of family. However, when he wanted to turn back, he found that there was no going back.
Mr. Wang is another example that has left me with deep emotion. He originally had a happy family, but in order to pursue the so-called "true love", he resolutely left his wife and children and got together with his lover. However, reality hit him hard. The lover was not as perfect as he imagined, and her willfulness and vexatiousness made Mr. Wang feel pressured. What made him even more sad was that his divorce had caused great harm to the children, who began to distance themselves from him and even no longer recognized him as a father.
Mr. Wang began to regret his decision, and he longed to go back in time and have that loving family again. But time can't be turned back, and he can only bear the torment and pain in his heart alone.
Mr. Zhao is the protagonist of the third story. His divorce and union with his lover seem to be the beginning of a romantic saga, but the ending is not what he wants. Mr. Zhao is overwhelmed by his lover's greed and vanity, and he not only has to bear the financial pressure of his family, but also has to endure his lover's vexatious trouble. After a series of quarrels and conflicts, Mr. Zhao finally realizes what a foolish decision he made to abandon his otherwise stable family in pursuit of a momentary passion.
The stories of these three men, while different, all reflect a common problem: in the pursuit of love, we tend to lose our way and ignore the people and things that are truly worth cherishing. When we choose to leave our wife for the sake of our lover, we may briefly bask in the novelty, but in the long run, this choice often brings endless pain and regret.
Life is always full of unknowns and uncertainties, and we can't predict what will happen in the future. But we can learn from our past experiences, learn to cherish the people in front of us, and don't easily give up on those people and things that are truly worth cherishing. Because true happiness is often hidden in the bits and pieces of our daily life, we need to discover and manage it with our hearts.
Hopefully, the stories of these three men can shed some light and serve as a wake-up call for those who are facing emotional choices. On the road of pursuing love, we should keep a clear head and firm beliefs, and not blindly pursue novelty and excitement and ignore those things that are really important. Only in this way can we find happiness that truly belongs to us on the road of life.