How long does it take for a husband and wife to reconcile the cold war? The one who has been in the cold war for 12 years is so helpless
"You know what? We've been in the Cold War for 12 years. I said to him lightly, with a hint of helplessness in my tone.
He looked up, a flash of consternation in his eyes, as if he couldn't believe how much time had passed. I looked at him, my heart was full of mixed emotions, 12 years, what a long time, our relationship is like a frozen lake, seemingly calm but hiding deep rifts.
"12 years ......," he muttered to himself, as if struggling to digest the meaning behind the number.
I took a deep breath and my mind went back to that cold winter. At that time, not long after we were newly married, a sudden quarrel broke our sweetness. I can't remember the exact reason for the argument, only the anger and disappointment at that moment. Since then, we have started a long cold war.
"Why were you so angry?" he asked softly, breaking the silence.
I paused, the anger in my heart had long since subsided, and only endless regret remained, "I don't remember anymore." However, I know that incident is starting to drift us apart. ”
He lowered his head, and I could see his hands shaking, "I also regret that if I had been able to control my emotions at the time, maybe we wouldn't have come this far." ”
I sighed softly, and an inexplicable sadness welled up in my heart. yes, if we could have communicated and understood a little more, maybe everything would have been different. However, we cannot turn back time, we can only accept reality.
"Do you remember why we got married in the first place?" I asked suddenly.
He looked up, tears glistening in his eyes, "Of course I remember, because we love each other." ”
Love...... The word seems to be far away from us. However, when I heard him say this, a warm current surged in my heart. Perhaps, we still have a chance to start over.
"So, would you like to try to reconcile with me?" I asked cautiously.
He looked at me with a determined glint in his eyes, "Of course I do, I've regretted it for so many years and don't want to go on like this again." ”
I felt my eyes heat and tears rolled down my cheeks. The 12-year Cold War finally showed signs of melting at this moment.
"However, we need to find a solution to the problem. I wiped my tears and said seriously.
He nodded, "I know, we need to be honest with each other and say what is in our hearts. ”
"It's also about learning to listen and understand. I added.
He smiled, "That's right, it's the first step in starting over." ”
I smiled too, and the weight of my heart seemed to be much lighter. The 12 years of the Cold War have made us lose too much, but it has also made us cherish each other more. From now on, we need to start anew, to fill the rifts of those years with love and understanding.
"So, shouldn't we celebrate this momentous occasion?" I proposed.
He stood up and hugged me tightly with his outstretched arms, "Yes, we should celebrate." From today onwards, we will work together to make our relationship better. ”
In his arms, I felt a sense of warmth and security that I had not felt for a long time. The 12-year Cold War has finally come to an end at this moment. Although there is still a long way to go, I know that as long as we work together, we will be able to overcome all difficulties and move towards a better future.
The Cold War lasted for 12 years, and we both suffered too much pain and regret for each other. But when we decided to let go of the past and start anew, the wounds and rifts of those years were slowly healing. I believe that in the days to come, we will cherish each other more and work harder to manage our relationship.
That evening we cooked a hearty dinner together and toasted to this momentous occasion, ending this long and painful chapter with laughter and at the same time, opening a new chapter in life.
In the days that followed, we began to try to communicate and understand more. Whenever we encounter a problem or disagreement, we sit down and communicate calmly and find a solution together. Although there were quarrels and grievances along the way, each reconciliation made our relationship stronger.
As time passed, we gradually regained the feeling of loving each other, and the Cold War of those years seemed to have become a distant past. We began to plan for the future together, share the moments of life together, and strive to create more happiness and joy for each other.
I know that this experience will be a valuable asset in our lives, and it will make us more aware of the importance of communication and understanding. In the future, we will also walk through every moment hand in hand and meet the challenges and beauty of life together.
Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, we have passed the first year after the Cold War. This year, we seem to be in love again, and every day is full of freshness and sweetness.
In the morning, when the sun shines through the curtains into the bedroom, I see his gentle gaze watching me. He said softly, "Good morning, my love." "At that moment, I felt like the happiest woman in the world.
In the evenings, we would cook together, watch TV, and share our joys and sorrows. Sometimes, we reminisce about those Cold War days and look at each other and smile. Those pain and estrangements in the past have now become reasons for us to cherish each other more.
On weekends, we go for walks and mountain climbs together to enjoy the tranquility and beauty of nature. At the top of the mountain, we would hug each other tightly, as if we wanted to integrate each other into our lives. At that moment, I deeply felt the power of love.
Of course, life can't always be smooth sailing. Sometimes, we still quarrel over small things, but we have learned how to control our emotions and how to communicate and solve problems. Each reconciliation makes us more mature and more appreciative.
Now, we are no longer afraid to face any problems. Because we know that as long as we trust and support each other, nothing can stop us from moving forward.
Looking back, we can't help but sigh at the magic of time. The 12 years of the Cold War made us almost forget that each other existed, but when we decided to start over, the pain and regret of those years turned into motivation to move forward. We have learned to cherish, to understand, and to love.
We still have a long way to go in the future. However, as long as we hold hands and connect hearts, we will be able to overcome every obstacle and meet every challenge. We look forward to the days to come and look forward to more happiness and joy.
"I love you. I said to him, with a determined glint in my eyes.
He held my hand tightly, "I love you too, and I will always love you." ”
In the light of love, we move forward hand in hand towards a better future. Every sunrise and sunset, every wind and clouds, witnesses our growth and transformation. Those cold wars and estrangements have now turned into the most profound lessons in our hearts, making us more aware that love needs communication, understanding, tolerance and trust. We support each other, face the challenges of life together, and share every ordinary and warm moment together. There is still a long way to go, but we are convinced that as long as we have love and each other in our hearts, we can move forward bravely and create a happy chapter that belongs to us. Because, we have learned how to love, how to cherish, and understand better that true love is more firm and deep after experiencing wind and rain.
In the baptism of love, we walk together more firmly, and every smile and every eye meeting is full of endless warmth and tacit understanding. Every bit of life, whether it is joy or difficulty, we are willing to share and bear together. We know that true love is not about looking for a perfect person, but about learning to appreciate an imperfect person with a perfect eye. In our eyes, the other party is the unique and irreplaceable existence. In the days to come, we will continue to work hand in hand to write our own wonderful story. Because, we have found each other, found the deepest love and happiness.
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