There is always a wisp of warmth in life, which can disperse the cold of time, in this shallow time, one hand fireworks and one hand poetry, let the flowers bloom and fall outside the window, the clouds come and go, and the aftertaste is endless, so pleasant;
Time is slow, the years are fragrant, the warm sun paved the light, in the fireworks-shrouded hut, adding a touch of poetry and warmth, inhabiting this small chestnut, gathered up is fireworks, and it is the world to push it out.
Time passes, the years are quiet, the wind sweeps away the flowers to spend the sun and the moon, the boiled leisurely and joyful, what is the most important thing in a family, perhaps, different groups of people have different answers;
And some netizens left a message saying that they only understood when they were more than half a hundred years old, "only when you have 3 things in your home can you become rich" is not superstition, it is the wisdom of the older generation, with them, all the beauty and gentleness can naturally come as promised, let's take a look at it together.
First: laughter
What is the simplest and truest appearance of life, it is probably "family sitting idle, amiable lights." Since then, the days have been full of joy, and the story of time has been extended and continued.
Wang Zengqi: "Food in all directions is just a bowl of fireworks in the world." "After seeing the glitz of the world, I know that happiness is in the coarse tea of white rice. No flowery rhetoric is as good as a steaming bowl of soup;
With the company of family members, even if it is a bowl of hot porridge, you can taste happiness, and what is the key to a harmonious family may be to communicate more in advance and complain less afterwards;
A family living together is inseparable from firewood, rice, oil and salt, and trivial matters.
Just like in "A Place of Chicken Feathers", Xiao Lin and his wife Li Jing often blame each other for trivial matters in life, because of the quarrel began to turn over old accounts, the wife accused her husband of breaking the vase at home, and the husband Xiao Lin accused his wife of knocking over the kettle;
Originally, loving husband and wife, because of these little things in life, blamed each other, abused each other, the more noisy they became, the more intense they became, they tried their best to blame each other's faults, and put all the unsatisfactory in their previous lives on the table to blame back and forth, and small problems were not solved, but became big contradictions.
The family is not a battlefield, let alone an arena, there is no need to take out a magnifying glass to observe the mistakes of the other party, and then use an amplified voice to blame, on the contrary, we should learn to understand more, tolerate more, do not blame in case of trouble, learn to turn the page, a family can be stable and happy.
Second: there is sunshine in the heart
It is often said that when a person is at his most vulnerable, even a straw can make people despair to the point of misanthropy, and leave with no sign of grief.
Life is too bitter and tired, this is the perception of ordinary people, the comfort and communication of relatives are very important, and self-seeing is also very important, even if you feel that the east wind is weak and the flowers are withering, you can still get out of the gloom and have your own scenery all the way.
After nightfall, there will always be dawn, and life's challenges will eventually be overcome, in times of sadness, it is necessary to find support and support, but more importantly, learn to face difficulties alone and draw strength from them;
We firmly believe that even if we can't see it now, there is always a ray of light waiting for us, and as long as we are willing to move forward, the scenery will always be with us.
If you feel bored or lack motivation, you might as well go into the wet market to see the people running for a living, listen to their bargaining, and feel the real excitement of life.
These real neighbors can make you understand that to walk from the old things, out of a piece of freshness, out of a piece of hope, just like not storing too much fresh fruits, vegetables.
There is a beam of sunshine in the heart, which is a weapon to drive away tasteless and tasteless troubles, learn to appreciate the ripples, feel the ripples from the stream of the day, and sort out the clues from the fine fragmentation of firewood, rice, oil and salt.
You don't need to be rich to go to the sun, poverty does not mean that your value is low, and people with sunshine in their hearts have long regarded success or failure as a mentality.
Third: more books
After going through the cold and desolation of the years, I finally arrived in spring, and then met a tree and flowers, drank a cup of tea, read a good book, and met a fate.
In ordinary life, it is still necessary to retain a little leisure, to read an idle book, to discover the beauty of ordinary life through the author's writing and through the bits and pieces of life;
Watching short videos is happy, but the vivid pictures and funny plots are difficult to fill the heart, when you brush short videos, take a little time out to read books, and if you have a book, no matter how bad it is, even if you nest in the study, it's good to waste your time.
Leaving a space, leaving a study, is also equivalent to leaving a touch of leisure for yourself, a few bright windows, pen, ink, paper, inkstone, every hand, every foot, are full of life interest and cultivation talents;
Creating a small study room and leaving space for people to read a book to their heart's content, in this fast-paced life, having a reading corner of their own can make people better relax, cultivate wisdom, and make life more colorful.
It's like Lin Qingxuan said: "A family that can smell the fragrance of books and hear peace can awaken the seed in people's hearts, otherwise, this seed will rot alone in the hustle and bustle." ”
With this study, you can spend countless leisure and leisure time in the sea of books, although it is a "burrow", invisibly, it also makes the original ordinary daily life, more poetic, more charm.
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