She became famous in "The Legend of the Condor Heroes" with the little dragon girl, known as the most beautiful little dragon girl, and her career has been steadily rising, but she suddenly announced that she chose to retire, all because she fell in love and couldn't extricate herself.
Now 58 years old, she is still unmarried and childless, everything is just because that person ruthlessly hurt her, she even suffered from depression when she was frustrated, and she fell from depression one by one, and now she is on stage again to explain this relationship, and her voice is still a little trembling.
How was Li Ruotong hurt? Has she gotten out of the torment of depression now?
A movie queen who is crazy about love
In the perception of ordinary people, glamorous female stars must be able to find a suitable wishful husband to spend the rest of their lives with, both famous and rich, what kind of man can't be found, as long as he doesn't meet his needs and change to another one, it's not strange to see such things in the entertainment industry, but Li Ruotong is obviously an "outlier".
Now that she is almost 60 years old, she is neither married nor has children, and many people are very curious about why a woman with such a successful career cannot find a person she likes? Li Ruotong finally told the secret that has been hidden for many years in the interview -- she is afraid of love.
In fact, she was also a little girl who longed for romantic love at the beginning, and she also embraced love with enthusiasm, but what she got was hurt, until she was scarred in the end, and the infatuated actress did not perform a happy ending in her life script, and she was covered with scars in the end.
Now that she is almost sixty years old, it is really helpless to be unmarried and childless, at the age when she longed for love the most, she did meet a man she felt she could entrust her life, but in the process of ten years of love, Li Ruotong only felt that she was becoming more and more desperate for love.
In the ten-year relationship, there will always be big and small conflicts between the two, and she didn't take it to heart, but one thing made her completely disappointed, because Li Ruotong never waited for the man to say that he would marry her, and he never discussed the future with her, and in the eyes of the man, it seems that he has always been just a love object.
I didn't want to give her a home or a name, at the beginning, she just felt that the time had not come, maybe the relationship was not mature enough, but the more time passed, the more I felt that it was not like that, and some people also asked her that she was so old that she had never been married or had children, don't you feel like a failure?
Li Ruotong fell into deep thought, she began to self-doubt and self-denial, her father also passed away soon after, and there were continuous rumors of slander from the outside world, Li Ruotong really collapsed, she didn't understand the meaning of her persistence back then, did a man who never wanted to give himself a "home" really love herself?
She was forced to be depressed, and even had suicidal thoughts, she had no way to think about other problems, she just wanted to lie on the bed in the bedroom every day and do nothing, sometimes she would suddenly be stunned, her heart was not guarded, she thought about the meaning of her life, and a sense of frustration arose.
It's not that no one persuaded her to cut off that relationship earlier, but she was immersed in it at that time and couldn't extricate herself, women in love are stupid, she just wants to give, she wants to love all the time, and she can't withdraw that foot in love, so she can only give up herself.
She can sacrifice everything for her lover, spend time with her, change her temper and tolerance, and even give up time with her family, but wishful thinking in exchange for love must be a piece of chicken feathers, and she finally chose to abuse herself to relieve her pressure, but this is not a way after all, fortunately, she found a way to face depression.
Refuse to give up and find a way to save yourself
Depression is really torture, people will be unconsciously pessimistic, and want to solve themselves in extreme ways, but Li Ruotong knows that she can't do this, she has been on a wrong path for ten years, and now she is causing trouble to her family, she began to look for ways to save herself, but it is difficult to muster up the courage to face life again.
Li Ruotong hit a wall everywhere at the beginning, she bumped around like a headless fly, nothing could distract her, and nothing could make her interested, every time she was frustrated, she just wanted to fall asleep on the bed, but she also knew that she had to persevere, this was what she had to face.
Fortunately, Li Ruotong finally found the way to defeat the disease, that is, fitness, Li Ruotong said that fitness is her "life-saving benefactor", in that most painful time, no matter what she does, it has no effect on the condition, only fitness, she will feel relaxed and comfortable.
And in the process of fitness, she not only defeated depression, but also made her body healthier, which also made her feel very fulfilled, and her self-confidence came back, even though Li Ruotong is 58 years old, but from her appearance, figure and temperament, it is completely invisible.
At first, she just thought that fitness could make her body tired, and she could forget the mess for a while, so she exercised day after day, and finally made her forget the pain, and her negative thoughts began to decay, and now she can find herself again is all due to fitness.
Li Ruotong does not shy away from showing her figure, judging from the photos on her social platform, the vest line is very obvious, fitness has become an indispensable part of her life, the years are fleeting but she is still not old, and Li Ruotong also summarized her views at this sharing meeting.
That is, everyone will experience pain, everyone will get old, but we must not put too much pressure on ourselves, any problem can find a solution, we must find our own meaning in life and live our own life value, just like her, live your own wonderful, this passage ushered in bursts of applause, can only be said to be worthy of the most beautiful little dragon girl known as her.
Li Ruotong at the most beautiful time
Li Ruotong's words can have such a big repercussion, naturally there is a reason for her, this is known as the most beautiful little dragon girl back then, Li Ruotong's name in the Hong Kong entertainment industry is very status, she participated in the first TV series "The Condor Heroes" created a lot of records, and the little dragon girl she played is the perfect goddess in the hearts of many people.
Later, she played the triangle in "Dragon Babu", Li Ruotong's acting skills were recognized by people, fans said that she jumped out of Jin Yong's book, and even Jin Yong herself highly recognized her, and the film and television works she starred in are the memories of countless post-70s and 80s.
Now she is as beautiful as she was back then, when she stood on the stage to share her story, although she heard a trace of sadness, but it was more about the open-mindedness of seeing through life, Li Ruotong has succeeded and failed, and she has fallen and got up, I only feel inspired after reading her story.
The impermanence of life will always experience some hardships, but no matter what kind of trough we fall into, we must believe that there will be a day when we will come out, Li Ruotong is still living well these years without marriage and infertility, the traditional thinking is not a shackle that binds women, people should love themselves more and live for themselves.
The most important thing is to be happy, there is a good saying, how can people who don't love themselves learn to love others? Don't care about other people's opinions, ask your inner voice, and then continue to work hard, a better future awaits us.