In 1978, Chen Yulian had just turned 18 years old.
On her birthday, she received a bouquet of roses.
Signed on the card: Chow Yun-fat.
She lowered her head and smelled the fragrance of flowers, and her heart was suddenly moved, and her face blushed.
The bouquet of roses, bright red and warm, resembled their vigorous love.
It's a pity that the flowers will wither, and their love will not make it to the end.
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Chen Yulian is undoubtedly beautiful.
In "Heaven and Dragon Slayer", she is a smart, strong, and empathetic Xiao Zhao.
In "Dragon Babu", she is beautiful and moving, just like Wang Yuyan, who is like a fairy.
In "The Legend of the Condor Heroes", she incarnated as the smart, beautiful, and eccentric Huang Rong.
But the most memorable thing is the little dragon girl she played in "The Legend of the Condor Heroes".
The white clothes are better than the snow, beautiful and refined, and the smile is all fascinating.
Even Andy Lau, who played Yang Guo, couldn't help but be moved by her.
More than ten years later, someone asked Andy Lau if he had a special favorite actress.
He still did not hesitate: "Chen Yulian." ”
However, there is a lack of fate between them after all.
At that time, Andy Lau was too young, and Chen Yulian loved a more mature man.
Because of her poor background, Chen Yulian has always had low self-esteem in her early years.
She longs for someone who can protect her and give her enough security.
And Chow Yun-fat's appearance happened to meet this.
He is 5 years older than her, mature and stable, and gives her a sense of security.
When they first fell in love, neither of them was on fire yet, and they had a lot of time together.
Tea, travel, and friends.
At that time, they were often seen walking side by side.
One is tall and handsome, the other is gentle and graceful, like a pair of golden boys and girls.
When you are in love, it seems that even the air is full of the sweetness of love.
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Unfortunately, sweet days are always short.
After two years of dating, Chow Yun-fat quickly became popular.
In 1980, he became a big hit with "Shanghai Tang" and gained countless fans.
filming, catching up with announcements, and being so busy that his feet don't touch the ground.
Two people who were once inseparable suddenly became difficult to even see each other.
Even if they meet briefly once in a while, they will quickly move on to the next separation.
Occasionally, Chen Yulian can't help but complain:
"I really feel like he's good to his friends and good to his family. ”
It seems that no matter who it is, she can't compare.
In his social circle, she seems to be at the bottom of the list.
But most of the time, Chen Yulian always understands Chow Yun-fat's work and his helplessness.
She understood that he didn't mean to snub her, but that he was really too busy at work.
But after a long time, Chen Yulian gradually felt lonely.
Fortunately, her career has improved.
The works were broadcast one after another, and the classic characters appeared one after another.
Work takes up most of her time, and her longing is not so intense.
But over time, new problems began to arise.
Both are busy with their careers, and there is less time to see each other and less communication.
Slowly, more and more estrangement widened between them.
The conflict was on the verge of breaking out, and the delay in getting the approval of the man's family became the last straw that broke the camel's back.
It is rumored that Chow Yun-fat's mother is very disgusted with Chen Yulian.
thinks that there is a "lotus" in her name, which is destined to be bitter, and also said that she looks bitter, not like a blessed person.
Chen Yulian was already stubborn and unconvinced, not to mention that she was only in her early twenties at the time, and when she was young and vigorous, where could she endure these words.
She resolutely said that she would not change her name, and she did not think that she looked bitter.
But the more she is like this, the more Chow Yun-fat's mother dislikes her.
And Chow Yun-fat is a filial son, he doesn't dare to disobey his mother, so he can only let his girlfriend be wronged temporarily.
After a long time, Chen Yulian began to feel disappointed in this relationship.
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In the fifth year of their relationship, they decided to break up.
The person who proposed the separation was Chen Yulian.
Instead of torturing each other and exhausting the last affection, it is better to break up as soon as possible and leave a decent memory for each other.
I thought Chow Yun-fat would agree, after all, I had a love, so I got together and dispersed.
Who knows, Chow Yun-fat is unwilling.
Because, he is reluctant to have this relationship.
In order to keep Chen Yulian, Chow Yun-fat did not hesitate to drink a large amount of dish soap.
His actions frightened Chen Yulian.
No one would have imagined that Chow Yun-fat, who is so self-loving and beautiful, would be so impulsive and extreme in love.
Perhaps, he is showing that he can give up his life for Chen Yulian.
As everyone knows, in Chen Yulian's view, this is a threat of life.
Fortunately, because of the timely rescue, Chow Yun-fat finally picked up a life.
During the days of hospitalization, Chen Yulian was always by her side.
It wasn't until Chow Yun-fat's condition improved that she was relieved to leave.
But after this incident, Chen Yulian strengthened her determination to break up.
"If someone is going to be a threat to my life, I will make a choice and leave them. ”
After separation, they each had their own marriage.
After an 8-year marriage and an 11-year relationship, Chen Yulian escaped into the void.
Chow Yun-fat and Yu An'an got married and divorced, and later accompanied his sister-in-law Chen Huilian to this day.
The love between Chen Yulian and Chow Yun-fat has long become a thing of the past.
But when it comes up now, it still makes people feel regretful and embarrassed.
But maybe life is like this, and love may not be able to stay together.
Missing out and regretting are a norm, but if you love each other deeply, this encounter is in vain.
May they all usher in their own fulfillment on their respective paths.